What kids do: Things to do with kids: 72 activities to entertain them

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10 Things Today’s Kids Do (That Their Parents Didn’t)

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Some things about growing up will never change. Teething, potty-training, bed-jumping: These have long been rites of passage for any big kid in the making.

Yet there are things that set today’s young’uns apart: From yoga classes to playing with apps, the daily life of young children today reflects the current times.  

Here are 10 things today’s children do that would have baffled their grandparents (and even their moms and dads):

1. Downward-facing dog.

It’s becoming more and more evident that in today’s modern world, kids are stressed out right along with adults—and that’s led to the usage of more and more relaxation practices. In 2012, a study showed that 1.9 million American children are doing mind-body practices like yoga to ease stress—and the numbers are likely growing every day, with the increase of yoga in schools and mama-daughter yoga celebrities on Instagram.

2. Have the answer to anything, instantly.

“Why is the sky blue? Why do dogs pant? Why are sunflowers so tall?” Once upon a time, kids would have to ask a parent, teacher, or librarian to find the answer to a perplexing question. These days, more and more kids know how to Google their questions—or even ask Siri! To aid the search for knowledge, kid-friendly search engines like Kiddle are popping up to make instant information even easier for young minds to access.

3. Watch movies without needing to leave the house. 

Remember renting videos from actual brick-and-mortar stores? Today’s kids certainly don’t. According to Nielsen, 40 percent of American households now subscribe to on-demand streaming services like Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon.

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4. Play games on a personal touch screen.

 

Now, according to a study published in the journal Pediatrics in 2015, nearly 97 percent of children have used mobile devices to keep themselves entertained—and most started using them before their first birthday. Whoa.

5. Spend less time outdoors. 

While, yes, all of the latest technology mentioned previously opens new worlds up to kids, they are now spending less time outside playing. But playing outside has huge benefits for kids: They’re less likely to be overweight, aggressive, or depressed, and are more likely to play creatively and have better concentration and attention.

6. Have access to healthier school lunches. 

It’s true, obesity rates and high sodium intake are still rising—but we are becoming more aware of how problematic this is. As a result, many schools are now changing their menus to keep the next generation as healthy as possible. According to the National Institutes of Health, school lunches are getting healthier and healthier, with more fruits and vegetables.

7. Have Pinterest-worthy birthday parties. 

Once upon a time, Pin the Tail on the Donkey was a major party starter at kid parties. No more. Thanks to Pinterest and its endless repository of ridiculously cute party ideas, parents can throw the coolest DIY birthday parties. Granted, not all of us are motivated to get SO crafty. But that’s what Pump it Up and other tricked-out kid-friendly play spaces are for (which also didn’t exist when today’s parents were kids).

8. See all of their baby and toddler pictures in one place: Facebook. 

Good-bye, baby books. Hello, scrolling. Thanks to social media networks, our children’s lives are documented in perpetuity in the digital realm. According to Nominet, the average parent will post almost 1,000 photos of his or her child online before she turns 5!

9. Learn to ride bikes without training wheels. 

The rise of pedal-less balance bikes has nearly eliminated trikes and training wheels in the early rider set. Invented in Germany in the late 1990s, balance bikes help kids who are toddler age (or younger!) learn important riding skills like weight distribution and overcoming the fear of two wheels.

10. Have super-engaged super-moms.  

According to Scarborough Research, some 14 percent of American moms use Internet blogs to share their experiences, recipes, and playtime ideas. Today’s kids are more likely to have a parent who can whip up a batch of DIY play dough, rattle off six ideas for a healthy mid-week dinner, or have five ideas to stave off kid boredom. (Boredom, we should note, is also a rite of passage.)

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87 fun things to do at home— avoid that coronavirus cabin fever

Being stuck at home isn’t ideal, but here are ways to make dealing with self-isolation from COVID-19 just a little bit more fun for the whole family.

It’s not fun being cooped up because of self-isolation and social distancing, but with a little bit of effort, you can create some fun things to do at home to help the time pass and make some wonderful memories. You’ll probably have to work with what you have one hand, since so many stores are closed. But with a little creativity, we’re sure you can make most of these ideas work. You’ve got this!

1. Zoom around in cardboard race cars

Let your kids zoom through the living room in their very own race car. Get the instructions here.

2. Make a cardboard dollhouse

Create your own dollhouse, as intricate or as simple as you’d like. We’ve got instructions for one that’s a series of “apartments” that can be broken up and played with however you’d like. Find it here.

3. Make your own drive-in movie

Make a box car for an indoor drive-in film. Get the instructions here.

4. Bring Minecraft to life

Got a Minecraft fan at home? They’ll flip for this creeper box craft. Find it and templates for Minecraft pixel pickaxes here.

5. Make your own pinwheel

This simple craft is best enjoyed in a breeze, but standing in front of a fan gets the job done too. Learn to make your own here.

6. Make a portable art easel

Don’t throw away that cardboard box! Make a sturdy and portable art easel for your mini Monet. Get the instructions here.

7. Make a calming jar

Help your kids cool down and relax with these easy-to-make calming jars. All you need is hand soap, water and a handful of shiny glitter and beads to help your kids find their inner peace. Get the instructions here.

8. Blow bubbles

Go buy some bubbles at your favourite dollar store, or make your own at home. Plus, learn how to make your own bubble wands here.

9. Play hide-and-seek

Another classic fun things to do at home. Who can find the best hiding spot in the house?

10. Make a bird feeder

What better spring craft is there than making a DIY bird feeder? Or try painting a birdhouse, which you can purchase at your local craft store.

11. Play a game of hopscotch

You might think this game is too simple, but it’s always a great time-killer and super fun to play at any age.

12. Get gardening

Spend some time outdoors by planting flowers in the yard. Your little ones will love getting messy in the fresh soil and being on garden hose duty.

13. Wash your car

If it’s warm enough outside, get the kids to help you out with cleaning up your family vehicle(s) on the driveway.

14. Collect and paint rocks

Go to a nearby park and collect rocks, then make a craft day out of it. Paint them with whatever paint you have at home and maybe even turn them into rock magnets for the fridge.

15. Take lots of pictures

Make sure that while living in the moment, you don’t forget to snap photos of the silly and fun times, too. Print the photos and have the kids help you finally put together that scrapbook or album you’ve wanted to make.

16. Build a fort

Any time of the year is the perfect time to build a fort. It’s great for some pretend indoor camping!

17.

Draw with sidewalk chalk

Sprawl out on the sidewalk with a big bucket of chalk or spruce up your driveway with your wildest creations.

18. Have a scavenger hunt

Put together a list of household objects and see who can be the first to find everything on the list!

19. Watch the sunset

The best ending to the perfect spring day is watching the sunset with the little ones before calling it a night.

20. Get baking

Ge the most out of baking with your kids. Pretend to be bakers while practicing essential skills like reading with recipes or counting with ingredients.

21. Get silly with your kids

Try these low cost options for just having some good ole silly fun.

22. Make a twig sailboat

Time to set sail in a lake, pail or bathtub! Make these cute little crafts out of simple supplies. Find instructions here.

23. Make a time capsule

A sweet time capsule filled with special trinkets and memories is always a fun indoor activity to do with kids. Have them help decorate the box and curate which items to put in it. Learn how here.

24. Learn a few magic tricks

Who doesn’t love magic? Learn some simple sleight of hand with this easy guide.

25. Play card games

Teach your kid some fun classic card games like Go Fish!, Crazy Eights, Slapjack and more!

26. Play f

reeze dance

Choose some of your kids’ favourite tunes and turn up the volume. Ask them to dance until the music stops. When it does, they have to freeze in whatever position they find themselves in – even if they have one leg up. To make the game more challenging, ask the kids to freeze in specific poses: animals, shapes, letters or even yoga postures. Toddlers in particular love this game.

27. Do a puzzle

Exercise those creative, cognitive and problem-solving muscles with a good puzzle. You can use a store-bought variety or have the kids make their own. Have your children draw a picture on a sturdy piece of cardboard or Bristol board. Then use a pencil to outline puzzle pieces directly on their drawing. Cut out the pieces with a good pair of scissors, mix them up and get solving. Indoor games and craft in one fun activity!

28. Improvise some paper-bag skits

This indoor game is ideal for larger families. Divide the kids (and adults) up into groups. Give each group a bag filled with props, such as a spoon, toy jewelry, a sock, ball or ribbon. Then give them 15 minutes to construct a skit around the props. This game is so much fun that it doesn’t have to be competitive. If the kids want, though, they can vote on a winning skit.

29. Make a DIY balance beam

If you have masking tape on hand, why not make your own balance beam? We all know how much kids love walking in straight lines every chance they get. Put on some music, and one at a time the kids can take their turn walking one-foot-over-the-other across the straight line of tape. Make the game more challenging by having the kids walk backwards or balance with one foot on the line.

30. Do some indoor bowling

A great way to reuse water bottles (or you can purchase an indoor bowling set). Line six-10 water bottles up at the end of your hall or living room. Place a line of duct tape at the starting line. Grab a medium-sized indoor ball and start bowling! If you want, keep score and give out trophies at the end. (Note: if you need to stabilize the water bottles or make the game more difficult, simply fill them up with some water. Don’t forget to screw the tops on tightly!) Learn how to make a classic set of pins here, or find instructions for some cute cactus-themed bowling pins here.

31. Play

Hot Potato

This game will have everyone giggling. Ask the kids to sit on the floor in a circle. Turn on some tunes and have them pass the potato (a bean bag or soft ball) around the circle as fast as they can. When the music stops, the player holding the potato leaves the circle. Keep going until only one player is left and wins the game.

32. Play the listening game

This game is sure to both educate and delight little ones. Take out several miscellaneous items. Have the children look at all the items, and then take them away. Next, ask one child to hide his or her eyes and listen as you pick up an item and make sounds with it. Ask the child to guess which item made the sound. Examples of items might be a comb (run your fingers along it), a glass (gently tap it), cymbals, shakers, sandpaper, blocks rubbed together, a pot and spoon. Be creative and have fun!

33. Play Simon Says

This traditional favourite will never get old. To start, choose one player (probably a parent for the first round) to be Simon. The rest of the players will gather in a circle or line in front of Simon as he calls out actions starting with the phrase “Simon says”: “Simon says…touch your toes. ” The players then have to copy Simon’s action, touching their toes. If Simon calls out an action without uttering the phrase “Simon says,” the kids must not do the action. If a child touches his toes when Simon didn’t say…, he or she is out of the game. There are lots of great ways Simon can trick players into doing actions when Simon didn’t say: Simon can perform an action without uttering a command, for example, or he can perform an action that doesn’t correspond with the command. Fun! The last player left in the game wins and becomes the next Simon.

34. Set up a game of i

ndoor basketball

You can’t be too little for this version of basketball. All you need is a bucket and a rolled up sock (or a small, light ball). Each player takes a turn at throwing the sock-ball into the bucket. When a player scores a bucket, he or she takes a step back and throws again until missing. The player who shoots the ball in the bucket from the farthest distance wins.

35.

Learn some classic hand-clapping games

These classic hand-clapping games are sure to pass the time with your little ones. Just make sure everyone washes their hands before and after!

36. Make an emoji magic 8-ball

Who knows what the future holds during this uncertain time? Your little ones will after the make this adorable craft. Get instructions here.

37.Take to the skies in cardboard planes

Fly in style with this colourful plane. Find it here.

38. Make a mini city out of toilet paper rolls

Save up your empty toilet paper rolls and once there’s enough, have your kiddies make a city out of them! Get the instructions here.

39. Make rainbow crayons

Collect all those broken crayons and melt them down into moulds to turn them into exciting multicoloured crayons in fun shapes! Get the instructions here

40. Make a pair of paper roll binoculars

These binoculars are powered solely by your kids’ imaginations. Have your kids go on an epic safari right there in your living room. No need to worry if they ever rip or get sat on, it’s super easy to whip up a new pair. Get the instructions here.

50. Make a foosball table

See that empty shoe box? With some wooden dowels, paint, and a handful of clothespins, it is now the home of your awesome DIY foosball table. Game on! Get the instructions here.

 51. Make a desk caddy

Help your kids get their desks organized with these cute desk caddies! Made from a shoebox, toilet paper rolls and newspaper, your kid can design it however they want. Get the instructions here.

52. Make a jetpack

Want to send your kids on an imaginary adventure in outer space? Have them make a jetpack out of empty pop bottles and watch them travel the galaxy. Get the instructions here.

53. Have sensory fun with this lady bug sensory box

A few basic supplies are all you need to make a cute and educational sensory box. Get the instructions here.

54. Make a holiday tree

Got some old cupcake liners lying around? Depending on their colours, this paper tree craft can be used to make decorations for different holidays throughout the year. Red and green liners? Christmas! Orange and black? Halloween! Pink and white? Valentine’s Day! What holiday will your family be celebrating next? Get the instructions here.

55. Make a basketball pennant flag

The NBA season may have been suspended but you can still celebrate your kid’s favourite sport. Get the instructions here.

56. Craft some cozy critters

Make these cozy little critters to keep your kids’ hard-boiled eggs nice and warm. When eggs aren’t on the menu, they do double as tiny puppets! Get the instructions here.

57. Make some fancy felt hairpins

Turn plain bobby pins into your child’s new favourite accessory with some felt shapes, glue and glitter. Try different shapes to match the season: snowflakes for winter, flowers for spring, a beachball for summer and leaves for fall. And stars work for every season. Get the instructions here.

58. Make some owl eye pillow masks

Get your little night owl excited to sleep with this charming eye mask. Do this craft with your kids in the morning before lunch so it’ll be ready for naptime! Get the instructions here.

59. Play pretend with these Yoda ears

These ears will instantly turn your kiddo into a wise, old jedi master. Round out the ends and use black and pink felt to make easy cow ears. White and pink felt will give you the cutest lamb ears. Now who wants to play pretend?  Get the instructions here.

60. Make pipe cleaner crowns

Speaking of dress up, what princess (or prince) would be caught without their crown? We have three adorable (and bejewelled) crowns you can make with just a few supplies. Find the instructions here.

61. Make mini hockey sticks

Who’s up for a game of mini hockey? These mini hockey sticks are quick and easy to make, just use a plastic bottle cap or small circular piece of cardboard as a puck! More instructions here.

62. Print out some fun pencil and paper games

These fun, simple pencil and paper games will keep kids occupied while parents try to get some work done. Get the printables here.

63. Whip up some edible playdough

This craft is perfect for little ones who love sticking everything in their mouths. (I’m looking at you, glue-eating Tommy.) This edible, dye-free playdough can be made with ingredients you likely have on hand. Make it before the party and then set out cookie cutters and rolling pins on a craft table. Then the kids can get their dough on! Learn how to make it here.

64. Make matching heart headbands

Some people like to wear their heart on their sleeve. But we prefer to wear our heart on our head! Make matching ones for everyone in the family and share what you love most about each other. Find out how here.

65. Create some braided accessories

These colourful braided accessories are fun to make and great for playing dress up. Kids can experiment with new patterns and colour combinations. Let the creative juices start flowing! Learn how to make them here.

66. Rock out with some disco microphones

Your little disco stars can sing their hearts out with these easy DIY microphones. Let them can choose a disco ball, glitter or sequins to decorate their very own mic for a karaoke showdown! Learn how here.

67. Marble-dye some eggs

These pretty marbled eggs don’t have to be just for Easter (although it’s coming up!). The kids can paint them to match a birthday theme, or turn them into their favourite characters (like red-and-blue for Spider Man). All you need are some eggs, food colouring and shaving cream. You might want to lay out a lot of newspaper—things might get messy! Get the instructions here.

68. Make sweet flower crown

Have a little flower-lover? Then this is the craft for your little one! She’ll be a true fairy princess this sweet flower crown. Learn how here.

69. Shake it out with these water bottle maracas

Feeling pent up? Let off some of that bottle up energy with these fun maracas. Learn how to make them here.

70. Make a kid-friendly terrarium

This easy DIY terrarium is the perfect activity for kids. We’ve got the how-to here. Got a mason jar? Make these terrariums instead!

71. Make some bath fizzies

These instructions may be for Halloween-themed bath bombs, but you can make them into any shape you’d like to add more fun to bath time.

72. Make cute plastic lapel pins

Yes, you can make trendy pins with your flair-obsessed kids at home. They look super cute on a denim jacket or backpack (for when school finally reopens) Learn how here.

73. Refresh some old sneakers with splatter paint

Create your own designer sneakers at home with this simple splatter paint craft. Get the instructions here.

74. Make an old-school whirligig fidget toy

Fidget toys are perfect for when the family is stuck inside. Try making your own version of the old-timey classic with this easy DIY whirligig. Find out how here.

75. Make an easy reversible felt playmat

This reversible playmat is such a cinch to make and will provide your little one with hours of fun. Get the how-to here.

76. Create some easy felt embroidered patches

What kid (or adult) doesn’t love a cute embroidered patch? Watch this tutorial and learn how to make one yourself with our easy-to-follow steps. See, you are crafty!

77. Dip-dye a watermelon T-shirt

This sweet t-shirt is a fun and easy project to take to the yard. If you know how to dunk, you already know how to dip dye. Find out how here.

78. Play a board game

Boards games are great for bonding time as a family (even when it gets competitive). Check out which boards games are perfect for what age group here.

79. 

Sound safari

Show your school-age kid how to use the digital recorder on your phone, then ask them to go around the house or yard recording 10 different sounds. Emphasize that they should take their time and try to stump you. (Variation: very close-up shots with the camera.) Then get them to return to the sound booth, aka the couch, and you try to figure out what the sounds are. Pro tip: To keep your phone out of the toilet, ban “flushing” sounds.

80. Play a game of

What’s on my butt?

Get comfy on the couch, belly down. Your kids take turns finding things around the house and putting them on your behind. You ask, “What’s on my butt?” (feel free to add funny voices here) and then try to guess. Hil-ar-i-ous.

81. 

Watch clouds

No, there are no clouds on the living room ceiling, but this is an imagination game. Lie down with your kiddo and whisper, “Wow, look at the beautiful clouds.”  You can take turns pointing out what you “see” and pretty soon, creative kids will be spotting elephants and waterslides.

82. 

Stargaze indoors

Get a kitchen colander or two, a decent flashlight and some of your household’s thousands of little toys. Dinosaurs and horses are good. Lie down in a dark room and shine the flashlight through the colander onto the ceiling. Instant starry night! You can also shine the flashlight behind the toys to project shadows onto the ceiling and walls.

83. Play

Don’t wake the giant

Since you’ve got those little plastic toys out…lie down and ask your kids to arrange the toys on your back or belly. Urge them to use their imaginations to set up scenes like a village, the African savannah or a parking lot. But wait—they’ve actually set up everything on a sleeping giant! Stretch, scratch, shake, or maybe even stand up.

84. Just r

oll around on the floor

Little-known fact: rolling around on the floor is a great way for your preschooler or kindergartener to fine-tune all kinds of developmental skills related to balance, coordination and strength. How awesome that you get to lie on the couch to get the best view of their game. Ask if they can roll straight like a pencil (little kids tend to move their top half first then their legs) or roll in both directions. Ask them to put their arms above their heads and hold on to a stuffed toy while they roll (this requires more strength and coordination). More than one kid? Get them to form a “conveyor belt” with coordinated rolling to move a toy along from one kid to another.

85. Make a r

ace track

Lie on the floor with one knee up and maybe an arm outstretched. Get your kid to set up their train track or car track all around you. You’re the landscape!

86.

Operation time

Introduce the kids to the retro game, with you as the patient. Get the kitchen tongs and some small objects, which you arrange on your belly or legs. Hand your toddler or preschooler the tongs and ask them to carefully pick up each item. Older kids can use tweezers. Add sound effects, of course. (Bonus: using tongs and tweezers is a good way to develop small muscles in their hands. It’s educational!)

87. 

Tattoo artist

Explain that tattoo artists work very slowly and carefully. Then break out the washable, non-toxic markers (some pencil crayons work when dipped in water too) and get yourself a temporary tat.

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10 things that make children happy

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“Perhaps the best thing that can happen to us is a happy childhood.” Agatha Christie.

Childhood is the most unusual, amazing and incredible time in our lives. Time of discoveries, games, miracles and constant admiration for the world that the child learns every day and every hour. But for parents, this period can be a time of anxiety in an effort to ensure the health and happiness of the child.

Of course, there are circumstances in our lives that can overshadow our childhood years, but for those who truly love children, the happiness and well-being of their own children always comes first. In this article, we will describe a scientific approach to the happiness of children. Here are 10 scientifically proven tips to help make your child’s childhood even healthier and happier. So…

1. Give them more time to play.

A child’s main concern, or at least it should be, is to play. Yes, sooner or later in the life of any kid there will be studies, homework and some additional classes, but until this happens, while they are still very young – let them play plenty, you should not specifically limit them.

“Children learn the most important life lessons from other children, not from adults … They either cannot learn a lot from adults, or are much less likely to do so,” says Peter Gray, professor of child psychology at Boston College. So more often let the kids go outside and play with other children.

2. Do not fight or make a scene in front of children.

In early childhood, the brain of children develops incredibly quickly and accumulates information. And when they see “adult” issues and hear them discussed in a raised voice, it can negatively affect their fragile psychological state, making them feel anxious and insecure.

Children should not hear adults quarrel and swear, so try not to do this in their presence.

3. Do not compare them with others.

One of the main aspirations of modern society is to be successful, and the pressure of this very society often pushes us to try to awaken this desire in our children. And as soon as possible. Whether these attempts are justified or not is debatable, but we can say one thing – you should not do this by comparing them with other children who are supposedly “better” than them. If parents begin to show “positive” traits in other children, hoping that their baby will seek to adopt them, the result may not be as successful as they hope, and even the opposite. Researchers believe that when a child is constantly compared to someone, this negatively affects self-esteem and self-confidence.

4. Tell them about the benefits of negative emotions.

Let’s start with the obvious – children behave like children, and adult restraint should not be expected from them. Almost every child has spontaneous outbursts of anger, envy, sadness, and so on. It’s not all bad, though – this behavior often provides adults with great opportunities.

Dr. John Gottman of the University of Washington says that the usual adult response to a child’s “bad behavior” is negative – some form of punishment. As he writes in his articles, it is much better to make it clear to the child that everyone experiences negative emotions, and that there is nothing strange in them. At the same time, it is worth teaching the baby how to constructively deal with such emotions and their consequences.

5. Notice their efforts and accomplishments.

Sooner or later, the child will reach the age at which we all understand that in order to achieve something, you need to work hard. That is why it is so important to be able to notice when a child is trying very hard to achieve this “something”.

“We advise parents to closely monitor the processes in which your child is involved and notice what exactly he is doing. This will help you praise him for specific efforts and achievements, without getting off with general phrases:” you are so smart and you are doing everything so well “Believe me, this will have a much more beneficial effect on his development,” writes Dr. Carol Dweck of Stanford University in her articles on cognitive tasks during growing up.

6. Appreciate family traditions.

When there are common hobbies, activities, or rituals, this is usually a good sign of a stable and healthy family. And stability has always been an important aspect of the process of growing up. According to specialists working at the Institute for Child Development, the total time spent by family members gives children the main advantages:

  • the child feels important and loved;
  • he observes positive examples of adult behavior;
  • adults have time to observe children’s behavior and learn more about their strengths and weaknesses;
  • the child can express his thoughts and feelings, which helps to strengthen the bond between parents and children.


7. Let them take risks.

Nobody argues that children need some supervision, but this does not mean that adults should monitor every breath and sneeze of a child. Overprotection will not make a child’s life better, but it can also have a negative impact on his development.

In an article published in the Journal of School Psychologists and Counselors, the researchers write: “Does overprotection of their own children and excessive attention to their needs and problems cause parents to underestimate their requirements for them? As a result, children rarely face difficult situations, do they learn little to deal with them, learn to overcome difficulties, learn from mistakes, and other skills that may come in handy in adulthood?The results of our latest research lead us to assume that the answer to this question is most likely “yes” .

8. Encourage them to develop a sense of personal responsibility.

And, since we talked about overprotection in the previous paragraph, it is very important to allow children to do what is in their area of ​​​​responsibility – whether it is cleaning or housework. You should not control their every step, but only check the result. Why?

Child psychologists believe that excessive supervision of every action of the baby can develop in him the confidence that he cannot do anything himself. Yes, in order to develop in children a sense of responsibility and the ability to be responsible for their actions, they need to be paid attention, encouraged, and even punished from time to time, however, this is best done as a reaction to the result of their actions. Believe me, constant supervision does not lead to anything good.

9. Create happy memories.

In a pilot study by two Harvard professors, the theory emerged that adults who had many good childhood memories looked and felt much happier and more fulfilling than those who did not. The researchers also noted that participants in the experiment with happy memories of childhood were much more willing to help with additional questions and tasks, condemned unethical behavior more strictly, and donated more to charity. So by creating happy memories for our children, we may very well be teaching them to be happy and supportive adults.

10. Be happy yourself!

Children, like a sponge, absorb everything they see and hear, both good and bad. And if the adults around the child smile more often, then, most likely, he will try to imitate them in this. “Children can’t be happy if the adults around them don’t take care of themselves and their relationships,” says Carolyn Cowen, a psychologist at the University of California.

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I just got sick a lot. In fact, constantly. One day, my mother went to the store: the refrigerator was empty, I was sick, incessantly. I was not afraid to be alone, I was a very sensible and sane girl.

When leaving, my mother complained that it was time to wash the windows, but there was no time yet. Since I already felt good, I decided to surprise my mother by washing the windows. But only managed one thing.

I was eight years old, we lived on the ninth floor. Mom did not appreciate the surprise. And they didn’t leave me alone anymore. And I, remembering my sanity and this case, now do not leave mine either.


I was left alone at home at the age of seven. I decided to cook condensed milk, and the jar exploded. At that time, the laundry was hung out to dry in the kitchen. Grandmother was very happy with the consequences of my independence.


I am eight years old, I am alone at home. They call me from the street to go for a walk, but I don’t have keys, so I can’t go out. I stand in anguish on the balcony, looking at my girlfriends below. And then I see a candy on a string in front of me. Our upstairs neighbor noticed my sadness. And supported.


At the age of five I managed to catch rubella. Of course, I was sent home on sick leave. Those who have been ill with it know that in childhood it is most often tolerated relatively easily. However, the whole point is that even after a visible recovery, the child remains a virus carrier for some time and can infect others, including adults who have not had it before, for whom the relationship with rubella is by no means so cloudless.

In general, my mother and I were at home. Of course, I considered myself perfectly healthy and honestly did not understand why I could not go into the yard for a walk. Somehow, my mother went away for a while, either to the store, or somewhere else, and I was left at home alone. Summer. It’s warm outside. And here I must also say that my kindergarten was located right in the courtyard of the house where we lived then. And so I sit by the window and see how all my kindergarten friends are walking with might and main on the site, playing – in general, they get all the joys of life possible at that moment. Unlike me, of course.

And I felt so offended that, without thinking twice, I got dressed, went outside and went straight there. At the same time, I realized that entering the kindergarten through the central gate would be somewhat naive on my part, to put it mildly, and could be fraught with trouble.

Therefore, I just calmly climbed over the fence and joined my peers

Another oddity: at that moment, for some reason, there was not a single educator on the site who could stop my criminal carelessness. Therefore, I walked around the site (at least, according to my feelings at the time) for a relatively long time. And only at a certain moment, out of the corner of my eye, I noticed a large figure of our kindergarten doctor Zoya Ivanovna in a white coat and cap. She hurriedly walked in the direction of our site and uneasily gleamed her golden rimmed glasses. I realized that I should retreat, and the sooner I do this, the better for me.

In a word, I got out the same way, through the fence, and literally five minutes later I was again sitting by the window and watching the commotion that I managed to unwittingly create. The most amazing thing is that it did not have any serious consequences either for me or for the others. At least, I don’t remember that after my escape from quarantine in the kindergarten there were general cases of rubella. A few days later, I myself was released from this quarantine, and in the garden itself, I remember, no one said anything about this either. Although now, of course, I understand that there is, frankly, no more fun in this story than sad.


When I was about nine years old, my parents and their friends went out for the evening, leaving me with my three-year-old brother and four-year-old boy, the son of these same friends. I was distracted by the TV in the hall. When I ran into the kitchen to check on the boys, I saw that they had gutted a bag with 10 kilograms of flour. The elder, apparently, rubbed his eyes hard with his hands, because they simply stuck together and did not open. The upper and lower eyelashes stuck together like a dough! I thought that the stroke would be enough for me. I decided that the child would remain blind, that he could no longer be unglued and saved. Turning on composure, I solved the problem on my own, and also removed the flour from the kitchen. But the psychological trauma remained for life!


My brother and I were six and five years old. We decided, while my mother ran to the store, to make cakes: the records were sprinkled with Indian tea and expensive cologne on top. In general, 20 cakes were decorated this way. Given the shortage in Soviet times, my mother was simply shocked.


My mother often left me alone at home, because she considered me independent. And I was afraid of losing her trust, so I didn’t naughty. But once she could not resist and lit the candles. One fell and set fire to the carpet. I quickly put out the fire with water, but there was no way to hide the monstrous black spot. Mom was very angry. And to soften her, I said that I had prayed. She was taken aback and didn’t know how to react. I just asked you not to do it again. And I didn’t.


She stayed at home alone from the age of four, when she was sick. Mom called me several times on the phone from work, explaining a hundred times how to turn on video cassettes with cartoons.

Summer, I’m already 6 years old, I played the criminal at home alone. It was my favorite game: as if I had stolen diamond beads (glass from a chandelier). And in order not to be caught, I had to disguise myself. I put on my mother’s make-up and put on the white tights bought for school, a skirt, a blouse, a hairpin with a bow. In general, everything that my mother strictly forbade touching until September 1.