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Child Care — Hamilton L9C, Ontario

Hamilton L9C, Ontario

10+ years experience

I am an Early Childhood Educator working in Kindergarten full time daily until 3:45 p.m.. I am a former Child Care Supervisor and have experience with infants to school age. I’m available in the evenings (as my husband is working afternoon shift Mon – Th) and part time full days in the summer (as I am booked with other families). I am also available the occasional weekend. I am a mother of a 20 yr old daughter and 22 yr old son who both attend university. I am also comfortable being around pets as we have a Golden Retriever and 2 cats. I am LGBTQ+ friendly. Don’t hesitate to send me a message.
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Child Care — Kingsville N9Y, Ontario

Kingsville N9Y, Ontario

5 years experience

I love kids and I hope to work with them. I have taught elementary school for 5 years and am now looking for a bot of a change. I am energetic and get along well with kids. I am willing to help cook, clean and do some basic housekeeping. I also have First Aid and CPR training.
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Child Care — Montreal h4A, Quebec

Montreal h4A, Quebec

4 years experience

Hello I am currently working at a daycare during the day working with children between ages 12 months and 4 years. I also have a lot of babysitting experience, I baby seated an 18 months old girl a 3 month old baby until he was 5 months ´. I also worked at a day camp as a camp counsellor for children aged 4-10 years. I have also baby sitter a lot of my neighbours children . I am currently a univer Student studying child studies and my favour Course right now is Play. Of which we learn different ways in which we can engage with children in play in order for them to learn and develop. I would like to put into practice what I am learning about early childhood education and also my past skills in order to be the best babysitter right now.

I also have experience in housekeeping both hotels and homes. So I can help à with meal prep and light cleaning if necessary.
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Guelph N1H, Ontario

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I am a 38 year old South African with 18 years experience. I am qualified in SA to work with children. I was with my previous family who have 2 children for almost 12 years. I also worked with a mentally handicapped 31 year old and been caring for him for the past 6 years

I’m a qualified PSW from conestoga college.

If you have any questions please feel free to contact me.
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Child Care — Calgary T2E, Alberta

Calgary T2E, Alberta

10+ years experience

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I am an active, fit, energetic mature mother and grandmother who has raised 11 of my own children, some with special needs, who now range between 16-37 years in age. I have also worked with children in educational, healthcare, and faith community settings. I love and enjoy children, as well as being a support to parents and families. I am interested in doing casual, occasional childcare and short term full or part time stints (while regular caregiver is on vacation or mother is ill, etc….) I have a current passport and am open to travelling as family support.
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The average babysitting cost in Australia

How much do you pay a babysitter in Australia in 2023 and how much can you ask for babysitting per hour? Find out the prices for babysitting in your area and how you can determine your own babysitting costs and rates.

You’re almost there, you’ve found a trustworthy babysitter who’s going to come babysit for the first time soon. You only need to decide the hourly rate for babysitting, but how much are you going to offer them? What is the average cost for babysitting in Australia? And how do you determine what the babysitting rate should be? Don’t panic, we’ve created this thorough, and simple guide to help you!

• What is the average babysitting rate in Australia?
• How much should I pay the babysitter?
• What is the average babysitting rate worldwide?

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What is the average babysitting rate in Australia?

The average babysitting rate in Australia in 2022 is $22. 94 per hour, based on our data of thousands of babysitters.

This shows an increase from the average babysitting cost per hour in 2022 ($21.74/hour).

However, the babysitting rate varies based on where you are in Australia. So, we’ve taken a look at babysitters in different cities around the country! Babysitting prices in Sydney were the highest, here parents could expect to pay in the range of $23.68. On the other hand, Perth and Darwin had the lowest average babysitting costs (of the largest cities in Australia), with the average rate that babysitters earned per hour was around $22.70.

Babysitting costs in the most populous cities in Australia

Babysitting rates in Sydney

Childcare costs in Sydney are slightly above the average childcare costs across Australia. Specifically, the average babysitting rate in Sydney is $23.68 per hour. This is higher than the average of babysitting rate across the country.

Babysitting rates in Melbourne

Wondering how much a babysitter costs in Melbourne? Babysitters in Melbourne are paid on average slightly less than those in Sydney. The average babysitting rate in Melbourne is $23.47, still above the country wide average.

Babysitting rates in Brisbane

And, what do you pay a babysitter per hour in Brisbane? Here, the average babysitting rates are $23.25. The trend of babysitting rate in Brisbane almost directly follows that of the average across the country, increasing from the 2021 rate of $18.72.

Babysitting rates in Perth

In Perth, the average cost for an hour of babysitting is $22.72, slightly below the country-wide average.

Babysitting rates in Canberra

Babysitting in Australia’s capitol, Canberra, costs around $23.06 per hour. This is quite close to, the country wide average, only ~12 cents above.

Interested in how much the average babysitter is paid in other areas around Australia? Have a look at our infographic for more detailed information!

Babysitting costs per state/territory in Australia

The average hourly cost for babysitting differs in each state/territory:

• New South Wales: $23. 13
• Queensland: $22.93
• Northern Territory: $22.16
• South Australia: $22.60
• West Australia: $22.50
• Tasmania: 22.87
• ACT: 23.28
• Victoria: 23.12

Childcare and Babysitting cost statistics Australia – Previous years

View the infographic for average costs of babysitting from previous years here:

• Babysitting rates au 2021
• Babysitting rates au 2022

Do keep in mind that this is simply the average babysitting rate. Other factors such as the number of children, additional tasks, and amount of experience also have an impact on how much a babysitter may cost. Want to learn more about how exactly these factors can impact the babysitting rate? Read more about determining how much to pay the babysitter below!

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How much should I pay the babysitter?

On average, babysitters ask around $22. 94/hour for babysitting. However, as we mentioned earlier this can differ depending on the babysitter and situation. Factors such as knowledge and experience of the babysitter, the number of children, and other tasks that the babysitter may have to do can influence whether the babysitting rate is higher or lower than the average babysitting rate.

Minimum wage

When determining how much to pay the babysitter it is important to first look at the minimum wage and how it applies to the situation. With this, you can see what a person of a certain age is legally entitled to earn. The national minimum wage in Australia is currently $21.38 per hour, however junior employees (someone under the age of 21) have a lower minimum wage rate.

It’s important to keep in mind that factors such as knowledge, experience, and extra responsibilities or requirements can increase the average hourly rate.

Knowledge and experience

As a parent, you make your own decisions about whether you choose a babysitter with more experience, or one who loves children but lacks a bit of experience in babysitting. Knowledge and experience aren’t always related to age. For example, a 21 year old could have just as much experience babysitting as a 16 year old in some cases.

In the end, it depends on what the parent is most comfortable with. As a parent, you can hire a babysitter with less experience and pay them less per hour. Or, you can decide to pay more per hour for a babysitter, because they have 2 years of experience and for example have a background check or first aid certificate.

What are the duties and responsibilities of a babysitter?

Next to ensuring that the children are enjoying themselves and are well looked after, a babysitter can also have extra tasks to perform. The babysitter and parents can coordinate what these extra tasks or responsibilities may be. Extra tasks can potentially increase the babysitting rate significantly.

Household chores

Sometimes, parents prefer that babysitters also take care of some household chores while babysitting. Some examples of this could be vacuuming, cooking, and/or tidying up the house. If the babysitter is open to this, they can certainly agree to carrying out these chores. However, in doing so, the babysitter may ask for a higher rate. These are, of course, extra tasks that they need to do next to the main task of babysitting.

Tutoring or Homework Help

Is the babysitter good at math or history perhaps? If the child they’re babysitting needs help, the babysitter can, next to their general babysitting tasks, also help with the child’s homework.

Pickup and Drop off

As a parent, you can also arrange that the babysitter picks your child up or brings them somewhere. For example, the babysitter can pick the children up from school and bring them to soccer practice. Not every babysitter is so flexible, and because of this the babysitter could ask for a bit extra hourly for this task.

Pet sitting

In 2019-2020, 67% of American households, or 85 million families, had pets (source). So, there is a relatively large chance that the babysitter has to deal with a pet! Along these lines, caring for a pet is an extra task that a babysitter may be responsible for. This may include walking the dog, cleaning the cat’s litter box, brushing the pets’ hair, or caring for and feeding the pet.

Babysitting hours

The babysitting rate can vary depending on the time of day. Many parents pay a babysitter who babysit during the day a bit more than those who work only in the evening. This is because children often are simply sleeping in the evening, and the babysitter only needs to be there in the event that the child wakes up. On the other hand, babysitters who stay past midnight to care for the kids, overnight babysitters, are often paid a bit extra above the normal hourly rate.

Multiple children

Does the babysitter need to care for multiple children? This can increase the rate that a babysitter is paid. This clearly comes associated with the extra responsibility and work of having to look after multiple children.

Ages of the children

Are the children still young and do they still need a lot of supervision? Then the babysitting rate is normally higher than when the children are a bit older and need less supervision. This is because there is a significant difference in the amount of work and responsibilities. Children that are older can already do some things by themselves, such as going to the toilet.

Take a look at the infographic below to see what a babysitter can ask above the normal rate based on these factors.

The babysitting rate per hour needs to be coordinated between the parent and the babysitter. Look at the knowledge, experience, and age of the babysitter and discuss extra tasks that the babysitter is responsible for. This way you can put together a fair babysitting rate!

What is the average babysitting rate worldwide?

There are babysitters who choose to go work as a babysitter abroad! This can be for example as a side job while studying abroad, as an au pair, or those who simply choose to do so as an expat. There are also parents who need to look for babysitters abroad, for example when traveling or moving to another country.

Luckily, you can easily use your Babysits profile to find babysitting work and babysitters across 80+ countries.

Whether you’re looking for a babysitter abroad, looking for babysitting work abroad, or simply just interested in how the global average babysitting rates differ per country (based on the countries where we’re active), we’ve compiled them for you below.

After comparing the average babysitting rates per country, we can see that Australia has a relatively high babysitting rate. Countries with similar rates included New Zealand, Switzerland, and the United States. The highest babysitting rate is in Switzerland, where babysitters are paid around $29 aud per hour.

Do keep in mind that these changes in average hourly wages, between babysitters in different countries, are in part due to the differences in cost of living and income between the countries. For example, even though babysitters in Switzerland earn the most, the average prices of products and services there are also higher than in some of the other countries listed.

Now that you know how much the average babysitter is paid in Australia, it’s time to get started! Find the perfect babysitting job or babysitter near you. We also have fantastic nannies at Babysits, so be sure to use our nanny serach function to find nanny services today.

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Immigration for nannies and carers to Canada in 2023: programs and requirements

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Details about the programs for immigration to nannies and carers – Home Child Care Provider Pilot and Home Support Worker Pilot: selection criteria, application process.

April 30, 2023

The program now requires only 12 months of experience in Canada, instead of 24.

January 17, 2022

The program for 2022 is closed because 2750 applications have already been sent in 17 days of this year – the annual quota.

January 2022

Reception of applications has been resumed. In 2022, Canada plans to invite 2,750 people under this program.

April 2021

Reception of new applications for the pilot programs described in the article is suspended due to the recruitment of the required number of candidates. Programs will reopen on January 1, 2022.

New pilot programs are often opened in Canada, including for the immigration of nannies and carers.

At the moment there are 2 directions. Now they are closed and will open only in 2024.

1. Home Child Care Provider Pilot .

   This category includes occupations in NOC 44100 – childcare at home. Foster care experience is not taken into account.

2. Home Support Worker Pilot .

   This category includes occupations in NOC 44101 Home support for the elderly and people with disabilities. Housekeeping experience is not considered.

Programs were launched on June 18, 2019 and are designed for 5 years.

The basic requirement is to find a Canadian employer to work under one of the NOCs above.

The main benefit is that the employer does not need to obtain an LMIA to hire you. This simplifies the job search process in Canada.

The process of applying to immigrate as a nanny or carer will depend on your experience.

Babysitting At Home

It is very important for parents to find the best nanny possible for their little ones. The family’s home is where the babies and young children are cared for by a qualified nanny. Designated as a professional babysitter, she performs her childcare duties, gives each family member’s child individual attention, supports kids with active learning tasks and social activities, and assists moms in all areas. At Justlife, you will find the best babysitter wanted in your area, easily. Professional babysitting services care for kids of all ages, from infants to those in school, and can provide tailored services for particular age ranges or kids with special needs. Based on the agreement with the parents, the nanny service we offer will aid your child’s development and help you find some free time for yourself. 

 

 

 A babysitter typically provides day-to-day, part-time, or full-time care for the child while they are at home. Typical babysitter tasks consist of:

• Assistance and supervision of children at the workplace

• Preparing infant nutrition products

• Preparing a variety of snacks for kids

• Preparing food for bottle-fed children

• Supporting education

• Getting ready

• Baby toilet training and diaper changes

• Know the fundamentals, and assist with homework 

• Recognize and engage in pastimes like games, crafts, comics, outings, and exercise

• To rear disciplined kids using the techniques that parents demand

• Supporting kids in their extracurricular activities

• Ensuring that kids are always moving around

• As requested by parents, monitor the children’s activities during mealtimes and Downtime, and alert them if anything negative happens

• Educating kids about social skills and personal hygiene

• Keeping track of each child’s daily activities and health information

• Taking note of children’s emotional comfort and wellbeing

• Watch how kids behave and write up reports for the parents.

• Knowledge of the child’s medical background

• Training in wearing clothes and bathing

• Aiding in the development and acquisition of language

• Introduce educational games that are suited to their level of development and Intelligence

• Introducing numbers, letters, and colors

• Art and craft projects

• Sort and make the beds for the kids.

 

Depending on the situation and the parents’ consent, babysitting at home may also help with other parental duties. Among them are;

 

• Keeping the kitchen clean

• Preparing the king beds

• Washing the family’s clothes

• Washing towels and bed linens

• Preparing dinner for the family

• Cleaning up the house.

• Purchasing supplies or clothing for the kids

• Kitchen cabinet organization

• Taking the family’s vehicle to the petrol station, car wash, and repair facility

• Plan and oversee home maintenance and repair services.

• Taking care of indoor plants

 

The duties of a home babysitting service are summed simply in changing diapers, watching a sleeping child, making meals, and engaging in games.

 

Our babysitters possess extraordinary abilities in the areas of care, interaction, diligence, responsibility, association, education, and coaching, as well as regulated work skills like flexibility.

 

 

Why Should You Take Babysitting Services From Justlife’s Professional Babysitters?

 

An excellent babysitter should be patient, empathetic, peaceful, sociable, truthful, loving children, heartfelt, reliable, and totally open to interaction. When you decide that you are searching for a babysitter, we send you people who are properly competent for doing their job, who have received the necessary training, and who genuinely enjoy doing this important job of babysitting.

We are aware of how much you adore your child and are willing to do anything for them. We are here to help you because we want to make your life simpler and bring you some relief.

In an emergency, a qualified and trained babysitter should remain composed and think of the best options for your child. At this spot, expert babysitters should also have training and knowledge in child development. We at Justlife’s Professional Babysitters only hire well-trained, compassionate individuals to be your child’s nanny. We believe you won’t regret picking a nanny from a pool of gifted individuals who can develop a loving relationship with children.

 

 

How to Find the Best Babysitter/Nanny for You?

 

You can find a babysitter easily. All of our caregivers are skilled and experienced. They are friendly, dependable, and totally open to interaction. We hire professional caregivers who love kids above all else in order to provide you with the best service. 

All of our nannies have childcare expertise, are trained in pediatric first aid, and are confirmed as caregivers. They have the skills necessary to take care of kids of all ages, even newborns. You can get in touch with us so that we can give your child the best care possible.

 

 

How Much Is The Babysitting Service at Home?

 

Your child means the world to you, as we all know. Therefore, we aim to give you and your child the chance to improve the quality of your lives. Our babysitting prices are set depending on the period of babysitting. You can check our website or app to view them.

 

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Choosing and Instructing a Babysitter (for Parents)

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Medically reviewed by: Yamini Durani, MD

Primary Care Pediatrics at Nemours Children’s Health

Finding a qualified babysitter takes time and effort. But your reward is knowing that your child is in capable hands. You’ll want to find someone who is mature and friendly, has common sense, and is genuinely fond of children.

The recommendations of people you know and trust are your best bet for finding a reliable and capable babysitter. If you’re new to the area and don’t know how to find a sitter:

• Your neighbors or coworkers might have recommendations.
• Ask at your place of worship.
• See if staff in your pediatrician’s office has suggestions.
• Check with your local YMCA, community hospital, or American Red Cross chapter for a list of babysitters. Many will have completed a babysitting safety and infant and child CPR courses.
• If your child is in a daycare or after-school care program, ask staff members if they babysit or have recommendations.

Interviewing sitters and checking their references will help you narrow down your choices. Prepare a list of questions to ask ahead of time.

Ask sitters:

• about their experience caring for kids 
• whether they’re certified in infant and child CPR
• if they’ve taken a babysitter course
• how they feel about pets, if you have one

It’s a good idea to invite sitters over for a test run while you’re at home. That way, they can get familiar with your household and you’ll see how they interact with your children.

Babysitter Instructions

Before you leave, prepare the sitter. Be sure to:

• Go over your child’s usual routine (homework, bedtime, meal times). Talk about your general house rules, including any limits on TV, computer use, video games, playing outside, etc.
• Tell the sitter where you will be and how to reach you at all times, and under what circumstances to call 911 before contacting you.
• Show the sitter where you’ve posted the poison control center number — 1-800-222-1222. It should be somewhere easy to see and find.
• Make sure the sitter knows whom to contact in an emergency. Provide an emergency phone list that includes:
  • neighbors
  • friends
  • relatives
  • your doctor
• Text or write your own phone number and address. That way, if there’s an emergency, the sitter can give that information to the 911 operator.
• Show the babysitter where emergency exits, smoke detectors, and fire extinguishers are.
• Show the sitter how to enable and disable security systems and alarms, if you have them.
• Show the sitter where you keep the inside door keys in case a child locks himself or herself inside a room.
• Let the sitter know of any special problems your child may have, such as:
  • an allergy (to bee stings, a food etc.)
  • needing to take a medicine at a specific time (explain and write down the directions)
• Review your first-aid kit with the sitter.

Teach kids how to use 911 to call for help, so that if something happens to your babysitter, they know what to do.

Let your babysitter know your expectations before you leave. If you’d prefer that the sitter not leave the house with your child, make that clear. If the babysitter drives, ask about their driving experience, and let them know the rules about driving your kids. If visitors are off-limits, discuss those restrictions.

Sitter Safety

Make sure the sitter knows these safety rules:

• Don’t give your child any medicine without your specific instruction.
• Don’t leave kids alone in the house or yard, even for a minute.
• Don’t leave kids unattended near water. Infants and small children can drown in only a few inches of water, even in a bucket or toilet.

If you have kids under 4 years old, the babysitter should know these rules:

• Don’t feed them popcorn, nuts, hard candy, raw carrots, or any hard, smooth foods that can block the windpipe and cause choking.  
• Don’t serve foods such as hot dogs or grapes whole. They should be chopped into very small pieces, and the skin removed from hot dogs.
• Don’t let kids play with plastic bags, latex balloons, coins, or other small objects that they could choke on.
• Don’t let kids play near stairs, windows, stoves, or electrical outlets.

After you return, ask your kids if they enjoyed the sitter’s visit. When you find a reliable sitter they like, you’re sure to have a more relaxing and enjoyable time away from home.

Medically reviewed by: Yamini Durani, MD

Date reviewed: March 2023

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Nanny in the house: pros and cons

When a woman is expecting a baby, her fantasy paints idyllic pictures: how together with the baby they learn the first words, read colorful books, play, laugh – and everything is like in a fairy tale. But the reality looks a little different: a young mother really needs help in caring for a child.

In addition, after some time after the arrival of a new family member, many mothers go to work. And then the question arises: with whom to leave the crumbs for the whole day? With Grandma? Well, if she is and wants to fully deal with her grandson. But an elderly woman is no longer able to spend every day from morning to evening with a playful fidget. There is only one way out – to hire a good nanny.

However, good nannies don’t lie on the road. On TV every now and then they tell crime stories about nannies-pests, and the thought that someone else will be with your baby causes serious excitement. Even at the interview, the mother has a question: is it true that the nanny will be so sweet and kind when she is left alone with the baby? After all, a small child cannot yet complain; how to protect it?

But if stories worthy of a TV show rarely happen, then in ordinary life, communication between mother and nanny does not always go smoothly at first. For example, they may not have the same pedagogical methods and views on the subtleties of education. A professional nanny believes that it is time to put the child on the potty and wean it from the pacifier, but this does not seem necessary to the mother yet; she has other plans. The mother says that it is necessary to punish the child for the offense by depriving the cartoons, and the nanny believes that it is enough to discuss the situation with the child. And there will be many such moments during the period of adaptation of the nanny to the family and the child. Most mothers really want the nanny to simply perform tasks, and not implement their own strategies for raising and caring for children, so it is important for such mothers to find a like-minded person and performer, and for those who want to completely trust in the hands of a professional, find an initiative nanny who will herself recommend parenting strategies.

Statistics also show that many young mothers consider that one of the disadvantages of having a nanny in the house is that the child gets used to her. Even in the evening, he can happily remember her, wants a cheesecake baked by her, quotes her words, and even waits for her “more than necessary.” But if the nanny is so indifferent to the child that after her departure he does not even remember her, then this is a bad nanny – an automatic machine.

But perhaps the most important disadvantage of a nanny is the need to pay for her services. And a really good babysitter is expensive. And this is often quite noticeable for the family budget. And yet…

More benefits!

You can get around any pitfalls if you choose a good nanny with extensive experience and, most importantly, with a good heart. At the interview, any mother will immediately feel whether the nanny really loves children, or just wants to earn money. You are insured against dubious applicants if you choose a nanny through a domestic staff agency. Women with proven recommendations, “admitted” to work with children by an experienced psychologist, will come to you for an interview.

If you are still worried about how the nanny behaves in your absence, you can always install video surveillance and watch how the woman hired in the house communicates with the baby for some time. In addition, in the evening you can understand a lot by the reaction of the child to the nanny. If the baby is happy with her, remembers her in her absence, that’s good. So, while the mother is at work, the child is in good hands.

Perhaps the nanny will offer you her pedagogical strategies, but it is worse if she has no opinion at all about how best to care for the child and how to educate him. The main thing in this case is to try to find a reasonable grain in the words of a professional nanny and agree with her so that your and her actions do not run counter to each other. An experienced nanny is also good because she only offers her ideas, but in the end she does as the child’s parents say. Because it’s their child.

Now private kindergartens have become very popular, where groups of 6-8 people are recruited. Of course, these are no longer the old Soviet institutions, where it was necessary to drink milk with foam. However, when a small child is at home with his toys, he is much more comfortable. He lives in accordance with his biorhythms – eats, sleeps and plays when he wants. This is the most important thing for the health and development of your crumbs. In addition, the nanny devotes all her time to only one baby. In the future, this will have a beneficial effect on its development.

And, of course, we should not forget how much the nanny helps her mother, removing many worries from her shoulders. The nanny will wash, iron the linen, feed and put the baby to bed, read a book to him, play games with him, teach him new skills. While mom would run around the house, doing all the other things along the way, the nanny devotes all her time to the baby entirely.

Yes, a nanny is at first an unfamiliar woman in your house, but soon she will become a close person who, respecting you, loves her pupil with all her heart, rejoicing at his every achievement. The main thing is to choose “your” person from all the candidates. Then you will be calm for your baby.

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Where does the nanny usually work: at home or should the child be taken to her?

Where does he usually work …

May 24, 2010, 11:24 am

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May 24, 2010, 13:00

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Guest

In no case should children be taken to someone else’s house

May 24, 2010, 13:34

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May 24, 2010 13:42

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Gaby

Yes, I also don’t understand why a nanny can’t take children into her house. And if she has a house with a lawn and a swimming pool, in nature, where will the child be a hundred times better than in a stuffy apartment, especially in summer?

May 24, 2010, 2:02 pm

#7

Xanele

babysitters for children under one year old don’t necessarily come home either. on the contrary, I was looking for a kindergarten at home (max. 2-3 children with a nanny). We have been sending our daughter there for several hours since her three weeks. everyone is very happy.

May 24, 2010, 14:36 ​​

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In no case should children be taken to someone else’s house

and why ? you can, pliz, in more detail, just wondering… 9May 24, 2010 why? you can, pliz, in more detail, just wondering … Because the child is oriented in his house, there are neighbors, it’s all on “if anything.” And it is not clear where to take a child to someone else’s house is dangerous.

May 24, 2010, 04:50 PM

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Jel

well, lip is not a fool.. first, will a madam with such living conditions work as a nanny..? I strongly doubt that nannies can afford this at all .. and secondly, let’s say this happened – why does she need such a WORK at home if she doesn’t have her own children? it’s one thing to return from work to a clean house .. and the second … to clean up the mess, in connection with … IS IT NECESSARY? A child is such a thing, he can break something … spill … splatter … paint spoil an expensive coating .. -floor-carpet-walls-curtains (it is clear that you need to follow, but it happens for everyone). it’s not a shame if this happens at his house .. IT HAPPENS. but if she had … if there hadn’t been a child, it wouldn’t have happened. 9Yes , there was a case

10, There are many wealthy women who have nothing to do and they go to babysitting for self-realization – nonsense! such women give birth to children for themselves. 3-6 children each and look after them themselves and develop and develop. babysitting is hard work, it’s domestic staff, no social security. you can’t get sick, there is little free time, often you need to be ready to go out to work at any time of the day. 9Material source

My daughter goes to a nanny after school, a woman with her 2 children, a house and a garden, in the summer an inflatable pool, small, really. We don’t have extensions here unfortunately. So there are nannies. Let me just say that, as a rule, these are women of a certain type who have never worked in any other way. If I had a choice, I would choose a better prolongation .. So far we have it. My daughter is not particularly happy, I have been looking for another option since August.

June 30, 2010, 23:57

#15

We applied to the OGO-Doctor clinic (Moscow), they selected a nanny for us, and they tested whether this nanny would suit our family.

Babysitting At Home

It is very important for parents to find the best nanny possible for their little ones. The family’s home is where the babies and young children are cared for by a qualified nanny. Designated as a professional babysitter, she performs her childcare duties, gives each family member’s child individual attention, supports kids with active learning tasks and social activities, and assists moms in all areas. At Justlife, you will find the best babysitter wanted in your area, easily. Professional babysitting services care for kids of all ages, from infants to those in school, and can provide tailored services for particular age ranges or kids with special needs. Based on the agreement with the parents, the nanny service we offer will aid your child’s development and help you find some free time for yourself. 

 

 

 A babysitter typically provides day-to-day, part-time, or full-time care for the child while they are at home. Typical babysitter tasks consist of:

• Assistance and supervision of children at the workplace

• Preparing infant nutrition products

• Preparing a variety of snacks for kids

• Preparing food for bottle-fed children

• Supporting education

• Getting ready

• Baby toilet training and diaper changes

• Know the fundamentals, and assist with homework 

• Recognize and engage in pastimes like games, crafts, comics, outings, and exercise

• To rear disciplined kids using the techniques that parents demand

• Supporting kids in their extracurricular activities

• Ensuring that kids are always moving around

• As requested by parents, monitor the children’s activities during mealtimes and Downtime, and alert them if anything negative happens

• Educating kids about social skills and personal hygiene

• Keeping track of each child’s daily activities and health information

• Taking note of children’s emotional comfort and wellbeing

• Watch how kids behave and write up reports for the parents.

• Knowledge of the child’s medical background

• Training in wearing clothes and bathing

• Aiding in the development and acquisition of language

• Introduce educational games that are suited to their level of development and Intelligence

• Introducing numbers, letters, and colors

• Art and craft projects

• Sort and make the beds for the kids.

 

Depending on the situation and the parents’ consent, babysitting at home may also help with other parental duties. Among them are;

 

• Keeping the kitchen clean

• Preparing the king beds

• Washing the family’s clothes

• Washing towels and bed linens

• Preparing dinner for the family

• Cleaning up the house.

• Purchasing supplies or clothing for the kids

• Kitchen cabinet organization

• Taking the family’s vehicle to the petrol station, car wash, and repair facility

• Plan and oversee home maintenance and repair services.

• Taking care of indoor plants

 

The duties of a home babysitting service are summed simply in changing diapers, watching a sleeping child, making meals, and engaging in games.

 

Our babysitters possess extraordinary abilities in the areas of care, interaction, diligence, responsibility, association, education, and coaching, as well as regulated work skills like flexibility.

 

 

Why Should You Take Babysitting Services From Justlife’s Professional Babysitters?

 

An excellent babysitter should be patient, empathetic, peaceful, sociable, truthful, loving children, heartfelt, reliable, and totally open to interaction. When you decide that you are searching for a babysitter, we send you people who are properly competent for doing their job, who have received the necessary training, and who genuinely enjoy doing this important job of babysitting.

We are aware of how much you adore your child and are willing to do anything for them. We are here to help you because we want to make your life simpler and bring you some relief.

In an emergency, a qualified and trained babysitter should remain composed and think of the best options for your child. At this spot, expert babysitters should also have training and knowledge in child development. We at Justlife’s Professional Babysitters only hire well-trained, compassionate individuals to be your child’s nanny. We believe you won’t regret picking a nanny from a pool of gifted individuals who can develop a loving relationship with children.

 

 

How to Find the Best Babysitter/Nanny for You?

 

You can find a babysitter easily. All of our caregivers are skilled and experienced. They are friendly, dependable, and totally open to interaction. We hire professional caregivers who love kids above all else in order to provide you with the best service. 

All of our nannies have childcare expertise, are trained in pediatric first aid, and are confirmed as caregivers. They have the skills necessary to take care of kids of all ages, even newborns. You can get in touch with us so that we can give your child the best care possible.

 

 

How Much Is The Babysitting Service at Home?

 

Your child means the world to you, as we all know. Therefore, we aim to give you and your child the chance to improve the quality of your lives. Our babysitting prices are set depending on the period of babysitting. You can check our website or app to view them.

 

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Choosing and Instructing a Babysitter (for Parents)

en español: Elegir e instruir a una persona para que cuide de su hijo

Medically reviewed by: Yamini Durani, MD

Primary Care Pediatrics at Nemours Children’s Health

Finding a qualified babysitter takes time and effort. But your reward is knowing that your child is in capable hands. You’ll want to find someone who is mature and friendly, has common sense, and is genuinely fond of children.

The recommendations of people you know and trust are your best bet for finding a reliable and capable babysitter. If you’re new to the area and don’t know how to find a sitter:

• Your neighbors or coworkers might have recommendations.
• Ask at your place of worship.
• See if staff in your pediatrician’s office has suggestions.
• Check with your local YMCA, community hospital, or American Red Cross chapter for a list of babysitters. Many will have completed a babysitting safety and infant and child CPR courses.
• If your child is in a daycare or after-school care program, ask staff members if they babysit or have recommendations.

Interviewing sitters and checking their references will help you narrow down your choices. Prepare a list of questions to ask ahead of time.

Ask sitters:

• about their experience caring for kids 
• whether they’re certified in infant and child CPR
• if they’ve taken a babysitter course
• how they feel about pets, if you have one

It’s a good idea to invite sitters over for a test run while you’re at home. That way, they can get familiar with your household and you’ll see how they interact with your children.

Babysitter Instructions

Before you leave, prepare the sitter. Be sure to:

• Go over your child’s usual routine (homework, bedtime, meal times). Talk about your general house rules, including any limits on TV, computer use, video games, playing outside, etc.
• Tell the sitter where you will be and how to reach you at all times, and under what circumstances to call 911 before contacting you.
• Show the sitter where you’ve posted the poison control center number — 1-800-222-1222. It should be somewhere easy to see and find.
• Make sure the sitter knows whom to contact in an emergency. Provide an emergency phone list that includes:
  • neighbors
  • friends
  • relatives
  • your doctor
• Text or write your own phone number and address. That way, if there’s an emergency, the sitter can give that information to the 911 operator.
• Show the babysitter where emergency exits, smoke detectors, and fire extinguishers are.
• Show the sitter how to enable and disable security systems and alarms, if you have them.
• Show the sitter where you keep the inside door keys in case a child locks himself or herself inside a room.
• Let the sitter know of any special problems your child may have, such as:
  • an allergy (to bee stings, a food etc.)
  • needing to take a medicine at a specific time (explain and write down the directions)
• Review your first-aid kit with the sitter.

Teach kids how to use 911 to call for help, so that if something happens to your babysitter, they know what to do.

Let your babysitter know your expectations before you leave. If you’d prefer that the sitter not leave the house with your child, make that clear. If the babysitter drives, ask about their driving experience, and let them know the rules about driving your kids. If visitors are off-limits, discuss those restrictions.

Sitter Safety

Make sure the sitter knows these safety rules:

• Don’t give your child any medicine without your specific instruction.
• Don’t leave kids alone in the house or yard, even for a minute.
• Don’t leave kids unattended near water. Infants and small children can drown in only a few inches of water, even in a bucket or toilet.

If you have kids under 4 years old, the babysitter should know these rules:

• Don’t feed them popcorn, nuts, hard candy, raw carrots, or any hard, smooth foods that can block the windpipe and cause choking.  
• Don’t serve foods such as hot dogs or grapes whole. They should be chopped into very small pieces, and the skin removed from hot dogs.
• Don’t let kids play with plastic bags, latex balloons, coins, or other small objects that they could choke on.
• Don’t let kids play near stairs, windows, stoves, or electrical outlets.

After you return, ask your kids if they enjoyed the sitter’s visit. When you find a reliable sitter they like, you’re sure to have a more relaxing and enjoyable time away from home.

Medically reviewed by: Yamini Durani, MD

Date reviewed: March 2023

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Nanny in the house: pros and cons

When a woman is expecting a baby, her fantasy paints idyllic pictures: how together with the baby they learn the first words, read colorful books, play, laugh – and everything is like in a fairy tale. But the reality looks a little different: a young mother really needs help in caring for a child.

In addition, after some time after the arrival of a new family member, many mothers go to work. And then the question arises: with whom to leave the crumbs for the whole day? With Grandma? Well, if she is and wants to fully deal with her grandson. But an elderly woman is no longer able to spend every day from morning to evening with a playful fidget. There is only one way out – to hire a good nanny.

However, good nannies don’t lie on the road. On TV every now and then they tell crime stories about nannies-pests, and the thought that someone else will be with your baby causes serious excitement. Even at the interview, the mother has a question: is it true that the nanny will be so sweet and kind when she is left alone with the baby? After all, a small child cannot yet complain; how to protect it?

But if stories worthy of a TV show rarely happen, then in ordinary life, communication between mother and nanny does not always go smoothly at first. For example, they may not have the same pedagogical methods and views on the subtleties of education. A professional nanny believes that it is time to put the child on the potty and wean it from the pacifier, but this does not seem necessary to the mother yet; she has other plans. The mother says that it is necessary to punish the child for the offense by depriving the cartoons, and the nanny believes that it is enough to discuss the situation with the child. And there will be many such moments during the period of adaptation of the nanny to the family and the child. Most mothers really want the nanny to simply perform tasks, and not implement their own strategies for raising and caring for children, so it is important for such mothers to find a like-minded person and performer, and for those who want to completely trust in the hands of a professional, find an initiative nanny who will herself recommend parenting strategies.

Statistics also show that many young mothers consider that one of the disadvantages of having a nanny in the house is that the child gets used to her. Even in the evening, he can happily remember her, wants a cheesecake baked by her, quotes her words, and even waits for her “more than necessary.” But if the nanny is so indifferent to the child that after her departure he does not even remember her, then this is a bad nanny – an automatic machine.

But perhaps the most important disadvantage of a nanny is the need to pay for her services. And a really good babysitter is expensive. And this is often quite noticeable for the family budget. And yet…

More benefits!

You can get around any pitfalls if you choose a good nanny with extensive experience and, most importantly, with a good heart. At the interview, any mother will immediately feel whether the nanny really loves children, or just wants to earn money. You are insured against dubious applicants if you choose a nanny through a domestic staff agency. Women with proven recommendations, “admitted” to work with children by an experienced psychologist, will come to you for an interview.

If you are still worried about how the nanny behaves in your absence, you can always install video surveillance and watch how the woman hired in the house communicates with the baby for some time. In addition, in the evening you can understand a lot by the reaction of the child to the nanny. If the baby is happy with her, remembers her in her absence, that’s good. So, while the mother is at work, the child is in good hands.

Perhaps the nanny will offer you her pedagogical strategies, but it is worse if she has no opinion at all about how best to care for the child and how to educate him. The main thing in this case is to try to find a reasonable grain in the words of a professional nanny and agree with her so that your and her actions do not run counter to each other. An experienced nanny is also good because she only offers her ideas, but in the end she does as the child’s parents say. Because it’s their child.

Now private kindergartens have become very popular, where groups of 6-8 people are recruited. Of course, these are no longer the old Soviet institutions, where it was necessary to drink milk with foam. However, when a small child is at home with his toys, he is much more comfortable. He lives in accordance with his biorhythms – eats, sleeps and plays when he wants. This is the most important thing for the health and development of your crumbs. In addition, the nanny devotes all her time to only one baby. In the future, this will have a beneficial effect on its development.

And, of course, we should not forget how much the nanny helps her mother, removing many worries from her shoulders. The nanny will wash, iron the linen, feed and put the baby to bed, read a book to him, play games with him, teach him new skills. While mom would run around the house, doing all the other things along the way, the nanny devotes all her time to the baby entirely.

Yes, a nanny is at first an unfamiliar woman in your house, but soon she will become a close person who, respecting you, loves her pupil with all her heart, rejoicing at his every achievement. The main thing is to choose “your” person from all the candidates. Then you will be calm for your baby.

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Nanny in the house: how to avoid problems?

A governess or a nanny is a common occurrence today. But for
Soviet times, we have lost the traditions and culture of communication with visitors
assistants. How to choose a nanny? How to behave with her?
Advice is given by experts.

Before you search, decide on a work schedule. For babysitter
working 5 days a week, from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m., fixed is more convenient
wage. As a result, the hourly pay will be less than for that
a person whose only job is to pick up the child from the nursery
garden, for example. Check if the nanny can work overtime. And be
ready for the fact that she may not be able to stay at work. IN
in this case, if you often get into traffic jams on the way home – nanny
may quit. And this can happen in the middle of the working week,
For example.

It is necessary to draw up an agreement in which to indicate passport
data, contact numbers of the nanny herself and her relatives (on
emergency), work schedule, amount of payment per month and amount of payment
overtime, and besides – in detail (!) Scheduled duties.

Duties depend on the age of the child. babysitter before
years, a baby up to three years old and a preschooler, as a rule, they are different.

The babysitter must have experience working with newborns,
medical education, master the skills of massage and techniques for providing
first aid. Ask at the interview what she will do in case
if the child, for example, chokes. Having your own child is not a guarantee
that you will have common views. For example, do you prefer to feed
by the hour, and the nanny may consider this a mockery. If the nanny has
the habit of rocking a stroller – the child will get used to it and at night you will
demand that you download it. You can temper, and she, on the contrary,
wrap all the time. If it’s your first child, there will almost certainly be a babysitter.
to guide and guide you. Tell me right away if you want to see a person
proactive or more important rigorous execution of requests.

Nanny of a child under 3 years of age must know the psycho-emotional stages
child development – such as the “crisis of two years” and so on; must
respond appropriately to them. It’s enough for someone to have a child in
this age just was not at home alone, but someone believes that at three
he must speak two languages.

It is necessary to draw up an agreement in which to indicate the data of the nanny,
work schedule, amount of payment and scheduled duties

At this age, as a rule, the following are required:
air; reading books, playing with a child; skills training
self-service; classes on the development of speech and intelligence; conducting
classes in drawing, modeling, learning poems and children’s songs;
visit to the clinic. In addition, the nanny can own modern
learning and development methods such as Montessori. And for them
be ready to pay.

The duties of a nanny for a child up to 6 years of age include the development of creative
abilities and preparation for school. Often added to this
initial study of foreign languages ​​and the first sports sections. Except
In addition, she must be sufficiently erudite, ready to answer
thousands of whys.

If you think that during a child’s daytime sleep, especially
many hours of baby, the nanny must be busy with something, try
agree on cleaning the apartment, cooking, washing and ironing
linen – for an additional fee.

All this should be discussed with the prospective nanny and recorded in
in writing.

Important little things

• On the first day, show where the first aid kit and supplies are
  first aid. Put in a prominent place the list of phone numbers not only
  family members, but also the ZhEK, the children’s emergency room in your area and the attending
  baby doctor. Make a list of friends and relatives who can
  come in your absence and to whom the nanny can open the door.
• Leave some money for unexpected expenses.

Communicate with the nanny in the same way as you communicate with colleagues

• Try to tell the nanny about your personal
  characteristics of family members. For example, a husband prefers to remain silent until
  will drink morning coffee, and the eldest daughter does not like it when her room
  are included. Separately discuss her duties with all relatives. To
  mother-in-law did not ask me to help her roll up jars of jam and did not
  was offended that “the nanny does not allow her grandson to communicate with her.”
• Be scrupulous in financial matters. Pay your salary
  on time, she may be the other person’s only source of income
  and all his family. When inviting to the summer cottage – do not forget to specify right away
  payment of time and money spent on the road, even if the amount
  insignificant. Although it is better, of course, to meet the nanny and take her back.

Natalia Kitsis, nanny with 8 years of experience:

— The first day of work for a nanny is not easy either. Do not forget
designate its “territory”. Give out slippers and select a mug. Show,
where she can change and leave her clothes, have tea, where
sugar and spoons. Warn that she must bring food with her,
and if not, what can he use to have a snack. Explain
how a nanny should behave if you spend time at home,
and the child wants to communicate with you … And if not you, but your husband, and they will
chat or play – should the nanny intervene in this process and
distract the baby? Will her tact in this regard be perceived
child’s father as “inaction”? This is especially important during holidays.
family with a nanny, for example, at sea.

Lyubov Egorova, psychologist at the Barnaul Center for Sociology:

— Do not keep any claims with you and ask for the same
the nanny himself. There should be no misunderstandings between you. Often what is for
us in the order of things, another person finds it offensive or
invalid. For this reason, it is advisable not to entrust this work
friends or, God forbid, relatives.

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones – Happiest Baby

By
Dr. Harvey Karp, MD, FAAP

Do you ever feel like someone is watching you? If your baby is 10 weeks old, you’re absolutely right! At this age, babies adore studying our face! Although your little one has been able to recognize you for weeks, they are increasingly fascinated by all the fun faces you can make. And it doesn’t take long for one of those expressions to prompt a smile from your little admirer.

Whether your newest addition is your first child or has joined a family with big sibs, every baby comes with an adjustment period. Changing diapers, feeding your baby, and maybe even getting out of the house on walks may feel like a breeze by now. But, what about the other ways you used to spend your time before your baby arrived? Although you have a new list of priorities, it’s wise to still put self-care on the schedule and make an effort to spend quality time with your partner and friends.

Not having a babysitter is no reason to skip the date night entirely…babies can be fine restaurant companions! Believe it or not, your baby is a quieter third-wheel at this point than they will be a year or two down the road.  

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Development

Colors, Textures, Shapes—Oh My!

Your baby has been taking in their surroundings from the very beginning. But now they are really starting to make sense of the world around them! By recognizing patterns, seeking out familiar faces, and processing all sorts of sensory information, they are constantly learning.

This is all an important part of your baby’s cognitive development, which is a big term that describes how we pick up, mentally organize, and learn to use knowledge. In other words, it’s all about putting the pieces together! Babies also don’t need anything too fancy to learn a whole bunch. Sensory toys and activities are great for sparking your baby’s curiosity. And that includes those “toys” you already have in your house, like crinkly wrapping paper or shiny kitchen pot. 

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones

There are two (equally important) categories for motor skills: gross motor skills that use large muscles and fine motor skills that use smaller muscles. Those two sets of skills often work in harmony, such as when you lift your arm and wiggle your fingers.

When it comes to your 10-week-old baby, some of the gross motor skills they are actively working on probably include learning to roll, keeping their head and upper torso raised during tummy time, and kicking their legs. During what appear to be calmer moments, they may also be trying hard to master some fine motor skills, such as moving their fingers, raising their hand to their mouth, and whacking out to grab something, like your glasses. Lots of times they intently look at something—as if they would like to grab it—but rather than reach out, their little hands grasp each other, exploring their own entwined fingers.   

Note: Now that your baby is just beginning to reach out and hit their targets, you must be super careful about burns. NEVER have a glass of hot liquid in your hand—or on the table in front of you—when your baby is in your arms or you’re seated at the table.

Future Baby Milestones to Watch

Your baby is currently between well-child visits (which is when your provider will assess your little one’s development), but at your next check-up (which occurs at 4 months), your provider will likely ask you about these milestones:

• Does your baby smile spontaneously? (More about Baby’s first smile)
• Does your baby laugh?
• Does your baby look at you, move, or make sounds to get your attention?
• Does your baby make cooing noises (oooh’s and aaah’s)?
• Does your baby respond to sounds you make with their own sounds?
• Does your baby turn to look at you when they hear your voice?
• Does your baby open their mouth to show they’re hungry when they see a bottle or breast?
• Does your baby look at their own hands with interest?
• Can your baby keep their head steady when held?
• Can your baby hold a toy when it’s placed in their hand?
• Does your baby bring hands to mouth?
• Can your baby push to elbows or forearms during tummy time?

Every baby is different—so your baby may check off some of these items “early” and other skills may take longer to achieve. It’s important to know that there’s a wide range of what’s considered normal! 

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Health

A Yucky Milestone: Baby’s First Cold

Whether the germs come from daycare, the library, or Big Sis, it’s unfortunately only a matter of time before your baby develops their first case of the sniffles. (Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but kids experience an average of 8 to 10 colds during the first two years.) While a fever for a baby younger than 3 months (or any lethargy or irritability) always merits a call to the doctor, a stuffy nose may be treatable with some TLC at home. If there is no improvement or symptoms worsen within a few days, follow up with your pediatrician. 

• Common cold symptoms for babies include stuffy or runny noses, fussiness, sneezing, coughing, decreased appetite, difficulty nursing or taking milk from a bottle, and low-grade fevers. (Remember, you’ll want to see a doctor if your baby’s temperature rises above 100 degrees during the first three months. ) 
• Signs of a more serious illness, such as pneumonia, flu, or croup, include wheezing, high fever, vomiting, shakes or chills, rapid breathing, and a worsening cough. If any of these symptoms appear, seek medical treatment as soon as possible. 
• You can help treat a common cold by using a nasal aspirator to clear your baby’s nose, keeping a humidifier in their room, using a nasal saline spray, very slightly elevating the head of the bed (don’t put anything in your baby’s bed that could cause suffocation…and never elevate more than one inch), and offering lots of breastmilk or formula.

One old home remedy is to put two to three drops of fresh milk right from your breast into a dropper and then into your baby’s nose. Sounds odd? Interestingly, baby germs go up into the breasts and the immune tissue inside can make antibodies specifically against the illness the baby is fighting off. It’s like a tailor-made antibiotic.

< Your 9-Week-Old Baby | Your 11-Week-Old Baby >

About Dr.

Harvey Karp

Dr. Harvey Karp, one of America’s most trusted pediatricians, is the founder of Happiest Baby and the inventor of the groundbreaking SNOO Smart Sleeper. After years of treating patients in Los Angeles, Dr. Karp vaulted to global prominence with the release of the bestselling Happiest Baby on the Block and Happiest Toddler on the Block. His celebrated books and videos have since become standard pediatric practice, translated into more than 20 languages and have helped millions of parents. Dr. Karp’s landmark methods, including the 5 S’s for soothing babies, guide parents to understand and nurture their children and relieve stressful issues, like new-parent exhaustion, infant crying, and toddler tantrums.

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Have questions about a Happiest Baby product? Our consultants would be happy to help! Submit your questions here.

Disclaimer: The information on our site is NOT medical advice for any specific person or
condition. It is only meant as general information. If you have any medical questions and concerns about your child or
yourself, please contact your health provider.

Indie, 10 weeks: Unsettled, crying… and colic?

by Amanda Snedden

Dec 8, 2022

2 min read

Indie’s sleep story…

Indie was a pretty chilled baby… until it came to the afternoons and evenings! She napped well in the morning from 8-10am, then had a nice long lunch nap from 12-3pm, but then in the afternoon she refused to sleep and became more and more unsettled.

Maria tried rocking and feeding her, and going for walks, but Indie just continued to cry. From 5pm until 8pm everyday, she wouldn’t sleep, she wouldn’t feed… she would just scream the whole time! Come 8pm everyone was exhausted and Indie would finally fall asleep. The relief was short-lived though as she would then wake hourly from 1am until 7am.  

Indie was also quite a windy baby and didn’t burp overly well – sometimes it could take Maria up to 30 minutes to get a good burp out of her. During the afternoons she would take even longer to burp and became very distressed at the same time. This meant she also swallowed more air while crying. After 3 weeks of her baby crying every afternoon and evening, Maria took Indie to the doctor for some help. 

Maria’s GP diagnosed Indie with colic, which Maria found very hard to deal with because she felt like there was nothing she could do. Every afternoon Indie would strain, kick, grunt and flail her arms, seemingly in pain, and Maria felt helpless. Her GP said the colic would get better at 12 weeks but things only seemed to be getting worse. So Maria decided to see if we could help.

We quickly ascertained that little Indie was a great napper – in fact, she was napping a little too well! She was having a massive 5 hours of sleep between 7am and 3pm, meaning she didn’t actually need any more sleep during the day – she needed more awake time.

BUT because Indie was having all of that sleep earlier in the day, this lead to Indie becoming very overtired and hard to settle later in the day. So we advised Maria to start adjusting the lengths and times of Indie’s naps to match the schedule in our Sleep Program. This would ensure Indie’s sleep was more evenly distributed across the day.

It only took a few days for Maria to notice massive improvements. Soon, Indie was happily having an afternoon nap each day, meaning she was no longer getting overtired by the end of the day. She was not nearly as unsettled as she had been and to Maria’s amazement, her colic symptoms completely disappeared!

Further consultation with her GP confirmed that Indie’s “colic” had in fact been severe over tiredness. Over tiredness can mimic the symptoms of colic, causing babies to become extremely unsettled in the afternoon and evening – a time commonly referred to as “the witching hour”. 

Following the sleep schedules in our Program helped Maria to redistribute Indie’s sleep more evenly between 7am and 7pm so there was no time that she could become overtired. Not only did this completely resolve Indie’s “colic” symptoms, it improved her night sleep too:

I actually can’t believe it – Indie doesn’t have colic at all! She just needed to nap at slightly different times and not as much in the mornings. As an added bonus Indie now only wakes once or twice in the night rather than hourly as well!! Thank you Little Ones xox

If you suspect your baby might have colic, or if you’re struggling with “the witching hour”, our Sleep Programs can help you rule out over tiredness as the cause. You’ll get instant access to customisable sleep schedules, comprehensive troubleshooting notes, gentle settling methods and more. Our team of expert sleep consultants are also available, day and night, to provide you with more personalised guidance and support.

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The child often asks for breasts: how to understand that the child does not have enough milk?

Published: 06/27/2023

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The birth of a baby is a joyful event, but it is also associated with worries and experiences. Especially if the child in the family is the first of the parents, there are many questions that are not so easy to prepare in advance. One of them: “Why does a child often ask for a breast?”

Breastfeeding at a glance

Mother’s milk is the best food for a newborn. It contains in the right proportion important substances for growth, development, and protection against infections. It is always at the right temperature, it does not need to be cooked and thought about storage. In addition, the lactation process adapts to the needs of the baby: the breast produces exactly as much milk as the baby needs. Pediatricians agree that it is not worth restricting a child in breast milk in the first month after birth, and then the baby will form his own feeding regimen. And yet, many mothers are worried if the baby began to ask for breasts more often. Is it related to hunger and lactation disorders? Or is something bothering the child, and in this way he seeks solace? Let’s consider these questions in more detail.

Psychology of newborns

Breastfeeding is not just a process of satisfying hunger, but also a close psycho-emotional connection between the baby and mother. In his mind, they continue to remain one, and separation is perceived painfully. Thus, there are 2 main psychological moments why a child often asks for a breast:

1. The baby is used to the mother’s body – this is a familiar environment where it is warm and safe, and the beating of the heart has a calming effect. After birth, the child enters a new world for him, where there are many unfamiliar sounds, smells, and pictures. It is especially difficult to lie alone in a crib, which seems huge when you get used to the pleasant crampedness. The natural desire is to hide. And the most suitable place is under the mother’s breast. There is warmth, a familiar smell and a beating heart. And mother’s hands create a cozy cradle.
2. The areola around the nipple contains Montgomery’s glands, which secrete a secretion that smells like amniotic fluid. This smell is familiar, it gives a sense of security and the baby calms down.

Why is the baby hungry? The natural response to hunger is the desire for breasts. In addition, in infants, the stomach is able to hold a small amount of food, and the process of sucking is difficult for them. Saturated and tired, newborns fall asleep. But the rapid digestion of milk again causes a feeling of hunger. No matter how hard it is for the mother, it is not worth denying the baby the breast, since the subsequent lactation process and the formation of a sufficient amount of milk depend on it. Including night feedings are very important, since from 3 to 8 in the morning more of the hormone prolactin is produced, which contributes to the production of milk. But if the child began to often ask for breasts, the mother begins to worry about whether he has enough food and whether everything is in order with lactation. Let’s analyze the possible reasons for such a famine:

• baby only eats foremilk. And it actually quenches thirst. Back milk is more fatty, it is it that brings saturation;
• the baby does not latch on properly. It is very important from the very beginning to monitor how the baby captures the areola of the nipple. How to check: the baby’s mouth is wide open, the lips are turned out, the tongue lies under the areola, the nipple is deep (at the base of the tongue), the tip of the nose and chin are pressed to the chest;
• mother’s lack of milk. Such a problem can occur for various reasons (malnutrition, stress, illness, etc.), but it is important to seek help from a specialist in time and start taking action.

3 more reasons why a baby may ask for a breast. At the same time, the mother may think that he is hungry, but in fact the baby has:

• the sleep pattern has gone astray. Often a child needs a breast not to satisfy hunger and thirst, but to calm down and fall asleep;
• problems with the tummy. Gas and colic are a common problem in babies. Experiencing pain and discomfort, the baby seeks to calm himself in the usual way and asks for a breast;
• activity has changed during the day. Experts believe that regardless of the type of feeding, babies behave more restlessly in the afternoon.

Changes in appetite

In the first year of life, the child grows very quickly. Changes in his body are also reflected in his appetite: it can change in certain periods.

Lactation crisis . During this period, the woman’s body adapts to the needs of the baby. If there was even a short break in feeding, then the volume of milk decreases slightly. Because of this, the child may experience a feeling of hunger. That’s why he starts asking for breasts more often.

Growth spurts . The child grows either faster or slower, which is reflected in the appetite. During such periods, there is the greatest hunger and frequent demand for breasts. To deny the baby in his natural needs is not worth it.

How to understand that the baby has enough milk

In the first days after birth, the baby eats an average of up to 30 ml of mother’s milk per feeding. It’s not scary if he ate more one time and less the next, most likely he will just ask for the breast again faster. As a rule, with a normal feeding regimen and a sufficient amount of milk from the mother, by the age of one month, the weight of the child increases by 500-600 g. And yet, how to understand that the child has enough milk? There are 2 easy ways to do this.

Wet diaper test . Calculating the daily number of acts of urination and defecation of the crumbs allows you to give a very clear answer to the question of whether the baby has enough food. The age of newborns in a certain way affects the number of “going to the toilet.” So, in 3-4 weeks of life, children walk “in a small way” 20-25 times a day. When using diapers, it is very difficult to follow this. Therefore, for a while they will have to be abandoned in favor of diapers. If the baby urinates 20-25 times, and at the age of 6 months to 1 year – 15-16 times, then his mother’s milk is enough for him. Reducing the number of urination to 8-10 times a day suggests that the production of breast milk in a woman has decreased. And if there are less than 6 used diapers, this is a clear sign that the baby does not have enough mother’s food. In this case, it is necessary to urgently consult with a pediatrician.

Weighing. To control the amount eaten, many mothers buy special baby scales. How to use them correctly? To do this, take a sheet of paper, draw a table on it. The first column is the time, the second is the weight before feeding, the third is the weight after eating. Next, you need to weigh the hungry baby, write down the data and attach it to the chest. After feeding, also record the weighing information in the table.

How long should one feeding last

The answer to this question is purely individual and depends only on the baby himself, because each crumb already has its own character. Some children tend to eat as soon as possible – 10-15 minutes is enough for them. Others eat slowly, savoring, enjoying the process itself. From the chest, they may not be weaned for 30-40 minutes. Mom should not worry that the child eats for so long. But if the baby suckles for more than an hour, this does not benefit anyone, so you need to try something to distract him. Also, during feeding, it is not recommended to change the breast, as the interruption of the process is annoying for the baby. Let the baby put more effort into extracting hindmilk from the half-empty breast. This, by the way, is much more difficult, but no less important for the child and for the lactation process.

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How to calm a child quickly – Lifehacker

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Lifehacker has collected only working methods for different ages.

How to soothe a newborn

1. Pick up, snuggle up to your chest

A versatile method that works for babies of all ages and even adults. Hugs soothe, give a sense of security, convince you that you are not alone in this harsh and terrible world. They also increase the production of the hormone oxytocin (not for nothing it is sometimes called the “hug hormone”), which increases the level of satisfaction with life and reduces pain.

In general, take the baby in your arms, remembering to support the head at the back of the head with the palm of your hand, and press it to you. The crying, if it doesn’t stop immediately, will surely become quieter. And there, before the child calms down, not far.

2. Swaddle or, conversely, unswrap

Newborns still have strong physical memories of the time when they were in their mother’s stomach. Therefore, perhaps the child needs to feel that he is in a safe, restrictive cocoon. Swaddle him.

Another option (if crying has already begun in diapers) is to free the baby’s arms and legs from the fabric. Maybe he’s wrapped too tight and feels uncomfortable.

3. Give a breast, bottle or pacifier

Even if the baby is not hungry, suckling will help him calm down.

4. Rock your baby to white noise

Ideal if you have a white noise generator. Then just turn it on and rock your baby to these soothing sounds.

However, if there is no special device at hand, it does not matter. Use the old grandmother’s method. Take the child in your arms, rock him rhythmically and hiss quietly above his ear in a monotone: “Sh-sh-sh-sh.”

5. Use Dr. Hamilton’s 5-Second Technique

The video, which California pediatrician Robert Hamilton posted on YouTube, has already amassed over 36 million views. And no wonder – it contains an almost magical way to instantly soothe a crying baby.

“My parents have asked me a million times to share this recipe,” the pediatrician himself explained the appearance of the video. Robert Hamilton has been a pediatrician in Santa Monica, California for 30 years, and the method he describes is the culmination of years of experience.

Hamilton calls the proposed technique “holding.” It consists of only four steps, the implementation of which can be put in literally 5 seconds.

• Hold the baby in your arms and cross his arms over your chest.
• Press the crossed arms with your left palm against his chest and lay the child on the same palm – at an angle of 45 degrees to the floor. Hold the chin with the fingers of the same left hand so that the head does not fall.
• Use your right hand to support the newborn under the diaper.
• While holding your baby at a 45 degree angle, gently rock him. It can be up and down or side to side. Choose the most comfortable option for you. The main thing is that the movements are soft and smooth. Literally after a couple of seconds, the baby will be silent.

Watch Dr. Hamilton’s video for details:

Pediatrician warns: This technique is suitable for babies under 3 months of age. Later, they become too heavy to hold safely in this position.

And one more note. If the child does not calm down, then there are serious reasons for crying. Perhaps the baby is hungry, he is hot, or maybe he just has a wet diaper. Help a newborn get rid of physical discomfort, and he will give you a long-awaited smile and silence.

How to calm a child from 4 months to a year

By this time the baby is strong and begins to realize himself, so simple physical methods are no longer so effective. To calm the child, you have to connect the fantasy. But let’s start with the classics.

1. Pick up

Again, this option is suitable for all ages. Use it as often as possible. While hugging the child to you, whisper something soothing to him in a gentle soft voice.

2. Shift your attention

Hold the child in your arms and walk to the window with an enthusiastic voice saying something like “Wow, look at that big dump truck!” or “Look what a cute fluffy cat in the yard!”. Turn on the cartoon TV. Put on your favorite children’s songs and start dancing with your baby in your arms.

Your goal is to shift the baby’s attention from the situation that disturbed him and caused him to cry, to something new and interesting.

3. Replace emotional activity with physical activity

Take the child under the arms and let him jump on the bed. Or do some gymnastics. Or throw in the air (low). The need to concentrate in order to coordinate muscle activity will cause the infant to stop crying.

Attention! This method is not suitable if there is even the slightest suspicion that the crying is caused by a fall or pain.

4. Turn crying into something funny

For example, tickle a child. Or take his toy and set up a little puppet show. Speak for her in a funny theatrical voice: “Oh, who is crying here? Hush, hush, I’m afraid! – and hide it behind your back. The goal is to make the baby smile. Children’s crying, if you try, easily enough turns into laughter.

How to calm a child from one to 3-4 years old

At this age, most children already understand adults well, know how and like to communicate. This is the basis of the most effective methods of calming.

1. Pick up and sympathize

Hold a crying child close to you, say something like “You are crying. You must be upset about something. Tell me what happened, how can I help you? He will most likely tell you what is bothering him. This will help solve the problem of crying.

2. Be more mindful

Ask your baby to cry more quietly (for example, so as not to wake a resting mother) or in a lower voice, “like a bear”. If he obeys, you win. Crying will turn into conscious vocal exercises, from which the child will quickly get tired.

3. Remind me of an important task worth putting off crying for

It might look like this: “Come on, you will cry later, otherwise it will soon become dark and if you cry for a long time, we will not have time to take a walk. ” Thus, you do not deprive the child of the right to tears. Just ask to be rescheduled for a more convenient time.

4. Find a way to vent the child’s bursting emotions

Offer him, for example, a pillow: “Let’s not cry, we’ll beat her!” And together with the child, start knocking on a soft thing with your fists. You can also give an inflatable hammer or offer to throw plastic balls at the wall. Any kind of activity that will help get rid of negativity will do.

5. Create a funny ritual

For example, as soon as a child starts crying, run for a hair dryer to quickly dry the tears. “So, where is our hair dryer, where did I lose it? Oh, let’s blow on the cat? This will help to switch children’s attention and, perhaps, even make the child laugh.

6. Come up with “bad mood pills”

These can be bear-shaped jelly gummies, chocolate dragees, any other small sweetness. “Who’s crying here? We urgently call an ambulance, she brings us pills from a bad mood! Eat and your tears will dry!” The basic rules for this: there must be one “pill”, and if the child refuses it, this time it will no longer be offered.

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones – Happiest Baby

By
Dr. Harvey Karp, MD, FAAP

Do you ever feel like someone is watching you? If your baby is 10 weeks old, you’re absolutely right! At this age, babies adore studying our face! Although your little one has been able to recognize you for weeks, they are increasingly fascinated by all the fun faces you can make. And it doesn’t take long for one of those expressions to prompt a smile from your little admirer.

Whether your newest addition is your first child or has joined a family with big sibs, every baby comes with an adjustment period. Changing diapers, feeding your baby, and maybe even getting out of the house on walks may feel like a breeze by now. But, what about the other ways you used to spend your time before your baby arrived? Although you have a new list of priorities, it’s wise to still put self-care on the schedule and make an effort to spend quality time with your partner and friends.

Not having a babysitter is no reason to skip the date night entirely…babies can be fine restaurant companions! Believe it or not, your baby is a quieter third-wheel at this point than they will be a year or two down the road.  

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Development

Colors, Textures, Shapes—Oh My!

Your baby has been taking in their surroundings from the very beginning. But now they are really starting to make sense of the world around them! By recognizing patterns, seeking out familiar faces, and processing all sorts of sensory information, they are constantly learning.

This is all an important part of your baby’s cognitive development, which is a big term that describes how we pick up, mentally organize, and learn to use knowledge. In other words, it’s all about putting the pieces together! Babies also don’t need anything too fancy to learn a whole bunch. Sensory toys and activities are great for sparking your baby’s curiosity. And that includes those “toys” you already have in your house, like crinkly wrapping paper or shiny kitchen pot. 

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones

There are two (equally important) categories for motor skills: gross motor skills that use large muscles and fine motor skills that use smaller muscles. Those two sets of skills often work in harmony, such as when you lift your arm and wiggle your fingers.

When it comes to your 10-week-old baby, some of the gross motor skills they are actively working on probably include learning to roll, keeping their head and upper torso raised during tummy time, and kicking their legs. During what appear to be calmer moments, they may also be trying hard to master some fine motor skills, such as moving their fingers, raising their hand to their mouth, and whacking out to grab something, like your glasses. Lots of times they intently look at something—as if they would like to grab it—but rather than reach out, their little hands grasp each other, exploring their own entwined fingers.   

Note: Now that your baby is just beginning to reach out and hit their targets, you must be super careful about burns. NEVER have a glass of hot liquid in your hand—or on the table in front of you—when your baby is in your arms or you’re seated at the table.

Future Baby Milestones to Watch

Your baby is currently between well-child visits (which is when your provider will assess your little one’s development), but at your next check-up (which occurs at 4 months), your provider will likely ask you about these milestones:

• Does your baby smile spontaneously? (More about Baby’s first smile)
• Does your baby laugh?
• Does your baby look at you, move, or make sounds to get your attention?
• Does your baby make cooing noises (oooh’s and aaah’s)?
• Does your baby respond to sounds you make with their own sounds?
• Does your baby turn to look at you when they hear your voice?
• Does your baby open their mouth to show they’re hungry when they see a bottle or breast?
• Does your baby look at their own hands with interest?
• Can your baby keep their head steady when held?
• Can your baby hold a toy when it’s placed in their hand?
• Does your baby bring hands to mouth?
• Can your baby push to elbows or forearms during tummy time?

Every baby is different—so your baby may check off some of these items “early” and other skills may take longer to achieve. It’s important to know that there’s a wide range of what’s considered normal! 

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Health

A Yucky Milestone: Baby’s First Cold

Whether the germs come from daycare, the library, or Big Sis, it’s unfortunately only a matter of time before your baby develops their first case of the sniffles. (Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but kids experience an average of 8 to 10 colds during the first two years.) While a fever for a baby younger than 3 months (or any lethargy or irritability) always merits a call to the doctor, a stuffy nose may be treatable with some TLC at home. If there is no improvement or symptoms worsen within a few days, follow up with your pediatrician. 

• Common cold symptoms for babies include stuffy or runny noses, fussiness, sneezing, coughing, decreased appetite, difficulty nursing or taking milk from a bottle, and low-grade fevers. (Remember, you’ll want to see a doctor if your baby’s temperature rises above 100 degrees during the first three months. ) 
• Signs of a more serious illness, such as pneumonia, flu, or croup, include wheezing, high fever, vomiting, shakes or chills, rapid breathing, and a worsening cough. If any of these symptoms appear, seek medical treatment as soon as possible. 
• You can help treat a common cold by using a nasal aspirator to clear your baby’s nose, keeping a humidifier in their room, using a nasal saline spray, very slightly elevating the head of the bed (don’t put anything in your baby’s bed that could cause suffocation…and never elevate more than one inch), and offering lots of breastmilk or formula.

One old home remedy is to put two to three drops of fresh milk right from your breast into a dropper and then into your baby’s nose. Sounds odd? Interestingly, baby germs go up into the breasts and the immune tissue inside can make antibodies specifically against the illness the baby is fighting off. It’s like a tailor-made antibiotic.

< Your 9-Week-Old Baby | Your 11-Week-Old Baby >

About Dr.

Harvey Karp

Dr. Harvey Karp, one of America’s most trusted pediatricians, is the founder of Happiest Baby and the inventor of the groundbreaking SNOO Smart Sleeper. After years of treating patients in Los Angeles, Dr. Karp vaulted to global prominence with the release of the bestselling Happiest Baby on the Block and Happiest Toddler on the Block. His celebrated books and videos have since become standard pediatric practice, translated into more than 20 languages and have helped millions of parents. Dr. Karp’s landmark methods, including the 5 S’s for soothing babies, guide parents to understand and nurture their children and relieve stressful issues, like new-parent exhaustion, infant crying, and toddler tantrums.

View more posts tagged,
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Have questions about a Happiest Baby product? Our consultants would be happy to help! Submit your questions here.

Disclaimer: The information on our site is NOT medical advice for any specific person or
condition. It is only meant as general information. If you have any medical questions and concerns about your child or
yourself, please contact your health provider.

Indie, 10 weeks: Unsettled, crying… and colic?

by Amanda Snedden

Dec 8, 2022

2 min read

Indie’s sleep story…

Indie was a pretty chilled baby… until it came to the afternoons and evenings! She napped well in the morning from 8-10am, then had a nice long lunch nap from 12-3pm, but then in the afternoon she refused to sleep and became more and more unsettled.

Maria tried rocking and feeding her, and going for walks, but Indie just continued to cry. From 5pm until 8pm everyday, she wouldn’t sleep, she wouldn’t feed… she would just scream the whole time! Come 8pm everyone was exhausted and Indie would finally fall asleep. The relief was short-lived though as she would then wake hourly from 1am until 7am.  

Indie was also quite a windy baby and didn’t burp overly well – sometimes it could take Maria up to 30 minutes to get a good burp out of her. During the afternoons she would take even longer to burp and became very distressed at the same time. This meant she also swallowed more air while crying. After 3 weeks of her baby crying every afternoon and evening, Maria took Indie to the doctor for some help. 

Maria’s GP diagnosed Indie with colic, which Maria found very hard to deal with because she felt like there was nothing she could do. Every afternoon Indie would strain, kick, grunt and flail her arms, seemingly in pain, and Maria felt helpless. Her GP said the colic would get better at 12 weeks but things only seemed to be getting worse. So Maria decided to see if we could help.

We quickly ascertained that little Indie was a great napper – in fact, she was napping a little too well! She was having a massive 5 hours of sleep between 7am and 3pm, meaning she didn’t actually need any more sleep during the day – she needed more awake time.

BUT because Indie was having all of that sleep earlier in the day, this lead to Indie becoming very overtired and hard to settle later in the day. So we advised Maria to start adjusting the lengths and times of Indie’s naps to match the schedule in our Sleep Program. This would ensure Indie’s sleep was more evenly distributed across the day.

It only took a few days for Maria to notice massive improvements. Soon, Indie was happily having an afternoon nap each day, meaning she was no longer getting overtired by the end of the day. She was not nearly as unsettled as she had been and to Maria’s amazement, her colic symptoms completely disappeared!

Further consultation with her GP confirmed that Indie’s “colic” had in fact been severe over tiredness. Over tiredness can mimic the symptoms of colic, causing babies to become extremely unsettled in the afternoon and evening – a time commonly referred to as “the witching hour”. 

Following the sleep schedules in our Program helped Maria to redistribute Indie’s sleep more evenly between 7am and 7pm so there was no time that she could become overtired. Not only did this completely resolve Indie’s “colic” symptoms, it improved her night sleep too:

I actually can’t believe it – Indie doesn’t have colic at all! She just needed to nap at slightly different times and not as much in the mornings. As an added bonus Indie now only wakes once or twice in the night rather than hourly as well!! Thank you Little Ones xox

If you suspect your baby might have colic, or if you’re struggling with “the witching hour”, our Sleep Programs can help you rule out over tiredness as the cause. You’ll get instant access to customisable sleep schedules, comprehensive troubleshooting notes, gentle settling methods and more. Our team of expert sleep consultants are also available, day and night, to provide you with more personalised guidance and support.

Related Blog Posts

The child often asks for breasts: how to understand that the child does not have enough milk?

Published: 06/27/2023

Reading time: 3 minutes

14499

The birth of a baby is a joyful event, but it is also associated with worries and experiences. Especially if the child in the family is the first of the parents, there are many questions that are not so easy to prepare in advance. One of them: “Why does a child often ask for a breast?”

Breastfeeding at a glance

Mother’s milk is the best food for a newborn. It contains in the right proportion important substances for growth, development, and protection against infections. It is always at the right temperature, it does not need to be cooked and thought about storage. In addition, the lactation process adapts to the needs of the baby: the breast produces exactly as much milk as the baby needs. Pediatricians agree that it is not worth restricting a child in breast milk in the first month after birth, and then the baby will form his own feeding regimen. And yet, many mothers are worried if the baby began to ask for breasts more often. Is it related to hunger and lactation disorders? Or is something bothering the child, and in this way he seeks solace? Let’s consider these questions in more detail.

Psychology of newborns

Breastfeeding is not just a process of satisfying hunger, but also a close psycho-emotional connection between the baby and mother. In his mind, they continue to remain one, and separation is perceived painfully. Thus, there are 2 main psychological moments why a child often asks for a breast:

1. The baby is used to the mother’s body – this is a familiar environment where it is warm and safe, and the beating of the heart has a calming effect. After birth, the child enters a new world for him, where there are many unfamiliar sounds, smells, and pictures. It is especially difficult to lie alone in a crib, which seems huge when you get used to the pleasant crampedness. The natural desire is to hide. And the most suitable place is under the mother’s breast. There is warmth, a familiar smell and a beating heart. And mother’s hands create a cozy cradle.
2. The areola around the nipple contains Montgomery’s glands, which secrete a secretion that smells like amniotic fluid. This smell is familiar, it gives a sense of security and the baby calms down.

Why is the baby hungry? The natural response to hunger is the desire for breasts. In addition, in infants, the stomach is able to hold a small amount of food, and the process of sucking is difficult for them. Saturated and tired, newborns fall asleep. But the rapid digestion of milk again causes a feeling of hunger. No matter how hard it is for the mother, it is not worth denying the baby the breast, since the subsequent lactation process and the formation of a sufficient amount of milk depend on it. Including night feedings are very important, since from 3 to 8 in the morning more of the hormone prolactin is produced, which contributes to the production of milk. But if the child began to often ask for breasts, the mother begins to worry about whether he has enough food and whether everything is in order with lactation. Let’s analyze the possible reasons for such a famine:

• baby only eats foremilk. And it actually quenches thirst. Back milk is more fatty, it is it that brings saturation;
• the baby does not latch on properly. It is very important from the very beginning to monitor how the baby captures the areola of the nipple. How to check: the baby’s mouth is wide open, the lips are turned out, the tongue lies under the areola, the nipple is deep (at the base of the tongue), the tip of the nose and chin are pressed to the chest;
• mother’s lack of milk. Such a problem can occur for various reasons (malnutrition, stress, illness, etc.), but it is important to seek help from a specialist in time and start taking action.

3 more reasons why a baby may ask for a breast. At the same time, the mother may think that he is hungry, but in fact the baby has:

• the sleep pattern has gone astray. Often a child needs a breast not to satisfy hunger and thirst, but to calm down and fall asleep;
• problems with the tummy. Gas and colic are a common problem in babies. Experiencing pain and discomfort, the baby seeks to calm himself in the usual way and asks for a breast;
• activity has changed during the day. Experts believe that regardless of the type of feeding, babies behave more restlessly in the afternoon.

Changes in appetite

In the first year of life, the child grows very quickly. Changes in his body are also reflected in his appetite: it can change in certain periods.

Lactation crisis . During this period, the woman’s body adapts to the needs of the baby. If there was even a short break in feeding, then the volume of milk decreases slightly. Because of this, the child may experience a feeling of hunger. That’s why he starts asking for breasts more often.

Growth spurts . The child grows either faster or slower, which is reflected in the appetite. During such periods, there is the greatest hunger and frequent demand for breasts. To deny the baby in his natural needs is not worth it.

How to understand that the baby has enough milk

In the first days after birth, the baby eats an average of up to 30 ml of mother’s milk per feeding. It’s not scary if he ate more one time and less the next, most likely he will just ask for the breast again faster. As a rule, with a normal feeding regimen and a sufficient amount of milk from the mother, by the age of one month, the weight of the child increases by 500-600 g. And yet, how to understand that the child has enough milk? There are 2 easy ways to do this.

Wet diaper test . Calculating the daily number of acts of urination and defecation of the crumbs allows you to give a very clear answer to the question of whether the baby has enough food. The age of newborns in a certain way affects the number of “going to the toilet.” So, in 3-4 weeks of life, children walk “in a small way” 20-25 times a day. When using diapers, it is very difficult to follow this. Therefore, for a while they will have to be abandoned in favor of diapers. If the baby urinates 20-25 times, and at the age of 6 months to 1 year – 15-16 times, then his mother’s milk is enough for him. Reducing the number of urination to 8-10 times a day suggests that the production of breast milk in a woman has decreased. And if there are less than 6 used diapers, this is a clear sign that the baby does not have enough mother’s food. In this case, it is necessary to urgently consult with a pediatrician.

Weighing. To control the amount eaten, many mothers buy special baby scales. How to use them correctly? To do this, take a sheet of paper, draw a table on it. The first column is the time, the second is the weight before feeding, the third is the weight after eating. Next, you need to weigh the hungry baby, write down the data and attach it to the chest. After feeding, also record the weighing information in the table.

How long should one feeding last

The answer to this question is purely individual and depends only on the baby himself, because each crumb already has its own character. Some children tend to eat as soon as possible – 10-15 minutes is enough for them. Others eat slowly, savoring, enjoying the process itself. From the chest, they may not be weaned for 30-40 minutes. Mom should not worry that the child eats for so long. But if the baby suckles for more than an hour, this does not benefit anyone, so you need to try something to distract him. Also, during feeding, it is not recommended to change the breast, as the interruption of the process is annoying for the baby. Let the baby put more effort into extracting hindmilk from the half-empty breast. This, by the way, is much more difficult, but no less important for the child and for the lactation process.

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How to calm a child quickly – Lifehacker

Likbez

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October 9, 2019

Lifehacker has collected only working methods for different ages.

How to soothe a newborn

1. Pick up, snuggle up to your chest

A versatile method that works for babies of all ages and even adults. Hugs soothe, give a sense of security, convince you that you are not alone in this harsh and terrible world. They also increase the production of the hormone oxytocin (not for nothing it is sometimes called the “hug hormone”), which increases the level of satisfaction with life and reduces pain.

In general, take the baby in your arms, remembering to support the head at the back of the head with the palm of your hand, and press it to you. The crying, if it doesn’t stop immediately, will surely become quieter. And there, before the child calms down, not far.

2. Swaddle or, conversely, unswrap

Newborns still have strong physical memories of the time when they were in their mother’s stomach. Therefore, perhaps the child needs to feel that he is in a safe, restrictive cocoon. Swaddle him.

Another option (if crying has already begun in diapers) is to free the baby’s arms and legs from the fabric. Maybe he’s wrapped too tight and feels uncomfortable.

3. Give a breast, bottle or pacifier

Even if the baby is not hungry, suckling will help him calm down.

4. Rock your baby to white noise

Ideal if you have a white noise generator. Then just turn it on and rock your baby to these soothing sounds.

However, if there is no special device at hand, it does not matter. Use the old grandmother’s method. Take the child in your arms, rock him rhythmically and hiss quietly above his ear in a monotone: “Sh-sh-sh-sh.”

5. Use Dr. Hamilton’s 5-Second Technique

The video, which California pediatrician Robert Hamilton posted on YouTube, has already amassed over 36 million views. And no wonder – it contains an almost magical way to instantly soothe a crying baby.

“My parents have asked me a million times to share this recipe,” the pediatrician himself explained the appearance of the video. Robert Hamilton has been a pediatrician in Santa Monica, California for 30 years, and the method he describes is the culmination of years of experience.

Hamilton calls the proposed technique “holding.” It consists of only four steps, the implementation of which can be put in literally 5 seconds.

• Hold the baby in your arms and cross his arms over your chest.
• Press the crossed arms with your left palm against his chest and lay the child on the same palm – at an angle of 45 degrees to the floor. Hold the chin with the fingers of the same left hand so that the head does not fall.
• Use your right hand to support the newborn under the diaper.
• While holding your baby at a 45 degree angle, gently rock him. It can be up and down or side to side. Choose the most comfortable option for you. The main thing is that the movements are soft and smooth. Literally after a couple of seconds, the baby will be silent.

Watch Dr. Hamilton’s video for details:

Pediatrician warns: This technique is suitable for babies under 3 months of age. Later, they become too heavy to hold safely in this position.

And one more note. If the child does not calm down, then there are serious reasons for crying. Perhaps the baby is hungry, he is hot, or maybe he just has a wet diaper. Help a newborn get rid of physical discomfort, and he will give you a long-awaited smile and silence.

How to calm a child from 4 months to a year

By this time the baby is strong and begins to realize himself, so simple physical methods are no longer so effective. To calm the child, you have to connect the fantasy. But let’s start with the classics.

1. Pick up

Again, this option is suitable for all ages. Use it as often as possible. While hugging the child to you, whisper something soothing to him in a gentle soft voice.

2. Shift your attention

Hold the child in your arms and walk to the window with an enthusiastic voice saying something like “Wow, look at that big dump truck!” or “Look what a cute fluffy cat in the yard!”. Turn on the cartoon TV. Put on your favorite children’s songs and start dancing with your baby in your arms.

Your goal is to shift the baby’s attention from the situation that disturbed him and caused him to cry, to something new and interesting.

3. Replace emotional activity with physical activity

Take the child under the arms and let him jump on the bed. Or do some gymnastics. Or throw in the air (low). The need to concentrate in order to coordinate muscle activity will cause the infant to stop crying.

Attention! This method is not suitable if there is even the slightest suspicion that the crying is caused by a fall or pain.

4. Turn crying into something funny

For example, tickle a child. Or take his toy and set up a little puppet show. Speak for her in a funny theatrical voice: “Oh, who is crying here? Hush, hush, I’m afraid! – and hide it behind your back. The goal is to make the baby smile. Children’s crying, if you try, easily enough turns into laughter.

How to calm a child from one to 3-4 years old

At this age, most children already understand adults well, know how and like to communicate. This is the basis of the most effective methods of calming.

1. Pick up and sympathize

Hold a crying child close to you, say something like “You are crying. You must be upset about something. Tell me what happened, how can I help you? He will most likely tell you what is bothering him. This will help solve the problem of crying.

2. Be more mindful

Ask your baby to cry more quietly (for example, so as not to wake a resting mother) or in a lower voice, “like a bear”. If he obeys, you win. Crying will turn into conscious vocal exercises, from which the child will quickly get tired.

3. Remind me of an important task worth putting off crying for

It might look like this: “Come on, you will cry later, otherwise it will soon become dark and if you cry for a long time, we will not have time to take a walk. ” Thus, you do not deprive the child of the right to tears. Just ask to be rescheduled for a more convenient time.

4. Find a way to vent the child’s bursting emotions

Offer him, for example, a pillow: “Let’s not cry, we’ll beat her!” And together with the child, start knocking on a soft thing with your fists. You can also give an inflatable hammer or offer to throw plastic balls at the wall. Any kind of activity that will help get rid of negativity will do.

5. Create a funny ritual

For example, as soon as a child starts crying, run for a hair dryer to quickly dry the tears. “So, where is our hair dryer, where did I lose it? Oh, let’s blow on the cat? This will help to switch children’s attention and, perhaps, even make the child laugh.

6. Come up with “bad mood pills”

These can be bear-shaped jelly gummies, chocolate dragees, any other small sweetness. “Who’s crying here? We urgently call an ambulance, she brings us pills from a bad mood! Eat and your tears will dry!” The basic rules for this: there must be one “pill”, and if the child refuses it, this time it will no longer be offered.

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones – Happiest Baby

By
Dr. Harvey Karp, MD, FAAP

Do you ever feel like someone is watching you? If your baby is 10 weeks old, you’re absolutely right! At this age, babies adore studying our face! Although your little one has been able to recognize you for weeks, they are increasingly fascinated by all the fun faces you can make. And it doesn’t take long for one of those expressions to prompt a smile from your little admirer.

Whether your newest addition is your first child or has joined a family with big sibs, every baby comes with an adjustment period. Changing diapers, feeding your baby, and maybe even getting out of the house on walks may feel like a breeze by now. But, what about the other ways you used to spend your time before your baby arrived? Although you have a new list of priorities, it’s wise to still put self-care on the schedule and make an effort to spend quality time with your partner and friends.

Not having a babysitter is no reason to skip the date night entirely…babies can be fine restaurant companions! Believe it or not, your baby is a quieter third-wheel at this point than they will be a year or two down the road.  

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Development

Colors, Textures, Shapes—Oh My!

Your baby has been taking in their surroundings from the very beginning. But now they are really starting to make sense of the world around them! By recognizing patterns, seeking out familiar faces, and processing all sorts of sensory information, they are constantly learning.

This is all an important part of your baby’s cognitive development, which is a big term that describes how we pick up, mentally organize, and learn to use knowledge. In other words, it’s all about putting the pieces together! Babies also don’t need anything too fancy to learn a whole bunch. Sensory toys and activities are great for sparking your baby’s curiosity. And that includes those “toys” you already have in your house, like crinkly wrapping paper or shiny kitchen pot. 

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones

There are two (equally important) categories for motor skills: gross motor skills that use large muscles and fine motor skills that use smaller muscles. Those two sets of skills often work in harmony, such as when you lift your arm and wiggle your fingers.

When it comes to your 10-week-old baby, some of the gross motor skills they are actively working on probably include learning to roll, keeping their head and upper torso raised during tummy time, and kicking their legs. During what appear to be calmer moments, they may also be trying hard to master some fine motor skills, such as moving their fingers, raising their hand to their mouth, and whacking out to grab something, like your glasses. Lots of times they intently look at something—as if they would like to grab it—but rather than reach out, their little hands grasp each other, exploring their own entwined fingers.   

Note: Now that your baby is just beginning to reach out and hit their targets, you must be super careful about burns. NEVER have a glass of hot liquid in your hand—or on the table in front of you—when your baby is in your arms or you’re seated at the table.

Future Baby Milestones to Watch

Your baby is currently between well-child visits (which is when your provider will assess your little one’s development), but at your next check-up (which occurs at 4 months), your provider will likely ask you about these milestones:

• Does your baby smile spontaneously? (More about Baby’s first smile)
• Does your baby laugh?
• Does your baby look at you, move, or make sounds to get your attention?
• Does your baby make cooing noises (oooh’s and aaah’s)?
• Does your baby respond to sounds you make with their own sounds?
• Does your baby turn to look at you when they hear your voice?
• Does your baby open their mouth to show they’re hungry when they see a bottle or breast?
• Does your baby look at their own hands with interest?
• Can your baby keep their head steady when held?
• Can your baby hold a toy when it’s placed in their hand?
• Does your baby bring hands to mouth?
• Can your baby push to elbows or forearms during tummy time?

Every baby is different—so your baby may check off some of these items “early” and other skills may take longer to achieve. It’s important to know that there’s a wide range of what’s considered normal! 

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Health

A Yucky Milestone: Baby’s First Cold

Whether the germs come from daycare, the library, or Big Sis, it’s unfortunately only a matter of time before your baby develops their first case of the sniffles. (Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but kids experience an average of 8 to 10 colds during the first two years.) While a fever for a baby younger than 3 months (or any lethargy or irritability) always merits a call to the doctor, a stuffy nose may be treatable with some TLC at home. If there is no improvement or symptoms worsen within a few days, follow up with your pediatrician. 

• Common cold symptoms for babies include stuffy or runny noses, fussiness, sneezing, coughing, decreased appetite, difficulty nursing or taking milk from a bottle, and low-grade fevers. (Remember, you’ll want to see a doctor if your baby’s temperature rises above 100 degrees during the first three months. ) 
• Signs of a more serious illness, such as pneumonia, flu, or croup, include wheezing, high fever, vomiting, shakes or chills, rapid breathing, and a worsening cough. If any of these symptoms appear, seek medical treatment as soon as possible. 
• You can help treat a common cold by using a nasal aspirator to clear your baby’s nose, keeping a humidifier in their room, using a nasal saline spray, very slightly elevating the head of the bed (don’t put anything in your baby’s bed that could cause suffocation…and never elevate more than one inch), and offering lots of breastmilk or formula.

One old home remedy is to put two to three drops of fresh milk right from your breast into a dropper and then into your baby’s nose. Sounds odd? Interestingly, baby germs go up into the breasts and the immune tissue inside can make antibodies specifically against the illness the baby is fighting off. It’s like a tailor-made antibiotic.

< Your 9-Week-Old Baby | Your 11-Week-Old Baby >

About Dr.

Harvey Karp

Dr. Harvey Karp, one of America’s most trusted pediatricians, is the founder of Happiest Baby and the inventor of the groundbreaking SNOO Smart Sleeper. After years of treating patients in Los Angeles, Dr. Karp vaulted to global prominence with the release of the bestselling Happiest Baby on the Block and Happiest Toddler on the Block. His celebrated books and videos have since become standard pediatric practice, translated into more than 20 languages and have helped millions of parents. Dr. Karp’s landmark methods, including the 5 S’s for soothing babies, guide parents to understand and nurture their children and relieve stressful issues, like new-parent exhaustion, infant crying, and toddler tantrums.

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Indie, 10 weeks: Unsettled, crying… and colic?

by Amanda Snedden

Dec 8, 2022

2 min read

Indie’s sleep story…

Indie was a pretty chilled baby… until it came to the afternoons and evenings! She napped well in the morning from 8-10am, then had a nice long lunch nap from 12-3pm, but then in the afternoon she refused to sleep and became more and more unsettled.

Maria tried rocking and feeding her, and going for walks, but Indie just continued to cry. From 5pm until 8pm everyday, she wouldn’t sleep, she wouldn’t feed… she would just scream the whole time! Come 8pm everyone was exhausted and Indie would finally fall asleep. The relief was short-lived though as she would then wake hourly from 1am until 7am.  

Indie was also quite a windy baby and didn’t burp overly well – sometimes it could take Maria up to 30 minutes to get a good burp out of her. During the afternoons she would take even longer to burp and became very distressed at the same time. This meant she also swallowed more air while crying. After 3 weeks of her baby crying every afternoon and evening, Maria took Indie to the doctor for some help. 

Maria’s GP diagnosed Indie with colic, which Maria found very hard to deal with because she felt like there was nothing she could do. Every afternoon Indie would strain, kick, grunt and flail her arms, seemingly in pain, and Maria felt helpless. Her GP said the colic would get better at 12 weeks but things only seemed to be getting worse. So Maria decided to see if we could help.

We quickly ascertained that little Indie was a great napper – in fact, she was napping a little too well! She was having a massive 5 hours of sleep between 7am and 3pm, meaning she didn’t actually need any more sleep during the day – she needed more awake time.

BUT because Indie was having all of that sleep earlier in the day, this lead to Indie becoming very overtired and hard to settle later in the day. So we advised Maria to start adjusting the lengths and times of Indie’s naps to match the schedule in our Sleep Program. This would ensure Indie’s sleep was more evenly distributed across the day.

It only took a few days for Maria to notice massive improvements. Soon, Indie was happily having an afternoon nap each day, meaning she was no longer getting overtired by the end of the day. She was not nearly as unsettled as she had been and to Maria’s amazement, her colic symptoms completely disappeared!

Further consultation with her GP confirmed that Indie’s “colic” had in fact been severe over tiredness. Over tiredness can mimic the symptoms of colic, causing babies to become extremely unsettled in the afternoon and evening – a time commonly referred to as “the witching hour”. 

Following the sleep schedules in our Program helped Maria to redistribute Indie’s sleep more evenly between 7am and 7pm so there was no time that she could become overtired. Not only did this completely resolve Indie’s “colic” symptoms, it improved her night sleep too:

I actually can’t believe it – Indie doesn’t have colic at all! She just needed to nap at slightly different times and not as much in the mornings. As an added bonus Indie now only wakes once or twice in the night rather than hourly as well!! Thank you Little Ones xox

If you suspect your baby might have colic, or if you’re struggling with “the witching hour”, our Sleep Programs can help you rule out over tiredness as the cause. You’ll get instant access to customisable sleep schedules, comprehensive troubleshooting notes, gentle settling methods and more. Our team of expert sleep consultants are also available, day and night, to provide you with more personalised guidance and support.

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How to calm a child quickly – Lifehacker

Likbez

Adviсe

October 9, 2019

Lifehacker has collected only working methods for different ages.

How to soothe a newborn

1. Pick up, snuggle up to your chest

A versatile method that works for babies of all ages and even adults. Hugs soothe, give a sense of security, convince you that you are not alone in this harsh and terrible world. They also increase the production of the hormone oxytocin (not for nothing it is sometimes called the “hug hormone”), which increases the level of satisfaction with life and reduces pain.

In general, take the baby in your arms, remembering to support the head at the back of the head with the palm of your hand, and press it to you. The crying, if it doesn’t stop immediately, will surely become quieter. And there, before the child calms down, not far.

2. Swaddle or, conversely, unswrap

Newborns still have strong physical memories of the time when they were in their mother’s stomach. Therefore, perhaps the child needs to feel that he is in a safe, restrictive cocoon. Swaddle him.

Another option (if crying has already begun in diapers) is to free the baby’s arms and legs from the fabric. Maybe he’s wrapped too tight and feels uncomfortable.

3. Give a breast, bottle or pacifier

Even if the baby is not hungry, suckling will help him calm down.

4. Rock your baby to white noise

Ideal if you have a white noise generator. Then just turn it on and rock your baby to these soothing sounds.

However, if there is no special device at hand, it does not matter. Use the old grandmother’s method. Take the child in your arms, rock him rhythmically and hiss quietly above his ear in a monotone: “Sh-sh-sh-sh.”

5. Use Dr. Hamilton’s 5-Second Technique

The video that California pediatrician Robert Hamilton posted on YouTube has already garnered over 36 million views. And no wonder – it contains an almost magical way to instantly soothe a crying baby.

“My parents have asked me a million times to share this recipe,” the pediatrician himself explained the appearance of the video. Robert Hamilton has been a pediatrician in Santa Monica, California for 30 years, and the method he describes is the culmination of years of experience.

Hamilton calls the proposed technique “holding.” It consists of only four steps, the implementation of which can be put in literally 5 seconds.

• Hold the baby in your arms and cross his arms over your chest.
• Press the crossed arms with your left palm against his chest and lay the child on the same palm – at an angle of 45 degrees to the floor. Hold the chin with the fingers of the same left hand so that the head does not fall.
• Use your right hand to support the newborn under the diaper.
• While holding your baby at a 45 degree angle, gently rock him. It can be up and down or side to side. Choose the most comfortable option for you. The main thing is that the movements are soft and smooth. Literally after a couple of seconds, the baby will be silent.

Watch Dr. Hamilton’s video for details:

Pediatrician warns: This technique is suitable for babies under 3 months of age. Later, they become too heavy to hold safely in this position.

And one more note. If the child does not calm down, then there are serious reasons for crying. Perhaps the baby is hungry, he is hot, or maybe he just has a wet diaper. Help a newborn get rid of physical discomfort, and he will give you a long-awaited smile and silence.

How to calm a child from 4 months to a year

By this time the baby is strong and begins to realize himself, so simple physical methods are no longer so effective. To calm the child, you have to connect the fantasy. But let’s start with the classics.

1. Pick up

Again, this option is suitable for all ages. Use it as often as possible. While hugging the child to you, whisper something soothing to him in a gentle soft voice.

2. Shift your attention

Hold the child in your arms and walk to the window with an enthusiastic voice saying something like “Wow, look at that big dump truck!” or “Look what a cute fluffy cat in the yard!”. Turn on the cartoon TV. Put on your favorite children’s songs and start dancing with your baby in your arms.

Your goal is to shift the baby’s attention from the situation that disturbed him and caused him to cry, to something new and interesting.

3. Replace emotional activity with physical activity

Take the child under the arms and let him jump on the bed. Or do some gymnastics. Or throw in the air (low). The need to concentrate in order to coordinate muscle activity will cause the infant to stop crying.

Attention! This method is not suitable if there is even the slightest suspicion that the crying is caused by a fall or pain.

4. Turn crying into something funny

For example, tickle a child. Or take his toy and set up a little puppet show. Speak for her in a funny theatrical voice: “Oh, who is crying here? Hush, hush, I’m afraid! – and hide it behind your back. The goal is to make the baby smile. Children’s crying, if you try, easily enough turns into laughter.

How to calm a child from one to 3-4 years old

At this age, most children already understand adults well, know how and like to communicate. This is the basis of the most effective methods of calming.

1. Pick up and sympathize

Hold a crying child close to you, say something like “You are crying. You must be upset about something. Tell me what happened, how can I help you? He will most likely tell you what is bothering him. This will help solve the problem of crying.

2. Be mindful

Ask your baby to cry more quietly (for example, so as not to wake up a resting mother) or in a lower voice, “like a bear”. If he obeys, you win. Crying will turn into conscious vocal exercises, from which the child will quickly get tired.

3. Remind me of an important task worth putting off crying for.

It might look like this: “Come on, you will cry later, otherwise it will soon become dark and if you cry for a long time, we will not have time to take a walk. ” Thus, you do not deprive the child of the right to tears. Just ask to be rescheduled for a more convenient time.

4. Find a way to vent the child’s bursting emotions

Offer him, for example, a pillow: “Come on, so as not to cry, we will beat her!” And together with the child, start knocking on a soft thing with your fists. You can also give an inflatable hammer or offer to throw plastic balls at the wall. Any kind of activity that will help get rid of negativity will do.

5. Create a funny ritual

For example, as soon as a child starts crying, run for a hair dryer to dry the tears immediately. “So, where is our hair dryer, where did I lose it? Oh, let’s blow on the cat? This will help to switch children’s attention and, perhaps, even make the child laugh.

6. Come up with “bad mood pills”

These can be bear-shaped jelly gummies, chocolate dragees, any other small sweetness. “Who’s crying here? We urgently call an ambulance, she brings us pills from a bad mood! Eat and your tears will dry!” The basic rules for this: there must be one “pill”, and if the child refuses it, this time it will no longer be offered.

How to calm a child 3-4 years old and older

By this age, children are already full-fledged individuals. And the reasons for their tears are much more diverse than those of babies. Each of them must be worked on individually. Fortunately, the child can already clearly voice what exactly made him cry, and this makes the task easier.

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The child often asks for breasts: how to understand that the child does not have enough milk?

Published: 06/27/2023

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The birth of a baby is a joyful event, but it is also associated with worries and experiences. Especially if the child in the family is the first of the parents, there are many questions that are not so easy to prepare in advance. One of them: “Why does a child often ask for a breast?”

Breastfeeding at a glance

Mother’s milk is the best food for a newborn. It contains in the right proportion important substances for growth, development, and protection against infections. It is always at the right temperature, it does not need to be cooked and thought about storage. In addition, the lactation process adapts to the needs of the baby: the breast produces exactly as much milk as the baby needs. Pediatricians agree that it is not worth restricting a child in breast milk in the first month after birth, and then the baby will form his own feeding regimen. And yet, many mothers are worried if the baby began to ask for breasts more often. Is it related to hunger and lactation disorders? Or is something bothering the child, and in this way he seeks solace? Let’s consider these questions in more detail.

Psychology of newborns

Breastfeeding is not just a process of satisfying hunger, but also a close psycho-emotional connection between the baby and mother. In his mind, they continue to remain one, and separation is perceived painfully. Thus, there are 2 main psychological moments why a child often asks for a breast:

1. The baby is used to the mother’s body – this is a familiar environment where it is warm and safe, and the beating of the heart has a calming effect. After birth, the child enters a new world for him, where there are many unfamiliar sounds, smells, and pictures. It is especially difficult to lie alone in a crib, which seems huge when you get used to the pleasant crampedness. The natural desire is to hide. And the most suitable place is under the mother’s breast. There is warmth, a familiar smell and a beating heart. And mother’s hands create a cozy cradle.
2. The areola around the nipple contains Montgomery’s glands, which secrete a secretion that smells like amniotic fluid. This smell is familiar, it gives a sense of security and the baby calms down.

Why is the baby hungry? The natural response to hunger is the desire for breasts. In addition, in infants, the stomach is able to hold a small amount of food, and the process of sucking is difficult for them. Saturated and tired, newborns fall asleep. But the rapid digestion of milk again causes a feeling of hunger. No matter how hard it is for the mother, it is not worth denying the baby the breast, since the subsequent lactation process and the formation of a sufficient amount of milk depend on it. Including night feedings are very important, since from 3 to 8 in the morning more of the hormone prolactin is produced, which contributes to the production of milk. But if the child began to often ask for breasts, the mother begins to worry about whether he has enough food and whether everything is in order with lactation. Let’s analyze the possible reasons for such a famine:

• baby only eats foremilk. And it actually quenches thirst. Back milk is more fatty, it is it that brings saturation;
• the baby does not latch on properly. It is very important from the very beginning to monitor how the baby captures the areola of the nipple. How to check: the baby’s mouth is wide open, the lips are turned out, the tongue lies under the areola, the nipple is deep (at the base of the tongue), the tip of the nose and chin are pressed to the chest;
• mother’s lack of milk. Such a problem can occur for various reasons (malnutrition, stress, illness, etc.), but it is important to seek help from a specialist in time and start taking action.

3 more reasons why a baby may ask for a breast. At the same time, the mother may think that he is hungry, but in fact the baby has:

• the sleep pattern has gone astray. Often a child needs a breast not to satisfy hunger and thirst, but to calm down and fall asleep;
• problems with the tummy. Gas and colic are a common problem in babies. Experiencing pain and discomfort, the baby seeks to calm himself in the usual way and asks for a breast;
• activity has changed during the day. Experts believe that regardless of the type of feeding, babies behave more restlessly in the afternoon.

Changes in appetite

In the first year of life, the child grows very quickly. Changes in his body are also reflected in his appetite: it can change in certain periods.

Lactation crisis . During this period, the woman’s body adapts to the needs of the baby. If there was even a short break in feeding, then the volume of milk decreases slightly. Because of this, the child may experience a feeling of hunger. That’s why he starts asking for breasts more often.

Growth spurts . The child grows either faster or slower, which is reflected in the appetite. During such periods, there is the greatest hunger and frequent demand for breasts. To deny the baby in his natural needs is not worth it.

How to understand that the baby has enough milk

In the first days after birth, the baby eats an average of up to 30 ml of mother’s milk per feeding. It’s not scary if he ate more one time and less the next, most likely he will just ask for the breast again faster. As a rule, with a normal feeding regimen and a sufficient amount of milk from the mother, by the age of one month, the weight of the child increases by 500-600 g. And yet, how to understand that the child has enough milk? There are 2 easy ways to do this.

Wet diaper test . Calculating the daily number of acts of urination and defecation of the crumbs allows you to give a very clear answer to the question of whether the baby has enough food. The age of newborns in a certain way affects the number of “going to the toilet.” So, in 3-4 weeks of life, children walk “in a small way” 20-25 times a day. When using diapers, it is very difficult to follow this. Therefore, for a while they will have to be abandoned in favor of diapers. If the baby urinates 20-25 times, and at the age of 6 months to 1 year – 15-16 times, then his mother’s milk is enough for him. Reducing the number of urination to 8-10 times a day suggests that the production of breast milk in a woman has decreased. And if there are less than 6 used diapers, this is a clear sign that the baby does not have enough mother’s food. In this case, it is necessary to urgently consult with a pediatrician.

Weighing. To control the amount eaten, many mothers buy special baby scales. How to use them correctly? To do this, take a sheet of paper, draw a table on it. The first column is the time, the second is the weight before feeding, the third is the weight after eating. Next, you need to weigh the hungry baby, write down the data and attach it to the chest. After feeding, also record the weighing information in the table.

How long should one feeding last

The answer to this question is purely individual and depends only on the baby himself, because each crumb already has its own character.

Miami, Florida Attorney for Infant Drooling from Birth Complications

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Drooling is a normal occurrence for every newborn. This is especially true when the teething process starts for a baby. However, excessive drooling can also indicate more serious health issues for a baby. If you believe that your child was a victim of medical malpractice that resulted in excessive drooling, you should consult with an experienced Miami birth complications injury attorney.

Prosper Shaked Accident Injury Attorneys PA is here to provide you and your family with the legal representation needed to pursue a birth injury claim in Miami, Florida. Doctors that do not provide a mother and her child with adequate medical care should be held accountable for their actions. To schedule a free legal consultation, contact Prosper Shaked Accident Injury Attorneys PA at (305) 694-2676. You can also contact the firm online.

Birth Complications Related to Excessive Drooling

Drooling is natural, especially for newborns between the age of three to six months when newborns become more curious and active. The parent of a child should be familiar with the amount of drool that is typical for their newborn. As a result, a parent is typically aware when their child’s drooling becomes excessive. When this happens, a parent should consider that there are other explanations for their child’s excessive drooling.

Neurological disorders are often responsible for a newborn experiencing excessive drooling. There are a number of neurological disorders that can explain why a child is experiencing excessive drooling. For example, amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ASL) is a degenerative disease that affects how the brain sends signals to other parts of the body, like a person’s facial muscles. There are other neurological disorders that can be responsible for birth complications related to excessive drooling.

Cerebral Palsy

Cerebral palsy is a neurological disorder that can also affect how the brain sends signals to the body. Specifically, cerebral palsy could affect the muscles in a newborn’s face. As a result, a child may have weak muscles in their face, which could explain why they may be unable to close their mouth or swallow, which could lead to excessive drooling.

Cerebral palsy is often caused because a child suffered brain damage before, during, or after delivery. When this happens, there is a possibility that a doctor or another medical practitioner could be liable for the child’s injuries.

It may seem extreme to suggest that excessive drooling could be a symptom that a newborn has developed cerebral palsy. While you should not assume that your child has cerebral palsy, you should seek medical attention for your child to determine the true cause of their excessive drooling.

Bell’s Palsy

Bell’s palsy is another type of neurological disorder that affects a portion of a person’s face. Common signs and symptoms of bell’s palsy include:

• A droopy eyelid on one side of the face
• Excessive drooling that typically occurs on one side of the mouth
• Abnormally dry eyes
• Unexplained sensitivity to loud noises and other sounds
• Inability to move muscles on one side of the face

Other disorders can explain why a child experiences excessive drooling, like Parkinson’s disease or a stroke. In some cases, excessive drooling could be caused by medication that is used to treat cerebral palsy. For example, diazepam is a drug that can treat cerebral palsy but that may also carry an increased risk of excessive drooling.

To learn more about liability for birth injuries like cerebral palsy, you should continue reading and speak with an experienced Miami, Florida birth injury lawyer.

Liability for Excessive Drooling Birth Complications in Miami, Florida

Indeed, some birth complications may not be the fault of any party. However, there are many cases where a medical practitioner could be responsible for a child’s injuries. When this happens, you should consider filing a malpractice lawsuit against a negligent medical practitioner.

A doctor or other health professionals that provide a mother and a newborn with medical care are expected to adhere to the common standards of medical care for their particular field. When medical care falls below these standards, a medical practitioner could be held liable for malpractice. Recognize that this does not mean that a doctor must provide a patient with impeccable medical care.

There are several ways that a doctor could be responsible for a child developing cerebral palsy. For example, if a doctor uses excessive force when utilizing birth-assisting instruments, they could easily cause an injury to the fragile head of a newborn. Under these circumstances, parents could pursue a medical malpractice claim against the doctor.

In some cases, a doctor and the hospital that employs them could be held liable for the doctor’s actions. This is possible if a doctor committed malpractice within the scope of their employment. For example, injuring a child during delivery is a negligent act that could be imputed to their employer through vicarious liability.

It is important to note that some hospitals may try to avoid liability for a birth injury by hiring doctors that operate as independent contractors. This means that a hospital can allege that a doctor was not under specific orders from the hospital, and the hospital should not be responsible for their negligence.

If you are unsure about who could be held liable for birth complications suffered by your child, you should share your concerns with an experienced Miami, Florida attorney.

Contact Our Dedicated Miami, Florida Birth Complication Lawyer for Infant Drooling Injuries

If your child developed cerebral palsy due to the negligent actions of a doctor, contact an experienced Miami, FL birth injury lawyer. Medical malpractice lawyer Prosper Shaked has acquired extensive experience litigating complex malpractice claims, and he would be proud to use this experience to represent you. To schedule a free consultation to discuss your claim, contact Prosper Shaked Accident Injury Attorneys PA at (305) 694-2676.

Drooling Rash – what is it & how do you treat it? — The PediPals

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Babies constantly explore the world around them with all of their senses and that often involves using their mouth, which can mean a LOT of drool. Especially when they’re teething!

But a baby’s salivary glands also working more when they’re around 2-3 months old, so often your little one may be drooling even when they’re not getting any new teeth. 

Where there is drool, there is often drool rash. You may have also heard it referred to as teething rash, lip licker’s dermatitis, or spit-up rash.

Drool rash is a type of contact dermatitis that occurs when excess saliva irritates the skin around your baby’s mouth or chin for prolonged periods of time. It can also appear on your baby’s cheeks, in the folds of your baby’s neck and on your baby’s chest as a result of too much wet skin due to saliva.

Drool rash may look like a red, inflamed, bumpy rash that can be itchy and sore. It may also have a chapped appearance. 

The most likely culprit is drool, but your baby may also develop a rash if they use a pacifier that keeps that skin wet or if smeared food is left on their face for too long.  

Things you can do to prevent a drool rash include: 

• Have a soft burp cloth handy at all times to gently wipe away any drool – especially after feedings and naps

• Try using a bib if your baby drools enough to dampen their shirts. Change bibs as soon as they become damp and replace it with a clean, dry one.

• Take breaks from pacifiers. They can encourage drool rash if the saliva is trapped against your baby’s skin.

• Don’t wait too long to clean your baby’s face after meals. 

You can treat most cases of drool rash from home: 

• Wash the afflicted areas gently with warm water, then pat dry. Avoid rubbing which can irritate your baby’s skin more. 

• Apply a thin coat of a healing ointment, like Aquaphor or petroleum jelly, to act as a barrier between your baby’s skin and drool.

• Avoid irritants. Use mild, unscented baby washes at bath time.

Avoid using lotion on drool rashes. Skin should be kept as dry as possible and treated with a healing ointment. 

If your baby’s drool rash hasn’t improved after a week or so, or if the rash worsens, is cracking or painful – call your pediatrician. Occasionally, your doctor may recommend using hydrocortisone cream for limited time. 

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Is it possible to kiss a child on the lips and why it can be dangerous – August 10, 2022

Tactile contact with a parent is very important for a child. But mothers, fathers and especially other relatives in a fit of tenderness do not always realize how harmless this contact is. A small person cannot yet establish his boundaries, and the boundaries of his parents and other family members should help him in this. Our colleagues from Wday.ru learned from experts whether it is possible to kiss children on the lips and how else to show your love so that it is useful.

According to pediatrician Tatyana Altman, the first two months after the birth of a child, parents need to be very careful. At this time, the baby’s immunity has not yet awakened, therefore, according to the doctor, there can be no talk of any kisses on the lips during this period.

— An adult’s lips have a huge amount of bacteria. Many viruses can be inadvertently introduced to a child. The infection enters the child’s oral cavity and begins to actively multiply, suppressing his immunity. Then it affects the gastrointestinal tract and skin. Babies in general need to be treated very sensitively. From birth, they do not have caries pathogens in the oral cavity, they receive it through the mother’s kiss. Because of such trifles, very serious harm can be done to a fragile body, even death. It is also necessary to ensure that the child does not lick the dropped nipple, says the pediatrician.

In addition to the physiological reasons why you should not kiss small children on the lips, there are also psychological ones. To respect the personal boundaries of the child, it is better to try to start right from the moment he is born.

— Touch language is very important for a child. But sometimes parents start to go too far, – psychologist Anna Garsh says .

The expert explains that it is necessary to clearly understand that the child is a separate person, which should have its own boundaries. When adults kiss him, they thereby demonstrate the openness of his body. The child in this case shows a passive position.

If such behavior is fixed in the family as a norm, there is a risk that your child may develop victim syndrome, he will not be able to say “no” if he was forcibly forced to “kiss his granny” all his childhood, otherwise she will be offended.

— It turns out that the child becomes a passive object in front of adults actively penetrating his territory. This is if we talk about pedophilia, rape and child molestation. But we always think that this happens somewhere in the news and scary stories on the Internet, but this will never happen to us. I myself saw a girl of 5–6 years old who hugged and kissed someone else’s uncle on the lips in the store just because he gave her something or said something kind. It was an acceptable way for a girl to show warm feelings of gratitude. Mom spread her hands, uncle went nuts, and I imagined that my uncle could actually have an erection, – she said in a column for 72.RU sexologist Olga Kareneeva .

The expert gives another argument against kissing on the lips: a child at the age of 3-6 begins to explore his sexuality – learning the difference between boys and girls, showing love to a parent of the opposite sex, then to peers, first interpersonal emotional experiences, and so on. Further. During this period, it is important that parents not only adequately respond to the manifestations of sexuality in their child, but also set certain limits and restrictions.

If kissing on the lips is habitual for a child, he will easily try to kiss other children or adults and he will not form a special difference between boys and girls. And at a transitional age, when hormones are, to put it mildly, naughty, a kiss on the lips will not carry any sacred meaning, but will be a natural phenomenon.

— If you inflate it a lot, you can imagine that the lightness of a kiss in adolescence can already lead to arousal, which will continue with sexual intercourse, which will end in pregnancy, which will become an abortion, which will lead to infertility … Creepy, but understandable, – says the sexologist .

The expert advises asking the child if they can be kissed. The child should be comfortable. So that later, in adulthood, he would not recall with horror the slobbering lips of all his relatives, after which he had to dry himself as soon as possible.

Experts say that if you have a grown child, it is better not to abuse walking around the house in underwear. Of course, there is nothing wrong with the fact that the child sees you, for example, in a bathing suit.

“We live in a country where it is not customary to go naked,” remarks medical psychologist Elena Nikolaeva . “And the behavior when parents ignore clothes comes into conflict with what society requires of us. Also, if you walk in underwear (but not sexy) around the apartment, the child needs to explain this. For example, it’s hot at home, it’s more comfortable, but it’s not customary to walk like that on the street.

8 more things not to do in front of children – in our material.

Hug, talk, support your baby, come up with home rituals that belong only to you. Psychologists advise using The “Rule of the First Three Minutes” is a very simple psychological technique that helps parents establish a trusting relationship with their child (by the way – it works not only for children, check it out).

Many adults have a knack for inserting irrelevant remarks into the story of relatives, friends or colleagues. At the same time, part of the story flies in one ear and immediately flies out the other. In the rule of the first three minutes, such a skill is superfluous. Learn to actively listen to the child, delving into everything that he says, remembering the key points. By the way, you can return to them a couple of days later, recalling what you talked about. So children understand that they are really heard, and not just assent out of politeness. The main thing is not to interrupt the child in mid-sentence, do not start arguing, proving that he is wrong.

Just listen carefully for the first three minutes: boys and girls take on average that much time to talk about the events of the day. And after that, feel free to ask questions. Show the child the right direction so that he can correct what happened due to his fault. Or rejoice for his small victories.

Try never to lie to yourself or your children, always express the emotions you feel. If you are upset by the act of the child, say so, if you are delighted with his success, praise him. Do not skimp on kind words, noting the efforts of the child and his excellent abilities. Even three-year-olds are sensitive to falsehood and pretense, so do without a social mask – at home you can be yourself.

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones – Happiest Baby

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Dr. Harvey Karp, MD, FAAP

Do you ever feel like someone is watching you? If your baby is 10 weeks old, you’re absolutely right! At this age, babies adore studying our face! Although your little one has been able to recognize you for weeks, they are increasingly fascinated by all the fun faces you can make. And it doesn’t take long for one of those expressions to prompt a smile from your little admirer.

Whether your newest addition is your first child or has joined a family with big sibs, every baby comes with an adjustment period. Changing diapers, feeding your baby, and maybe even getting out of the house on walks may feel like a breeze by now. But, what about the other ways you used to spend your time before your baby arrived? Although you have a new list of priorities, it’s wise to still put self-care on the schedule and make an effort to spend quality time with your partner and friends.

Not having a babysitter is no reason to skip the date night entirely…babies can be fine restaurant companions! Believe it or not, your baby is a quieter third-wheel at this point than they will be a year or two down the road.  

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Development

Colors, Textures, Shapes—Oh My!

Your baby has been taking in their surroundings from the very beginning. But now they are really starting to make sense of the world around them! By recognizing patterns, seeking out familiar faces, and processing all sorts of sensory information, they are constantly learning.

This is all an important part of your baby’s cognitive development, which is a big term that describes how we pick up, mentally organize, and learn to use knowledge. In other words, it’s all about putting the pieces together! Babies also don’t need anything too fancy to learn a whole bunch. Sensory toys and activities are great for sparking your baby’s curiosity. And that includes those “toys” you already have in your house, like crinkly wrapping paper or shiny kitchen pot. 

10-Week-Old Baby Milestones

There are two (equally important) categories for motor skills: gross motor skills that use large muscles and fine motor skills that use smaller muscles. Those two sets of skills often work in harmony, such as when you lift your arm and wiggle your fingers.

When it comes to your 10-week-old baby, some of the gross motor skills they are actively working on probably include learning to roll, keeping their head and upper torso raised during tummy time, and kicking their legs. During what appear to be calmer moments, they may also be trying hard to master some fine motor skills, such as moving their fingers, raising their hand to their mouth, and whacking out to grab something, like your glasses. Lots of times they intently look at something—as if they would like to grab it—but rather than reach out, their little hands grasp each other, exploring their own entwined fingers.   

Note: Now that your baby is just beginning to reach out and hit their targets, you must be super careful about burns. NEVER have a glass of hot liquid in your hand—or on the table in front of you—when your baby is in your arms or you’re seated at the table.

Future Baby Milestones to Watch

Your baby is currently between well-child visits (which is when your provider will assess your little one’s development), but at your next check-up (which occurs at 4 months), your provider will likely ask you about these milestones:

• Does your baby smile spontaneously? (More about Baby’s first smile)
• Does your baby laugh?
• Does your baby look at you, move, or make sounds to get your attention?
• Does your baby make cooing noises (oooh’s and aaah’s)?
• Does your baby respond to sounds you make with their own sounds?
• Does your baby turn to look at you when they hear your voice?
• Does your baby open their mouth to show they’re hungry when they see a bottle or breast?
• Does your baby look at their own hands with interest?
• Can your baby keep their head steady when held?
• Can your baby hold a toy when it’s placed in their hand?
• Does your baby bring hands to mouth?
• Can your baby push to elbows or forearms during tummy time?

Every baby is different—so your baby may check off some of these items “early” and other skills may take longer to achieve. It’s important to know that there’s a wide range of what’s considered normal! 

Your 10-Week-Old Baby’s Health

A Yucky Milestone: Baby’s First Cold

Whether the germs come from daycare, the library, or Big Sis, it’s unfortunately only a matter of time before your baby develops their first case of the sniffles. (Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but kids experience an average of 8 to 10 colds during the first two years.) While a fever for a baby younger than 3 months (or any lethargy or irritability) always merits a call to the doctor, a stuffy nose may be treatable with some TLC at home. If there is no improvement or symptoms worsen within a few days, follow up with your pediatrician. 

• Common cold symptoms for babies include stuffy or runny noses, fussiness, sneezing, coughing, decreased appetite, difficulty nursing or taking milk from a bottle, and low-grade fevers. (Remember, you’ll want to see a doctor if your baby’s temperature rises above 100 degrees during the first three months. ) 
• Signs of a more serious illness, such as pneumonia, flu, or croup, include wheezing, high fever, vomiting, shakes or chills, rapid breathing, and a worsening cough. If any of these symptoms appear, seek medical treatment as soon as possible. 
• You can help treat a common cold by using a nasal aspirator to clear your baby’s nose, keeping a humidifier in their room, using a nasal saline spray, very slightly elevating the head of the bed (don’t put anything in your baby’s bed that could cause suffocation…and never elevate more than one inch), and offering lots of breastmilk or formula.

One old home remedy is to put two to three drops of fresh milk right from your breast into a dropper and then into your baby’s nose. Sounds odd? Interestingly, baby germs go up into the breasts and the immune tissue inside can make antibodies specifically against the illness the baby is fighting off. It’s like a tailor-made antibiotic.

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Indie, 10 weeks: Unsettled, crying… and colic?

by Amanda Snedden

Dec 8, 2022

2 min read

Indie’s sleep story…

Indie was a pretty chilled baby… until it came to the afternoons and evenings! She napped well in the morning from 8-10am, then had a nice long lunch nap from 12-3pm, but then in the afternoon she refused to sleep and became more and more unsettled.

Maria tried rocking and feeding her, and going for walks, but Indie just continued to cry. From 5pm until 8pm everyday, she wouldn’t sleep, she wouldn’t feed… she would just scream the whole time! Come 8pm everyone was exhausted and Indie would finally fall asleep. The relief was short-lived though as she would then wake hourly from 1am until 7am.  

Indie was also quite a windy baby and didn’t burp overly well – sometimes it could take Maria up to 30 minutes to get a good burp out of her. During the afternoons she would take even longer to burp and became very distressed at the same time. This meant she also swallowed more air while crying. After 3 weeks of her baby crying every afternoon and evening, Maria took Indie to the doctor for some help. 

Maria’s GP diagnosed Indie with colic, which Maria found very hard to deal with because she felt like there was nothing she could do. Every afternoon Indie would strain, kick, grunt and flail her arms, seemingly in pain, and Maria felt helpless. Her GP said the colic would get better at 12 weeks but things only seemed to be getting worse. So Maria decided to see if we could help.

We quickly ascertained that little Indie was a great napper – in fact, she was napping a little too well! She was having a massive 5 hours of sleep between 7am and 3pm, meaning she didn’t actually need any more sleep during the day – she needed more awake time.

BUT because Indie was having all of that sleep earlier in the day, this lead to Indie becoming very overtired and hard to settle later in the day. So we advised Maria to start adjusting the lengths and times of Indie’s naps to match the schedule in our Sleep Program. This would ensure Indie’s sleep was more evenly distributed across the day.

It only took a few days for Maria to notice massive improvements. Soon, Indie was happily having an afternoon nap each day, meaning she was no longer getting overtired by the end of the day. She was not nearly as unsettled as she had been and to Maria’s amazement, her colic symptoms completely disappeared!

Further consultation with her GP confirmed that Indie’s “colic” had in fact been severe over tiredness. Over tiredness can mimic the symptoms of colic, causing babies to become extremely unsettled in the afternoon and evening – a time commonly referred to as “the witching hour”. 

Following the sleep schedules in our Program helped Maria to redistribute Indie’s sleep more evenly between 7am and 7pm so there was no time that she could become overtired. Not only did this completely resolve Indie’s “colic” symptoms, it improved her night sleep too:

I actually can’t believe it – Indie doesn’t have colic at all! She just needed to nap at slightly different times and not as much in the mornings. As an added bonus Indie now only wakes once or twice in the night rather than hourly as well!! Thank you Little Ones xox

If you suspect your baby might have colic, or if you’re struggling with “the witching hour”, our Sleep Programs can help you rule out over tiredness as the cause. You’ll get instant access to customisable sleep schedules, comprehensive troubleshooting notes, gentle settling methods and more. Our team of expert sleep consultants are also available, day and night, to provide you with more personalised guidance and support.

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The child often asks for breasts: how to understand that the child does not have enough milk?

Published: 06/27/2023

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The birth of a baby is a joyful event, but it is also associated with worries and experiences. Especially if the child in the family is the first of the parents, there are many questions that are not so easy to prepare in advance. One of them: “Why does a child often ask for a breast?”

Breastfeeding at a glance

Mother’s milk is the best food for a newborn. It contains in the right proportion important substances for growth, development, and protection against infections. It is always at the right temperature, it does not need to be cooked and thought about storage. In addition, the lactation process adapts to the needs of the baby: the breast produces exactly as much milk as the baby needs. Pediatricians agree that it is not worth restricting a child in breast milk in the first month after birth, and then the baby will form his own feeding regimen. And yet, many mothers are worried if the baby began to ask for breasts more often. Is it related to hunger and lactation disorders? Or is something bothering the child, and in this way he seeks solace? Let’s consider these questions in more detail.

Psychology of newborns

Breastfeeding is not just a process of satisfying hunger, but also a close psycho-emotional connection between the baby and mother. In his mind, they continue to remain one, and separation is perceived painfully. Thus, there are 2 main psychological moments why a child often asks for a breast:

1. The baby is used to the mother’s body – this is a familiar environment where it is warm and safe, and the beating of the heart has a calming effect. After birth, the child enters a new world for him, where there are many unfamiliar sounds, smells, and pictures. It is especially difficult to lie alone in a crib, which seems huge when you get used to the pleasant crampedness. The natural desire is to hide. And the most suitable place is under the mother’s breast. There is warmth, a familiar smell and a beating heart. And mother’s hands create a cozy cradle.
2. The areola around the nipple contains Montgomery’s glands, which secrete a secretion that smells like amniotic fluid. This smell is familiar, it gives a sense of security and the baby calms down.

Why is the baby hungry? The natural response to hunger is the desire for breasts. In addition, in infants, the stomach is able to hold a small amount of food, and the process of sucking is difficult for them. Saturated and tired, newborns fall asleep. But the rapid digestion of milk again causes a feeling of hunger. No matter how hard it is for the mother, it is not worth denying the baby the breast, since the subsequent lactation process and the formation of a sufficient amount of milk depend on it. Including night feedings are very important, since from 3 to 8 in the morning more of the hormone prolactin is produced, which contributes to the production of milk. But if the child began to often ask for breasts, the mother begins to worry about whether he has enough food and whether everything is in order with lactation. Let’s analyze the possible reasons for such a famine:

• baby only eats foremilk. And it actually quenches thirst. Back milk is more fatty, it is it that brings saturation;
• the baby does not latch on properly. It is very important from the very beginning to monitor how the baby captures the areola of the nipple. How to check: the baby’s mouth is wide open, the lips are turned out, the tongue lies under the areola, the nipple is deep (at the base of the tongue), the tip of the nose and chin are pressed to the chest;
• mother’s lack of milk. Such a problem can occur for various reasons (malnutrition, stress, illness, etc.), but it is important to seek help from a specialist in time and start taking action.

3 more reasons why a baby may ask for a breast. At the same time, the mother may think that he is hungry, but in fact the baby has:

• the sleep pattern has gone astray. Often a child needs a breast not to satisfy hunger and thirst, but to calm down and fall asleep;
• problems with the tummy. Gas and colic are a common problem in babies. Experiencing pain and discomfort, the baby seeks to calm himself in the usual way and asks for a breast;
• activity has changed during the day. Experts believe that regardless of the type of feeding, babies behave more restlessly in the afternoon.

Changes in appetite

In the first year of life, the child grows very quickly. Changes in his body are also reflected in his appetite: it can change in certain periods.

Lactation crisis . During this period, the woman’s body adapts to the needs of the baby. If there was even a short break in feeding, then the volume of milk decreases slightly. Because of this, the child may experience a feeling of hunger. That’s why he starts asking for breasts more often.

Growth spurts . The child grows either faster or slower, which is reflected in the appetite. During such periods, there is the greatest hunger and frequent demand for breasts. To deny the baby in his natural needs is not worth it.

How to understand that the baby has enough milk

In the first days after birth, the baby eats an average of up to 30 ml of mother’s milk per feeding. It’s not scary if he ate more one time and less the next, most likely he will just ask for the breast again faster. As a rule, with a normal feeding regimen and a sufficient amount of milk from the mother, by the age of one month, the weight of the child increases by 500-600 g. And yet, how to understand that the child has enough milk? There are 2 easy ways to do this.

Wet diaper test . Calculating the daily number of acts of urination and defecation of the crumbs allows you to give a very clear answer to the question of whether the baby has enough food. The age of newborns in a certain way affects the number of “going to the toilet.” So, in 3-4 weeks of life, children walk “in a small way” 20-25 times a day. When using diapers, it is very difficult to follow this. Therefore, for a while they will have to be abandoned in favor of diapers. If the baby urinates 20-25 times, and at the age of 6 months to 1 year – 15-16 times, then his mother’s milk is enough for him. Reducing the number of urination to 8-10 times a day suggests that the production of breast milk in a woman has decreased. And if there are less than 6 used diapers, this is a clear sign that the baby does not have enough mother’s food. In this case, it is necessary to urgently consult with a pediatrician.

Weighing. To control the amount eaten, many mothers buy special baby scales. How to use them correctly? To do this, take a sheet of paper, draw a table on it. The first column is the time, the second is the weight before feeding, the third is the weight after eating. Next, you need to weigh the hungry baby, write down the data and attach it to the chest. After feeding, also record the weighing information in the table.

How long should one feeding last

The answer to this question is purely individual and depends only on the baby himself, because each crumb already has its own character. Some children tend to eat as soon as possible – 10-15 minutes is enough for them. Others eat slowly, savoring, enjoying the process itself. From the chest, they may not be weaned for 30-40 minutes. Mom should not worry that the child eats for so long. But if the baby suckles for more than an hour, this does not benefit anyone, so you need to try something to distract him. Also, during feeding, it is not recommended to change the breast, as the interruption of the process is annoying for the baby. Let the baby put more effort into extracting hindmilk from the half-empty breast. This, by the way, is much more difficult, but no less important for the child and for the lactation process.

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• Why is the child hungry
• Appetite changes
• How to tell if your baby is getting enough milk
• How long should one feeding last

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How to calm a child quickly – Lifehacker

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Lifehacker has collected only working methods for different ages.

How to soothe a newborn

1. Pick up, snuggle up to your chest

A versatile method that works for babies of all ages and even adults. Hugs soothe, give a sense of security, convince you that you are not alone in this harsh and terrible world. They also increase the production of the hormone oxytocin (not for nothing it is sometimes called the “hug hormone”), which increases the level of satisfaction with life and reduces pain.

In general, take the baby in your arms, remembering to support the head at the back of the head with the palm of your hand, and press it to you. The crying, if it doesn’t stop immediately, will surely become quieter. And there, before the child calms down, not far.

2. Swaddle or, conversely, unswrap

Newborns still have strong physical memories of the time when they were in their mother’s stomach. Therefore, perhaps the child needs to feel that he is in a safe, restrictive cocoon. Swaddle him.

Another option (if crying has already begun in diapers) is to free the baby’s arms and legs from the fabric. Maybe he’s wrapped too tight and feels uncomfortable.

3. Give a breast, bottle or pacifier

Even if the baby is not hungry, suckling will help him calm down.

4. Rock your baby to white noise

Ideal if you have a white noise generator. Then just turn it on and rock your baby to these soothing sounds.

However, if there is no special device at hand, it does not matter. Use the old grandmother’s method. Take the child in your arms, rock him rhythmically and hiss quietly above his ear in a monotone: “Sh-sh-sh-sh.”

5. Use Dr. Hamilton’s 5-Second Technique

The video, which California pediatrician Robert Hamilton posted on YouTube, has already amassed over 36 million views. And no wonder – it contains an almost magical way to instantly soothe a crying baby.

“My parents have asked me a million times to share this recipe,” the pediatrician himself explained the appearance of the video. Robert Hamilton has been a pediatrician in Santa Monica, California for 30 years, and the method he describes is the culmination of years of experience.

Hamilton calls the proposed technique “holding.” It consists of only four steps, the implementation of which can be put in literally 5 seconds.

• Hold the baby in your arms and cross his arms over your chest.
• Press the crossed arms with your left palm against his chest and lay the child on the same palm – at an angle of 45 degrees to the floor. Hold the chin with the fingers of the same left hand so that the head does not fall.
• Use your right hand to support the newborn under the diaper.
• While holding your baby at a 45 degree angle, gently rock him. It can be up and down or side to side. Choose the most comfortable option for you. The main thing is that the movements are soft and smooth. Literally after a couple of seconds, the baby will be silent.

Watch Dr. Hamilton’s video for details:

Pediatrician warns: This technique is suitable for babies under 3 months of age. Later, they become too heavy to hold safely in this position.

And one more note. If the child does not calm down, then there are serious reasons for crying. Perhaps the baby is hungry, he is hot, or maybe he just has a wet diaper. Help a newborn get rid of physical discomfort, and he will give you a long-awaited smile and silence.

How to calm a child from 4 months to a year

By this time the baby is strong and begins to realize himself, so simple physical methods are no longer so effective. To calm the child, you have to connect the fantasy. But let’s start with the classics.

1. Pick up

Again, this option is suitable for all ages. Use it as often as possible. While hugging the child to you, whisper something soothing to him in a gentle soft voice.

2. Shift your attention

Hold the child in your arms and walk to the window with an enthusiastic voice saying something like “Wow, look at that big dump truck!” or “Look what a cute fluffy cat in the yard!”. Turn on the cartoon TV. Put on your favorite children’s songs and start dancing with your baby in your arms.

Your goal is to shift the baby’s attention from the situation that disturbed him and caused him to cry, to something new and interesting.

3. Replace emotional activity with physical activity

Take the child under the arms and let him jump on the bed. Or do some gymnastics. Or throw in the air (low). The need to concentrate in order to coordinate muscle activity will cause the infant to stop crying.

Attention! This method is not suitable if there is even the slightest suspicion that the crying is caused by a fall or pain.

4. Turn crying into something funny

For example, tickle a child. Or take his toy and set up a little puppet show. Speak for her in a funny theatrical voice: “Oh, who is crying here? Hush, hush, I’m afraid! – and hide it behind your back. The goal is to make the baby smile. Children’s crying, if you try, easily enough turns into laughter.

How to calm a child from one to 3-4 years old

At this age, most children already understand adults well, know how and like to communicate. This is the basis of the most effective methods of calming.

1. Pick up and sympathize

Hold a crying child close to you, say something like “You are crying. You must be upset about something. Tell me what happened, how can I help you? He will most likely tell you what is bothering him. This will help solve the problem of crying.

2. Be more mindful

Ask your baby to cry more quietly (for example, so as not to wake a resting mother) or in a lower voice, “like a bear”. If he obeys, you win. Crying will turn into conscious vocal exercises, from which the child will quickly get tired.

3. Remind me of an important task worth putting off crying for

It might look like this: “Come on, you will cry later, otherwise it will soon become dark and if you cry for a long time, we will not have time to take a walk. ” Thus, you do not deprive the child of the right to tears. Just ask to be rescheduled for a more convenient time.

4. Find a way to vent the child’s bursting emotions

Offer him, for example, a pillow: “Let’s not cry, we’ll beat her!” And together with the child, start knocking on a soft thing with your fists. You can also give an inflatable hammer or offer to throw plastic balls at the wall. Any kind of activity that will help get rid of negativity will do.

5. Create a funny ritual

For example, as soon as a child starts crying, run for a hair dryer to quickly dry the tears. “So, where is our hair dryer, where did I lose it? Oh, let’s blow on the cat? This will help to switch children’s attention and, perhaps, even make the child laugh.

6. Come up with “bad mood pills”

These can be bear-shaped jelly gummies, chocolate dragees, any other small sweetness. “Who’s crying here? We urgently call an ambulance, she brings us pills from a bad mood! Eat and your tears will dry!” The basic rules for this: there must be one “pill”, and if the child refuses it, this time it will no longer be offered.

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I started sitting for my family’s friends when I was around 12 years old. I was the go-to sitter for everyone who knew me because I always like to keep the kids entertained without the TV! It is a priority for me to leave the home clean, and the kids happy. I have first aid and CPR training becauseI worked as a swim instructor prior to working in healthcare for several years. Instructing swim lessons and working in healthcare are where I see most of my professional interactions with children. I enjoy babysitting more than teaching or treating kids because it gives me an opportunity to get to know the child and to actually do things with them. My schedule is pretty flexible because I just graduated with my bachelor’s degree, and I’m looking to go part time at my healthcare job. I’m a fun, interactive, and energetic sitter!…

Belle can also help with: Grocery shopping, Light cleaning

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Hello! Like most people, I started babysitting when I was in my early teens and continued until my early twenties. My most recent experience has been caring for my nephews when I’m visiting my sister and watching my friend’s kids while they have a well deserved night out. I currently work as an inhome support for adults with mental disabilities. Through this job I have become CPR/First Aid certified and an approved foster parent in the state of NV. I love storytelling and cooking. I am hardworking, caring, and punctual….

Cassandra can also help with: Carpooling, Light cleaning

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Hi! I have four years of experience babysitting children from newborn-8 years old. I am originally from North Carolina, but moved to Florida in 2019 to assist My Aunt who is a stay at home mother. After helping her and other mothers I met along the way, I required a stable income. I now work inaccounts payable Monday-Thursday 8:00am-4:30 p.m. & Friday 8:00am-12:00 p.m. At 25 years old and on my own in Florida now I would love the extra income and doing something I enjoy in my free time….

Lauren can also help with: Grocery shopping, Carpooling, Light cleaning

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Hi I am Bridget, I attend the University of South Carolina and I am enrolled in their nursing school with hopes of being a pediatric nurse. I am the second oldest of six kids and the oldest girl. I have been babysitting since I was 12 years old after taking a CPR and babysitting class. I am alifeguard and swim instructor for all ages. I grew up in Jacksonville Florida and started volunteering at camp I am special my Sophomore year. This lead me to teach and getting certified in special needs swim instructing. I am good with kids and one of 21 grandchildren and I am one of the older ones too. I worked this summer as a camp counselor at a kid’s summer camp. I am home for summer break until August and am flexible with hours….

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FAQs for finding an in-home babysitter

How much do in-home babysitters charge near me in Jacksonville, FL in July, 2023?

All in-home babysitters charge different rates, but in-home babysitter rates near you start at $14.26. This is just a baseline price to give you an idea of how much it can cost to hire an in-home babysitter. Years of experience, location, and desired babysitting duties like driving them home from school and tutoring can all impact the price a sitter charges.

What can in-home babysitters near me in Jacksonville, FL help with?

In-home babysitter duties can vary greatly. Some can help with homework. Others may prefer to tackle in-home chores like laundry, cooking, and light housekeeping. You can review 34 profiles of in-home babysitters near you by the types of babysitter duties they are comfortable taking on.

How can I find in-home babysitters near me in Jacksonville, FL?

You can now find babysitters online in Jacksonville, FL with the help of babysitting websites like Care.com. Through Care.com, you can review 34 in-home babysitters near you who have your desired level of experience and skills, such as CPR training.

Ratings for Jacksonville, FL in-home babysitters listed on Care.com

Average Rating4.6 / 5

In-Home Babysitters in Jacksonville, FL are rated 4.6 out of 5 stars based on 62 reviews of the 38 listed in-home babysitters.

Babysitting At Home

It is very important for parents to find the best nanny possible for their little ones. The family’s home is where the babies and young children are cared for by a qualified nanny. Designated as a professional babysitter, she performs her childcare duties, gives each family member’s child individual attention, supports kids with active learning tasks and social activities, and assists moms in all areas. At Justlife, you will find the best babysitter wanted in your area, easily. Professional babysitting services care for kids of all ages, from infants to those in school, and can provide tailored services for particular age ranges or kids with special needs. Based on the agreement with the parents, the nanny service we offer will aid your child’s development and help you find some free time for yourself. 

 

 

 A babysitter typically provides day-to-day, part-time, or full-time care for the child while they are at home. Typical babysitter tasks consist of:

• Assistance and supervision of children at the workplace

• Preparing infant nutrition products

• Preparing a variety of snacks for kids

• Preparing food for bottle-fed children

• Supporting education

• Getting ready

• Baby toilet training and diaper changes

• Know the fundamentals, and assist with homework 

• Recognize and engage in pastimes like games, crafts, comics, outings, and exercise

• To rear disciplined kids using the techniques that parents demand

• Supporting kids in their extracurricular activities

• Ensuring that kids are always moving around

• As requested by parents, monitor the children’s activities during mealtimes and Downtime, and alert them if anything negative happens

• Educating kids about social skills and personal hygiene

• Keeping track of each child’s daily activities and health information

• Taking note of children’s emotional comfort and wellbeing

• Watch how kids behave and write up reports for the parents.

• Knowledge of the child’s medical background

• Training in wearing clothes and bathing

• Aiding in the development and acquisition of language

• Introduce educational games that are suited to their level of development and Intelligence

• Introducing numbers, letters, and colors

• Art and craft projects

• Sort and make the beds for the kids.

 

Depending on the situation and the parents’ consent, babysitting at home may also help with other parental duties. Among them are;

 

• Keeping the kitchen clean

• Preparing the king beds

• Washing the family’s clothes

• Washing towels and bed linens

• Preparing dinner for the family

• Cleaning up the house.

• Purchasing supplies or clothing for the kids

• Kitchen cabinet organization

• Taking the family’s vehicle to the petrol station, car wash, and repair facility

• Plan and oversee home maintenance and repair services.

• Taking care of indoor plants

 

The duties of a home babysitting service are summed simply in changing diapers, watching a sleeping child, making meals, and engaging in games.

 

Our babysitters possess extraordinary abilities in the areas of care, interaction, diligence, responsibility, association, education, and coaching, as well as regulated work skills like flexibility.

 

 

Why Should You Take Babysitting Services From Justlife’s Professional Babysitters?

 

An excellent babysitter should be patient, empathetic, peaceful, sociable, truthful, loving children, heartfelt, reliable, and totally open to interaction. When you decide that you are searching for a babysitter, we send you people who are properly competent for doing their job, who have received the necessary training, and who genuinely enjoy doing this important job of babysitting.

We are aware of how much you adore your child and are willing to do anything for them. We are here to help you because we want to make your life simpler and bring you some relief.

In an emergency, a qualified and trained babysitter should remain composed and think of the best options for your child. At this spot, expert babysitters should also have training and knowledge in child development. We at Justlife’s Professional Babysitters only hire well-trained, compassionate individuals to be your child’s nanny. We believe you won’t regret picking a nanny from a pool of gifted individuals who can develop a loving relationship with children.

 

 

How to Find the Best Babysitter/Nanny for You?

 

You can find a babysitter easily. All of our caregivers are skilled and experienced. They are friendly, dependable, and totally open to interaction. We hire professional caregivers who love kids above all else in order to provide you with the best service. 

All of our nannies have childcare expertise, are trained in pediatric first aid, and are confirmed as caregivers. They have the skills necessary to take care of kids of all ages, even newborns. You can get in touch with us so that we can give your child the best care possible.

 

 

How Much Is The Babysitting Service at Home?

 

Your child means the world to you, as we all know. Therefore, we aim to give you and your child the chance to improve the quality of your lives. Our babysitting prices are set depending on the period of babysitting. You can check our website or app to view them.

 

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Nanny in the house: pros and cons

When a woman is expecting a baby, her fantasy paints idyllic pictures: how together with the baby they learn the first words, read colorful books, play, laugh – and everything is like in a fairy tale. But the reality looks a little different: a young mother really needs help in caring for a child.

In addition, after some time after the arrival of a new family member, many mothers go to work. And then the question arises: with whom to leave the crumbs for the whole day? With Grandma? Well, if she is and wants to fully deal with her grandson. But an elderly woman is no longer able to spend every day from morning to evening with a playful fidget. There is only one way out – to hire a good nanny.

However, good nannies don’t lie on the road. On TV every now and then they tell crime stories about nannies-pests, and the thought that someone else will be with your baby causes serious excitement. Even at the interview, the mother has a question: is it true that the nanny will be so sweet and kind when she is left alone with the baby? After all, a small child cannot yet complain; how to protect it?

But if stories worthy of a TV show rarely happen, then in ordinary life, communication between mother and nanny does not always go smoothly at first. For example, they may not have the same pedagogical methods and views on the subtleties of education. A professional nanny believes that it is time to put the child on the potty and wean it from the pacifier, but this does not seem necessary to the mother yet; she has other plans. The mother says that it is necessary to punish the child for the offense by depriving the cartoons, and the nanny believes that it is enough to discuss the situation with the child. And there will be many such moments during the period of adaptation of the nanny to the family and the child. Most mothers really want the nanny to simply perform tasks, and not implement their own strategies for raising and caring for children, so it is important for such mothers to find a like-minded person and performer, and for those who want to completely trust in the hands of a professional, find an initiative nanny who will herself recommend parenting strategies.

Statistics also show that many young mothers consider that one of the disadvantages of having a nanny in the house is that the child gets used to her. Even in the evening, he can happily remember her, wants a cheesecake baked by her, quotes her words, and even waits for her “more than necessary.” But if the nanny is so indifferent to the child that after her departure he does not even remember her, then this is a bad nanny – an automatic machine.

But perhaps the most important disadvantage of a nanny is the need to pay for her services. And a really good babysitter is expensive. And this is often quite noticeable for the family budget. And yet…

More benefits!

You can get around any pitfalls if you choose a good nanny with extensive experience and, most importantly, with a good heart. At the interview, any mother will immediately feel whether the nanny really loves children, or just wants to earn money. You are insured against dubious applicants if you choose a nanny through a domestic staff agency. Women with proven recommendations, “admitted” to work with children by an experienced psychologist, will come to you for an interview.

If you are still worried about how the nanny behaves in your absence, you can always install video surveillance and watch how the woman hired in the house communicates with the baby for some time. In addition, in the evening you can understand a lot by the reaction of the child to the nanny. If the baby is happy with her, remembers her in her absence, that’s good. So, while the mother is at work, the child is in good hands.

Perhaps the nanny will offer you her pedagogical strategies, but it is worse if she has no opinion at all about how best to care for the child and how to educate him. The main thing in this case is to try to find a reasonable grain in the words of a professional nanny and agree with her so that your and her actions do not run counter to each other. An experienced nanny is also good because she only offers her ideas, but in the end she does as the child’s parents say. Because it’s their child.

Now private kindergartens have become very popular, where groups of 6-8 people are recruited. Of course, these are no longer the old Soviet institutions, where it was necessary to drink milk with foam. However, when a small child is at home with his toys, he is much more comfortable. He lives in accordance with his biorhythms – eats, sleeps and plays when he wants. This is the most important thing for the health and development of your crumbs. In addition, the nanny devotes all her time to only one baby. In the future, this will have a beneficial effect on its development.

And, of course, we should not forget how much the nanny helps her mother, removing many worries from her shoulders. The nanny will wash, iron the linen, feed and put the baby to bed, read a book to him, play games with him, teach him new skills. While mom would run around the house, doing all the other things along the way, the nanny devotes all her time to the baby entirely.

Yes, a nanny is at first an unfamiliar woman in your house, but soon she will become a close person who, respecting you, loves her pupil with all her heart, rejoicing at his every achievement. The main thing is to choose “your” person from all the candidates. Then you will be calm for your baby.

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Where does the nanny usually work: at home or should the child be taken to her?

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In no case should children be taken to someone else’s house

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Yes, I also don’t understand why a nanny can’t take children into her house. And if she has a house with a lawn and a swimming pool, in nature, where will the child be a hundred times better than in a stuffy apartment, especially in summer?

May 24, 2010, 2:02 pm

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Xanele

babysitters for children under one year old don’t necessarily come home either. on the contrary, I was looking for a kindergarten at home (max. 2-3 children with a nanny). We have been sending our daughter there for several hours since her three weeks. everyone is very happy.

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In no case should children be taken to someone else’s house

and why ? you can, pliz, in more detail, just wondering… 9May 24, 2010 why? you can, pliz, in more detail, just wondering … Because the child is oriented in his house, there are neighbors, it’s all on “if anything.” And it is not clear where to take a child to someone else’s house is dangerous.

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Jel

well, lip is not a fool.. first, will a madam with such living conditions work as a nanny..? I strongly doubt that nannies can afford this at all .. and secondly, let’s say this happened – why does she need such a WORK at home if she doesn’t have her own children? it’s one thing to return from work to a clean house .. and the second … to clean up the mess, in connection with … IS IT NECESSARY? A child is such a thing, he can break something … spill … splatter … paint spoil an expensive coating .. -floor-carpet-walls-curtains (it is clear that you need to follow, but it happens for everyone). it’s not a shame if this happens at his house .. IT HAPPENS. but if she had … if there hadn’t been a child, it wouldn’t have happened. 9Yes , there was a case

10, There are many wealthy women who have nothing to do and they go to babysitting for self-realization – nonsense! such women give birth to children for themselves. 3-6 children each and look after them themselves and develop and develop. babysitting is hard work, it’s domestic staff, no social security. you can’t get sick, there is little free time, often you need to be ready to go out to work at any time of the day. 9Material source

My daughter goes to a nanny after school, a woman with her 2 children, a house and a garden, in the summer an inflatable pool, small, really. We don’t have extensions here unfortunately. So there are nannies. Let me just say that, as a rule, these are women of a certain type who have never worked in any other way. If I had a choice, I would choose a better prolongation .. So far we have it. My daughter is not particularly happy, I have been looking for another option since August.

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We applied to the OGO-Doctor clinic (Moscow), they selected a nanny for us, and they tested whether this nanny would suit our family.

How to trim your baby’s nails

By Nancy Montgomery

Photo credit: BabyCenter

Should I trim my baby’s nails?

Yes. Your baby’s nails may be softer and more pliable than yours, but make no mistake – they’re sharp! A newborn has little control over his flailing limbs and can easily end up scratching his own face or yours.

Little fingernails grow so fast you may have to cut them several times a week. Toenails require less frequent trimming.

How do I trim my baby’s nails without cutting his fingertips?

The best time to do this is while she’s sleeping. Another good time is right after a bath, when your baby’s nails are softest.

Make sure you have enough light to see what you’re doing. Use a pair of baby scissors or clippers made especially to use on tiny fingers. Press the finger pad away from the nail to avoid nicking the skin, and keep a firm hold on your baby’s hand as you clip. Another tip is to have a partner use their fingernail to lift the baby’s nail away from the skin to ensure that the clipper doesn’t nick the skin.

Cut fingernails along the curve of the finger. Cut toenails straight across. Then use an emery board to smooth out rough edges.

Doctors recommend using only an emery board in the first few weeks of a new baby’s life because nails are very soft. And new parents are also more likely to accidentally clip their baby’s skin.

If you decide to give your baby a manicure while she’s awake, ask your partner or a friend to hold her and keep her from wiggling too much while you work. Or have someone distract her so she’ll let you hold her hand still for the clipping and filing.

Some parents bite their baby’s nails into shape, but doing it this way could introduce germs from your mouth into any little cut your baby may have on her finger. You also won’t be able to see what you’re doing, and you’ll find that your baby’s finger is tiny compared to your teeth!

If I do cut a fingertip, how do I stop the bleeding?

If you do nick a tiny fingertip, don’t be too hard on yourself – it happens to lots of parents. Simply rinse the cut under cool water, then wrap a tissue around your baby’s finger and hold it with a little pressure. The bleeding usually stops in a couple of minutes.

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Resist the temptation to try to put a bandage on your baby’s finger. It’s likely to come off when he puts his finger in his mouth, and he could end up choking on it.

Also, doctors don’t recommend using a liquid bandage product for babies or toddlers because they’ll probably suck it off. If your child has a wound that doesn’t stop bleeding, it’s a good idea to see your child’s doctor.

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What To Do If You Clipped Baby’s Finger While Cutting Nails?

One of the most anxiety-inducing things a new parent will do with their new little bundle of joy is likely not something they really anticipated while preparing for their baby’s arrival: nail clipping.

While many parents end up trying to put off this first-time event

it is inevitable that they must soon acknowledge that their adorable little baby has a shockingly razor-sharp fingernail attached to each tiny finger.

Now, the day has come when you have to attend to the dreaded nail clipping session.

Mom (or dad) gets out the nail clippers, sits down with the little baby, carefully line up the clippers and… disaster strikes!

You’ve clipped baby’s finger while cutting nails!

What was supposed to be just the fingernail lined up in the clippers for a quick and easy trim turned out to include some of your baby’s finger!

The guilt and fear every parent feels as they frantically try to figure out what happened, but more importantly, what do they do now?

First of all, relax.

Your baby is going to be fine!

If you start to visibly panic, your baby is going to panic as well, then as your baby begins crying harder

you will react accordingly and you will just escalate each other’s fears to frenzy levels.

No good will come of that so, if you are feeling panicky, take a deep breath before doing anything else.

The very first thing you need to actively do to take care of your baby is calmly get up and carry them to the nearest sink to run their finger under some warm water.

Soothe them as much as you can while you gently make sure their cut finger is clean.

Whether you want to sing to them or simply talk to them in a calm manner, your attitude to the situation is the most important.

Once the cut has been cleaned with plain water

pat the area dry with a clean towel and if it is still actively bleeding apply a bit of gentle, but firm, pressure for a couple of minutes to help stop the bleeding.

Once you’re comfortable that the bleeding has stopped, or very nearly stopped, apply some antiseptic ointment and cover the injury with an adhesive bandage to keep the area clean and protected.

The bandage should then be left alone for two to three days unless it is visibly soiled and in need of changing

but the less you do with the finger after it is bandaged, the better and faster your baby’s finger will heal.

You will be amazed by how fast your baby can heal!

Now, on a side note, as long as your baby’s finger was not covered in dirt from playing outside

or any other area that would make a higher than normal risk for infections

then they will very likely be completely fine without any further intervention

but if their finger was covered in dirt or other muck when the cut occurred, play it safe and call your pediatrician or a nurse helpline for instructions and recommendations.

If nothing else, they will also be able to help put your mind at ease.

After everything is tended to and baby is back to business as usual, if you are still feeling like you are just an awful parent because you accidentally clipped baby’s finger while cutting nails, please try to stop.

Take solace in the fact that we’ve all done it.

First-time parents, second-time parents, third, fourth and sometimes even fifth or more time parents, we’ve all accidentally clipped baby’s finger while cutting nails.

Often, from personal experience, every child gets their finger clipped at least once.

You probably got your finger clipped as a baby too, and your parents might even still feel a little bad about it

but you have survived and so will your little one.

If anything, it can feel even worse the second and third time around as you think, “I really should know better by now! How could I have done this to my baby again?” It really is alright.

While there are limited ways to guarantee that it will never happen again, there are a few general methods of reducing the chances of it happening.

First, and seemingly most effective, is to trim their nails while your baby is asleep.

Keep some clippers handy during their feeding or before nap time and, once they drift into a deep slumber, start carefully clipping your baby’s nails.

Take your time.

Rushing will not only risk a repeat clipping accident, but it also risks waking your baby up.

There are many recommendations out there that you purchase special rounded clippers or other specialized tools to trim your baby’s nails

but what really matters is using whatever clipping tool you are most comfortable with.

For some parents, the specially designed baby clippers work best, and they are certainly worth a try if you have never used them before

but for other parents, just standard nail clippers are fine.

Even nail scissors are a good option if you are experienced in using them.

To guarantee a cut finger will never happen, emery boards are a good option given that baby nails

while incredibly sharp at times, are still rather soft and can easily be ground away.

Some parents are most comfortable simply biting their baby’s nails off, and it fairly well guarantees the baby will not get their finger cut

but this is not necessarily the best solution for everyone depending on varying comfort levels.

Whatever tool you prefer, make sure you are careful to hook it under the nail, insuring none of the fingers is getting in the way before you go for the clipping.

Whatever method you are most comfortable with using is going to be the best tool for you.

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The more comfortable you are, regardless of the tools involved, the less likely you will have to face the situation again where you clipped baby’s finger while cutting nails

but there will always come a time when baby decides they suddenly do not want to stay still at just the wrong moment and you will have to deal with the situation of having clipped baby’s finger while cutting nails again

but next time you will be ready and your baby will still be alright.

In the video below you can learn more about how to trim a baby’s nails.

Additional information:

• Is it normal for my baby to scratch himself with his fingernails?
• How to Stop Your Child From Chewing on Their Crib?
• Why Does My Baby Rub Their Face On Me?
• When can I start cutting my baby’s nails?
• Is it OK to file newborn nails?

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Household items that most often cause cuts:

• Knife
• Razor blades
• Glass shards
• Edge of a sheet of paper

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Skin texture

Leather – one of the largest organs in the human body. It is elastic, strong enough, differs in texture and thickness in different parts of the body. Consists of two main layers – epidermis and dermis .

Epidermis

refers to the superficial layer of the skin and consists of several layers of skin cells.

Dermis

is located under the epidermis and consists of elastin fibers that provide mobility to the upper integument and protein fibers (collagen) that give the skin strength. The dermis contains sebaceous glands, hair follicles, nerves and blood vessels.

Injuries to the skin from cutting objects can affect both the epidermis and the dermis.

Cuts by depth

Small cuts

Small cuts go through the upper layers of the skin. With timely treatment of the damaged area of ​​​​the skin, such wounds rarely become infected.

Damage can be caused by fingernails, a piece of metal, a tree branch or a bush.

Usually a minor cut or scrape can be treated at home. The main thing is that there is no contamination in the wound surface.

Deep cuts

Deep cuts go through all layers of the skin.

They occur when the skin is exposed to a sharp object: a knife, a razor, a piece of glass or a sharp edge of a piece of metal. On examination, it is important to make sure that there is no contamination in the wound.

If the size of the damage is significant, then it is necessary to seek medical attention in order to apply stitches.

Cuts require first aid.

A deep cut involving an artery is a medical emergency.

Help for cuts

First aid for cuts required ^2.3 :

• b bleeding by pressure on the wound
• Treat the wound with sterile saline or clean water
• Treat the wound with an antiseptic, such as Betadine solution ^®
• Cover the cleaned wound with a sterile dressing
• Monitor the cleanliness of the wound

How to treat cuts, see a short video with surgeon Fedor Yanovich Kraskovsky

How to determine damage to the vessel

If the cut is deep and the bleeding does not stop, then the vessel is most likely damaged. In this case, you need to seek professional medical help.

Bleeding from an artery:

Blood is bright scarlet and gushing from a wound

Bleeding from a vein:

blood is dark red and flows slowly from the wound

During transport to the hospital, you should: possibly (

• Do not remove the bandage if it is soaked with blood, but instead put a fresh bandage over it

Cut healing phases

There are four phases of cut healing:

Exudation phase

Transfer of the liquid part of the blood through the vessel wall to the wound site

Resorption phase

Reverse absorption of fluid from the site of injury

Proliferation phase

New growth tissues

Regeneration phase

Restorative

During the first two phases inflammation develops.

Inflammation occurs in response to damage to the skin and serves as a protective reaction of the body to a cut: it separates the injured area from intact tissues. After delimitation, the body immediately begins to repair the wound, and this process can continue for several days, weeks, months, or even years, it all depends on the injury.

As the cut heals, the following processes are observed:

• After the cut occurs, the body begins to turn on protective functions. The blood vessels in the wound constrict, thereby reducing blood loss. A clot forms in the damaged area.
• After a clot has formed, the blood vessels dilate, providing maximum blood flow to the damaged area. This leads to symptoms of inflammation (pain, swelling). Further, leukocytes (blood cells) rush to the site of the wound and begin to clean the damaged area from bacteria, microorganisms and other foreign agents.
• At the site of the cut, the process of tissue repair is underway: new collagen fibers are formed and blood vessels are restored. All of this supports the healing process.
• The wound begins to shrink along the edges, its size decreases.
• Superficial skin cells migrate from one side of the wound to the other, a new area of ​​skin is formed.
• Depending on the depth of the cut, it may leave a scar. As a rule, scar tissue is not as durable as intact skin.

Factors affecting wound healing

Injured skin heals at different rates depending on the individual characteristics of the body and environmental factors, which include:

• General state of human health
• Age – in older people, the skin recovers more slowly than in young people
• State of the immune system
• Dietary habits
• Weather conditions
• Degree of infection of the wound

90 005 Bad habits (smoking, alcohol, drugs)

• Concomitant diseases (diabetes, cancer)

Treatment of cuts

There is a great variety of preparations for the treatment of cuts, differing both in the main active substance and dosage form ^4,5,6 .

Solutions

Povidone Iodine

Betadine ^® Solution is manufactured at a concentration of 10%. For the treatment of cuts, the drug can be used without dilution or diluted 1:10 and applied as a 1% solution (2 X 5 ml (2 teaspoons) and 100 ml (½ cup) 10% solution) ^2.3 . It should be diluted with saline, Ringer’s solution, phosphate buffer solution, water for injection, in extreme cases, with clean drinking water.

Povidone-iodine has antiseptic, antiviral, antifungal, antiprotozoal activity.

Active against Gram-positive and Gram-negative bacteria.

Unlike 5% iodine in alcohol, povidone-iodine can be applied directly to a cut. It does not cause burning, does not dry the skin, does not interfere with tissue regeneration.

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Chlorhexidine bigluconate

Chlorhexidine bigluconate is an antiseptic that fights bacteria, fungi and viruses. It exists in the form of an aqueous and alcoholic solution. For the treatment of cuts, a 0.2-0.5% aqueous solution should be used. An alcohol-based drug can cause unpleasant reactions in the form of a burning sensation, as well as slow healing.

Hydrogen peroxide

The solution is produced and used at a concentration of 3%. Hydrogen peroxide has a hemostatic effect, helps to remove dirt from the wound mechanically due to the formation of gas bubbles. The use of hydrogen peroxide can cause allergic reactions.

Ointments

Povidone-iodine

Betadine ^® ointment contains 100 mg of povidone-iodine. The agent acts on gram-positive and gram-negative bacteria, contributes to the destruction of their cell wall. The ointment has a wide spectrum of action, namely: antiseptic, antiviral, antifungal, antiprotozoal ¹¹ . The drug demonstrates anti-inflammatory action, accelerates the healing of wound surfaces, demonstrating a low level of cytotoxicity (damage to tissue cells due to its antimicrobial action) ¹² .

Povidone-iodine in a convenient dosage form in the form of an ointment allows you to carry the drug with you and use it at a convenient time, applying, for example, under occlusive dressings.

Unlike 5% iodine solution, which contains alcohol, ointment based on povidone-iodine does not dry the skin, does not cause discomfort.

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A clinical study has shown that the combination of 1% solution and 10% Betadine ^® ointment has a high clinical effect in the treatment of wounds and cuts ⁵ .

Dexpanthenol

Dexpanthenol is a derivative of pantothenic acid, vitamin B5. The drug is able to moisturize the skin, strengthen its barrier function, prevent skin irritation, promote wound healing, and have an anti-inflammatory effect ⁷ .

Dexpanthenol stimulates skin regeneration, activates the genes responsible for wound healing.

Chloramphenicol and dioxomethyltetrahydropyrimidine

It has a wide spectrum of antimicrobial and anti-inflammatory action, which persists even in the presence of blood, pus. It penetrates into the wound and stimulates its healing, has an anti-inflammatory effect.

However, the ointment may cause allergic contact dermatitis spreading like nodular pruritus, as well as changes in taste, headache ⁸ .

Betadine® Solution and Ointment Cut Algorithm

Prepare everything needed to treat the cut ^{5.6 water)}

Betadine 10% solution ^® or Betadine 1% solution prepared ^®

Betadine ointment ^®

Gauze, cut patch

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Treat the wound as follows:

• Clean the injured area with saline or water.
• Remove loose particles or objects. To do this, twist the gauze to form a “corner” and remove foreign bodies.
• Treat the wound with 10% or pre-prepared 1% solution of Betadine ^® . Dry the wound with gauze or a napkin with blotting movements.
• Apply a thin layer of Betadine ^® Ointment directly to the wound and cover with a sterile gauze dressing, cover with plaster. You can also apply the ointment first to the dressing and then to the wound.
• Repeat the procedure until the wound heals.

Frequently asked questions

What should I do if I cut myself?

The most important thing is not to panic. Wash the wound with water or saline, treat with an antiseptic, for example, solution Betadine ^® . To stimulate healing, you can use ointments. If you can’t stop the bleeding on your own or the wound doesn’t heal for a long time, it suppurates, see a doctor.

How to treat the cut?

Treat the cut with antiseptics. Aqueous solutions of antiseptics, for example, Betadine ^® solution, can treat the entire wound field, alcohol – only the edges of the wound. After treatment, it is desirable to apply ointment Betadine ^® for faster healing.

How to stop bleeding from a cut?

After cleansing the wound, cover the wound with a sterile dressing and apply pressure to the cut, elevating the injury above the level of the heart, if possible (for example, in case of a hand injury). If the blood pulsates, and it is not possible to stop the blood on its own for a long time, then you should seek qualified medical help.

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