After school child care near me: Top 10 After School Child Care Providers Near Me w/Reviews

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Top 10 After School Child Care Providers Near Me w/Reviews

Recent after school child care reviews

Jessica D.

Jessi has been nanny and family assistant for our family for nearly 2 yrs. She cared for our 3yr old from 1.5yrs old and our 10mth old since birth. She is conscientious and dependable and creates structured, fun and engaging activities for the children and is a much loved part of the family. I woulddefinitely recommend her!…

– Lee H.

Donna W.

Donna was great for our family. She exceeds expectations for all the skills you look for when it comes to childcare and We would hire her again! She is excellent, reliable and very patient with kids.

– Ana M.

Heather B.

The sweetest caring and loving women my daughter loved her!

– Kyra M.

Nancy L.

Nancy helped take care of our toddler during the weekends, keeping him engaged and safe. Apart from creating activities, Nancy was a welcome set of extra hands in changing diapers, feeding and readying our son for nap time, which allowed us to make progress on our never-ending to-do list.

– Alex C.

Rachellie W.

Rachelli was a nanny for us.
She really strives to be a part of the family, she cared for my daughter like she was her own.
She was willing to help in other areas and other kids as we needed.
She handled our young dog very well.
She can handle chaos!! We will miss her.

– Cara C.

After school child care near me

Emmalouise S. | Lexington, NC

$10-20/hr • 7 yrs exp • 27 yrs old

Experienced Babysitting Who Loves Kids Available Everyday After School, 12:30

Description:

Hey it’s Emma! Children and animals have always been my passion. I am currently working my way to earn my Associates Degree for Early Childhood Education. I have experience with children aged 3 months to theage of 19. I currently volunteer at the Riverwood Therapeutic Riding Facility and I use to volunteer at the ABC of NC Child Development with the high school group. I currently babysit for multiple families for date nights as well. Animals are no problem for me because I have 5 dogs, 2 horses, 2 cats, and a donkey! Please feel free to reach out and ask me any and everything you’d like!…

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Jessica D. | Oak Harbor, WA

$16-20/hr • 5 yrs exp • 22 yrs old

Two Years Of Experience Available After School & Weekends

Description:

Hi there! My name is Jessi, and I’m a 21-year-old mil-spouse new(ish) to Washington state. I have been working with children as a nanny or under a preschool setting since the age of 16, and I absolutely loveit. Working with children has been so rewarding. Some of my favorite activities include baking, homemade playdough, coloring, and reading!
I am CPR & First Aid Certified, and come from a smoke free home. (We are cat friendly in case of any major allergies.) I also have a clean driving record and background check.
Please feel free to message me with any questions, I’d be more than happy to help out!…

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Recent Review:

Jessi has been nanny and family assistant for our family for nearly 2 yrs. She cared for our 3yr old from 1.5yrs old and our 10mth old since birth. She is conscientious and dependable and creates structured,fun and engaging activities for the children and is a much loved part of the family. I would definitely recommend her!…

Reviewed by Lee H.

Donna W. | Augusta, GA

$16-25/hr • 10 yrs exp • 55 yrs old

Available For After School, Weekends & Date Nights!

Description:

I LOVE children & began babysitting when I was 10 years old. My first job was in a daycare where I convinced them to hire me at 15 years old to work everyday after school. I stayed there for 6 years. At church,I worked in weekday preschool, infant/toddler nursery, leading young people on Wednesday evenings, teaching VBS & being a special needs shadow. I taught at The Child Development Center at USC for 6 years before moving to Ga & becoming a nanny again. I enjoy gardening, art, crafts & developing a love of reading in children. I have a passion for nurturing children and helping them grow up healthy, secure & loved. I am reliable, honest, fun, active, trustworthy & consistently dependable. I run, climb, swing & slide along with the children I keep! I enjoy helping with homework. I am seeking babysitting jobs & another family to love on as a part time nanny. I can’t do pets, sadly. (I’m allergic to pet dander, perfume, aerosol sprays & cigarettes)…

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Recent Review:

Donna was great for our family. She exceeds expectations for all the skills you look for when it comes to childcare and We would hire her again! She is excellent, reliable and very patient with kids.

Reviewed by Ana M.

Cindy K. | Oakland Gardens, NY

$15-20/hr • 10 yrs exp • 65 yrs old

Experienced For After School And Date Nights For Grownups

Description:

Upbeat, Fun loving, but most of all very responsible. I love kids of all ages. I am an empty Nester woman who resides in Bayside, NY. The most rewarding moments of my life have involved raising my beautifulson. .. and hopefully assisted you with your beautiful children. . Looking forward to hearing from you…… Cindy….

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After retiring from teaching, I worked for a family for 4 years, watching the children after school. I helped with homework and drove them to their activities. I loved the kids and they adored me!

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Recent Review:

The sweetest caring and loving women my daughter loved her!

Reviewed by Kyra M.

Description:

I have 7 grandchildren so I am able to multitask while keeping everybody happy. I currently make sure my neighbor’s daughter is up, dressed and ready for the bus during the school year. I am able to help withhomework, cook and clean if necessary….

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I enjoy meeting new people, and through that process I have been providing childcare over the past 15 years on a regular basis. I have worked with children from newborn to teenagers, and I enjoy every aspect ofit. I also have two amazing stepdaughters of my own who I adore more than words can say!!…

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Sabrina R. | Camden, AR

$10-15/hr • 2 yrs exp • 23 yrs old

Part-time/after School Babysitter

Description:

I have babysat for a few families at my church. I love children and I would also be able to help younger kids with their homework after school.

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Amber S. | Lynnwood, WA

$24-25/hr • 10 yrs exp • 47 yrs old

Babysitter/ After School Care/some Before School

Description:

I am a 42-year-old nursing assistant. I come from a huge family with several children from birth on up. I am no stranger to taking care of children. I also have 3 of my own ages 26, 23 and 15 along with a15-year-old step daughter. I babysit my nieces and nephews regularly various ages….

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Hello parents! I am a teacher who is looking to work as a tutor after school hours. I am also interested in nannying this summer. My certification area is for grades K – 6. I’d also love to provide date nightbabysitting if you and your partner need a night out! I grew up in a large family and have been caring for children for 20 years!!!…

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Recent Review:

Nancy helped take care of our toddler during the weekends, keeping him engaged and safe. Apart from creating activities, Nancy was a welcome set of extra hands in changing diapers, feeding and readying our sonfor nap time, which allowed us to make progress on our never-ending to-do list….

Reviewed by Alex C.

Rachellie W. | Mesa, AZ

$18-39/hr • 10 yrs exp • 55 yrs old

Before School And After School Care And Transportation

Description:

I am available to be your “DATE NIGHT BABYSITTER”!
I’ve been hired by more than 5 families on care. com.
I cared for children from 6 months to 12 years old. I loved the children and enjoyed all the time Ispent with them.
* I have never smoked.
* I have my own transportation.
* I am certified Adult & Pediatric First Aid/CPR/AED.
Please contact me so we can further discuss my qualification s and the specifics of your childcare needs.
Thank you….

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Recent Review:

Rachelli was a nanny for us.
She really strives to be a part of the family, she cared for my daughter like she was her own.
She was willing to help in other areas and other kids as we needed.
Shehandled our young dog very well.
She can handle chaos!! We will miss her….

Reviewed by Cara C.

Description:

Hello, I’m Tiffany! I’ve been working with children my entire life and dedicated my life to making a positive difference within my community. I know my video shows off my playful side, but I’m serious when itcomes to children. I’ve been rated 5 stars and currently have over 70 5 star reviews and references, I can show you at anytime. I include transportation, tutoring, homework help, daily martial arts lessons, games, activities and fun! To stand out, another benefit I offer is free all-day care (with a field trip) on school closings, holidays, snow days, emergency closings and transportation on early dismissals and delays. Right now I’m looking to help parents with before and after school care, please feel free to message me for more details. I also host a parent’s night out “Party Night” every Friday, sleepovers & fun Saturday activities. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile! I hope to meet your family soon….

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Hi! I’m CPR certified and first aid certified. Plus have 40 hours of online training ( took through my last job). I have a a 2-month-old and 3-year-old myself and have worked for a few daycare’s / familiesthrough care. com but am looking for part time – full time employment. I love kids and I’m here to make your life easier!…

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I am a Missouri State Certified Teacher and received a Bachelor of Science in Elementary Education from Southeast Missouri State University in December of 2017. I worked as a teacher from 2017 until 2019 duringthe traditional school year ranging in all grades. I have seven years of experience working in a Montessori setting, privately nannying, or tutoring elementary school aged children. I decided to leave the classroom in 2020
After leaving the classroom, I realized how much I enjoyed working with children. I decided to return to nannying while starting my small stationery business. The child I currently nanny is starting preschool in August. We are both so sad but we knew school would be on the horizon eventually!
I am looking for a position around 30 hours a week so I can continue with my small business on the side. I currently operate as a W4 employee and would like to continue that if possible! I would love to talk more to see if we could be a good fit for one another. :)…

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Recent Review:

Addie was a wonderful caregiver for our 6mo and 2yo girls. She’s punctual, a self starter and such a great help to our family. Would absolutely hire again.

Reviewed by Kristy G.

Enid S. | Getzville, NY

$15-25/hr • 10 yrs exp • 57 yrs old

Experience Babysitter Available On Weekdays During School. After School/take To Activities.

Description:

Worked with children of all ages. Volunteer at non for profit working with children of all ages for 27 years. I am outgoing and easy to get along with. I take personal pride in caring for others and have twoadult children of my own. Enjoy reading, biking, soccer, skiing, and having a nice time with family and friends. Like the arts and enjoy plays and musicals….

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Kim L. | Somers, NY

$25-35/hr • 3 yrs exp • 54 yrs old

Working Mom Of A 12 Year Old Available For Part Time After School Care

Description:

I am a single mom of a 15-year-old girl and work full time, from home, during the day. I am available after 2:30 p.m. to about 7 p.m. M-F to help care for your child after school. Being a working mom Iunderstand the stress of making sure my child is always cared for. I am always on the go and always transporting my daughter to and from her activities. Once my daughter is at her after school destination, then I am free to help out others. I’m responsible, dependable and would love to be able to help out!…

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Recent Review:

Kim was wonderful with my two children, primarily driving to and from their activities.

Reviewed by Jaclyn L.

Description:

Hey there! My name is Makayla. I am going into my sophomore year of college at USF. I am studying e education and am looking for an angel(s) to care for over the summer and hopefully long-term! I have threeyounger siblings; 5, 10, and 15 so I have experience with all ages. I love to cook and clean and am more than comfortable with pets as I worked at an animal hospital as a veterinary technician for over a year.
I am looking for something more part-time. Specifically, BEFORE SCHOOL: 5-8 a.m. or AFTER SCHOOL: 2-7 p.m. I can start as soon as school is back in session. Can’t wait to meet y’all!!…

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Recent Review:

Makayla is the oldest of 4 siblings so she has lots of experience in caring for younger children. She is punctual and also very organized.

Reviewed by Bianca T.

Description:

Hi! My name is Bri and I am a graduate of UCSB pursuing a career in education. I have 10 years of childcare experience in classroom, home, and outdoor settings. I also minored in education at UCSB and have acedall of my Early Childhood Development courses at the community college level. I would love to get connected with a family near Merced or Atwater that needs afternoon/afterschool care. I have experience with children of all ages and love to help with homework or spend time outdoors. I can also help with Light Housekeeping and Laundry. Send me a message if you’re interested!…

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Recent Review:

Brianna is very kind and was really great about playing with C.

Reviewed by Cheryl C.

Description:

Hi, I’m Hannah! I am a very reliable, energetic, and creative person with nearly 10 years of experience. I am the oldest of six so caring for kids is pretty much in my DNA. I also nannied all throughout highschool and college from infants to middle school. Due to this experience, I believe I can foster a safe, fun, and enriching environment for kids of all ages.
I am very punctual and organized, yet love to plan fun activities and am willing to do additional tasks if requested such as light housekeeping or errands.
I’m a recent college graduate (2020) and have a job that I love! So, I am just looking for something in the afternoons that will help get my student loans paid off sooner!…

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Recent Review:

I could go on and on about how amazing Hannah is! She is fun, loving, organized, dependable, and very creative. The kids LOVE her energetic personality. She truly pours her heart out into everything She does!

Reviewed by Addison W.

Maryellen S. | North Wales, PA

$16-20/hr • 10 yrs exp • 69 yrs old

Babysitter/Caregiver Looking For After School and Summer Babysitting In Your Home

Description:

In 2012 I have been watching a 5 yr old girl for 2 years after school a few days a week. We play games, do homework and just have fun. I also prepare dinner and do light housekeeping . I also have been workingwith the elderly for the past 9 years preparing meals personal care medication management doing light housekeeping and whatever needs to be done to make their life comfortable. Since Jan 2015 I have been working with a family Mon. Tue & Wed. children were 9 & 11 hrs old. I also do all the family laundry at an extra expense. The children are older so Jan 2019 I started watching a 7yr old, also doing kids laundry & straighten up kitchen. I stopped when covid hit so I am looking for a new family for the upcoming school year, very flexible, love animals. Thank you…

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San Antonio: Before and After School Programs

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LEARNING CODE IS FUN AND EASY
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The children of Crown of Life Lutheran School are a daily blessing to our church. For over 25 years

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Ct Day school began in September of 2015 and is a TDFPS licensed facility. Our primary focus is to

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At Discovery World Learning Center, we are committed to providing quality child care for every child

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Elite Edge Training is great for adults, teens, kids, and small children. Men and women, boys and g

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In our After School Taekwondo program, kids spend their afternoons learning self-confidence, masteri

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The After School Program offers homework assistance to students, aged 6 – 14 years of age (Elementar

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Golden Eagle Martial Arts teaches the Chun Do Kwan martial art. We also teach sparring, self defense

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Give your child a chance to grow and thrive in a loving environment. Grace Point Church offers dayca

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Parent’s Night Out:
Parent’s Night Out is held the 2nd Saturday of every month from 5 p.m to 9 p.m.

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JOVEN’s mission is to develop character and resiliency in children by providing them with innovative

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Kiddie Academy® will give your elementary school–age child a community in which to learn and thrive

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School Year Programs :: VBgov.com

School Year Childcare Programs Registration

2022/23 Standard Registration: June 4 – July 31

Once Standard Registration ends, please complete the interest form link located to the right of this page and a Registration Management Team member will follow up with you in 24-48 hours.

All participants of our School Year Childcare Programs receive a Virginia Beach Recreation Center membership that is valid from September 1 – August 31 of that school year.

Early Childhood

‭(Hidden)‬ Safe Learning Centers

Before School

After School

After School

Our After School programs aim to provide children with the skills that allow them to better manage stress and maintain resiliency. These programs are exempt from licensure under state code §22.1-289.030, run concurrently with the
school operating calendar , are located in every Virginia Beach City Public Elementary School and VBCPS Transportation will transport students from select Elementary Schools to Select Recreation Centers.  A
Parks & Recreation Fee Waiver is applicable to our KidzQuest and RISE programs. Recreation Center programs are not eligible.


Note: if your child attends ODS during the school day, you may register for our after-school program at ODS, on a first-come, first-served basis. Due to the staffing requirements to facilitate transfers, we are no longer able to accommodate students being dropped off at their home school sites. 


KidzQuest  | Kindergarten – 5th Graders

Locations: Alanton, Arrowhead, Centerville, Christopher Farms, Cooke, Corporate Landing, Creeds, Fairfield, Glenwood, Hermitage, Indian Lakes, John B. Dey, Kempsville, Kempsville Meadows, Kings Grant, Kingston, Landstown, Linkhorn Park, Malibu, New Castle, North Landing, Ocean Lakes, ODS, Pembroke, Pembroke Meadows, Princess Anne, Providence, Red Mill, Rosemont Forest, Salem, Shelton Park, Strawbridge, Tallwood, Thalia, Thoroughgood, Three Oaks, Trantwood, White Oaks, Windsor Oaks, Windsor Woods, Woodstock.
(locations subject to change)




Hours: school dismissal – 6pm

Cost: $65 Registration Fee (one-time, non-refundable, non-transferrable)
         $248 monthly full fee   $124 monthly reduced fee

Note: A Parks and Recreation Reduced Fee is applicable towards this program.


RISE | Kindergarten – 5th Graders


Locations: Bayside, B.F. Williams, Birdneck, Brookwood, College Park, Diamond Springs, Green Run, Holland, Luxford, Lynnhaven, Newtown, Parkway, Point O’View, Rosemont, Seatack.
(locations subject to change)


Hours: school dismissal – 6pm


Cost:  Registration Fee: $65 (one-time, non-refundable, non-transferrable)

          Monthly: $248 (full fee)   $124 (reduced fee)

 Note: A Parks and Recreation Reduced Fee is applicable towards these programs or e-mail a copy of your child’s 2022/23 School Year Lunch Letter indicating they receive Free or Reduced Lunch to [email protected] to receive the reduced fee rate  


Recreation Center | Kindergarten – 5th Graders

Transportation to the Recreation Centers below, from the corresponding schools is provided by Virginia Beach City Public Schools Transportation (locations are subject to change)

  • Bayside Recreation Center: Hermitage Elementary, Old Donation School, Thoroughgood Elementary
  • Great Neck Recreation Center: Alanton Elementary, John B. Dey Elementary, Old Donation School, Trantwood Elementary
  • Kempsville Recreation Center: Indian Lakes Elementary, Kempsville Elementary, Kempsville Meadows Elementary, Providence Elementary
  • Princess Anne Recreation Center: Old Donation School, Princess Anne Elementary, Strawbridge Elementary, Three Oaks Elementary 

Hours: school dismissal – 6pm 
Cost: $65 Registration Fee (one-time, non-refundable, non-transferrable)
         $348 monthly full fee

How to Register


Standard Registration is available June 4, 2022 – July 31, 2022. Your child must be a current Kindergarten – 5th Grader. If your child is enrolled in PreK, they are not eligible for our after school programs. Once standard registration ends, please complete the Before & After School Interest Form link located to the right of this page under Related Information (one form per child is needed) and a Registration Management Team member will follow up with you in 24-48 hours.  

Complete our required forms and documents managed through ePACT

  • Invitations are sent to the email address on your Parks & Recreation Account within 24 hours after your initial enrollment
  • If you previously completed ePACT for us, a reconfirmation email will be sent if any waivers and consents are required or the information previously submitted is outdated
    • All general, medical and Allergy/Dietary information regarding your child is required
    • At least 2 Emergency Contacts other than a parent/legal guardian is required
      • Emergency Contacts must be at least 18 years of age. Minor Siblings cannot be listed as Emergency Contacts or Authorized to Pick-Up
    • All waivers and consents are required


Required Documents to upload
IF applicable to your child

  • Legal Documents for anyone listed as a Legal Guardian, Caregiver, NOT-Authorized to pick-up or subject to a judicial or custody order
  • Original Birth Certificate &
    Commonwealth of Virginia School Entrance Health Form if you answer NO to the Release of Virginia Beach City Public Schools Student Information Waiver/Consent OR your child does NOT attend a Virginia Beach City Public School
  • Our
    Medication Consent Form and 
    Consent and Release for the Administration of Epinephrine Injections Form  
    • These forms are only valid for one year from the date the doctor authorized (signed)

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Reviews

Preschool Buddies at Kempsville Recreation Center

“The level of education that my son received while under your care was remarkable. It takes a special person to be a teacher with the patience and skills needed to handle toddlers and young children, while also effectively delivering knowledge. The benefits my son is reaping from his previous education with your program are very noticeable. He is in kindergarten at the age of 5 and is now being taught things that he learned in your program at the age of 3.”
– Gloria F.

Preschool Buddies at Princess Anne Recreation Center

“Trust is extremely important to our family. As a whole, the staff at Princess Anne have taken such good care of our daughter. We had an opportunity to go to preschool for free, but because of the wonderful experience we have enjoyed, we ha ve chosen to keep our daughter here. The staff always have a smile, are very affectionate, and show true care and dedication.”
– Catrina W.

Kinderbuddies at Glenwood Elementary

“We wanted to take a moment to make you aware of how appreciative we are for the Kinderbuddies program.  We are a two parent/two child household. We don’t have to tell you how expensive childcare is in this area, but paying for childcare for our 6 year old and an infant is no small bill. We have generally felt ripped off by the whole ‘daycare’ system.  However, with Kinderbuddies this is the first time we can honestly say we got our money’s worth. The peace of mind we had due to our son remaining at his elementary school and not being transported to a center in the middle of the day was worth the $100/week. The program was enriching, fun and educational. Our lead teacher Antoinette was phenomenal.”
– Devail and Nikki E.

Kinderbuddies at Princess Anne Recreation Center

“My son was enrolled in the morning program. He always looked forward to going and has learned so much.  If he was offered, I’m sure he would have stayed all day.  He loved all of the counselors, and I think you have a great program.  One of the best experiences yet with Parks and Rec. I just wanted to thank you because I never had to deal with dropping off an unhappy kid, worrying what he was doing, or how he was being cared for. Thanks for a great program. “
– Renee S.

Kinderbuddies at Thalia Elementary

“While at school, my child spends much of the day in Kinderbuddies. She loves all her teachers, but when asked to pick her favorite, she chose Ms. Candance. She is patient with my daughter and makes learning fun. I am so glad she has a safe, fun learning environment that I can trust her to be in.” 
– Allison G.

KidzQuest Before School Program at White Oaks Elementary

“Mrs. Waters is a bright light of sunshine in the mornings. She greets students and parents with her warm smile and compassionate heart. She always offers to help the students as well as encouraging them to do their best. Many children gravitate toward her. She embodies devotion and enthusiasm. Her acts of selflessness are always appreciated by many parents.”
– Stephanie A.

Windsor Woods Elementary After School Program

“My daughter loves attending this program so much that I receive scowls and dirty looks from her when I arrive too early to pick her up from the afterschool program. The leaders are fun, loving, kind and caring. They treat children and parents with the utmost respect and kindness. They are angels. I know that when I am at work, my child is looked after and cared for.” 
– Jessica G.

Fairfield Elementary After School Program

“The Fairfield Elementary School afterschool staff have continuously done a great job supporting and encouraging our students. As a teacher and parent at FES, I have seen how well the staff members interact with the students. My students cannot wait to get to afterschool! They truly make a difference in every child’s life.”
– Michelle S.

RISE After School Program at Seatack Elementary

“Ms. LaVonia is one of the best caregivers in this program. The kids respect her and always have a smile on when she is there. This community is a better one because of her. As a parent, it is nice to know your child is in good hands. “
– Allen B.

Child Care Programs

Before and After School Extended Learning Programs is now :
VENDOR MANAGED CHILD CARE PROGRAMS (VMCCP)

Parents should contact the vendor representatives to demonstrate your interest in using the vendor’s services.   This information is needed for planning purposes.  More specific instructions regarding enrollment will be distributed once the site capacities are determined by MSDE – Office of Child Care.  An expression of interest to enroll does not guarantee enrollment.

Vendor Contact Details

AlphaBEST Education Inc.
Lavina Harrod
[email protected]
301-632-6804
https://www.alphabest.org/princegeorgecountymd

Champions
Tracy Martin
240-524-3792
[email protected]
Janelle Mercurio
703-473-0456
[email protected]
https://www.discoverchampions.com

Sanbridge Early Learning Centers
Dieneba Traore’
443-757-2938
[email protected]
[email protected]
http://www.Sanbridgeearlylearningcenter.com

YMCA Programs
Carolyn Samuel-King
301-957-8172
Carolyn.Samuel-King@ymcadc. org
https://www.ymcadc.org/locations/ymca-prince-georges-county/school-age-program/

*Updated September 29, 2022*

Thanks to our parent communities for your patience with the licensing process. It is taking longer than anticipated, but do know that we are working diligently to get each site to the goal line.  With this in mind, we have added a color for each step of the process.  A color is placed in the status column for each school and will be updated as each school moves through the process.

Color

Status

Gray

PGCPS is assisting the school site internally, to meet MSDE COMAR regulations in preparation for the next steps with state, county, and local requirements for licensing.

Blue

The Department of Permitting, Inspections, and Enforcement (DPIE) Scheduled

Purple

The vendor has submitted a Notice of Intent and the supporting documents to the Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC)

Orange

Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled

Yellow

MSDE OCC Approved – Preparing to Open

Green

Licensed/Open

   
School Vendor   Opening
Accokeek Academy AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Adelphi @ Old Cherokee Lane Sanbridge Early Learning Center 

The Department of Permitting, Inspections and Enforcement (DPIE) Scheduled

Allenwood AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Apple Grove AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Ardmore AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Arrowhead AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Avalon AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Barack Obama AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Benjamin D. Foulois AlphaBEST Expansion 

Licensed/Opened

Berwyn Heights  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Bond Mill Sanbridge Early Learning Center  Licensed/Opened
Brandywine AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Capitol Heights AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Carrollton Champions Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled
Catherine T. Reed Champions Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled

 

Cherokee Lane (New)

Champions The Department of Permitting, Inspections and Enforcement (DPIE) Scheduled
Clinton Grove AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Concord AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Cool Spring Sanbridge Early Learning Center  Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled
Cora L. Rice AlphaBEST Expansion 

Licensed/Opened

Dora Kennedy French Immersion Sanbridge Early Learning Center  MSDE OCC Approved – Preparing to Open
Doswell E. Brooks AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Edward M. Felegy AlphaBEST Programs Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled
Frances Scott Key AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Gladys Noon Spellman AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Glenarden Woods AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Glenn Dale  Champions  Licensed/Opened 
Greenbelt  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Heather Hills AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
High Bridge YMCA Programs Licensed/Opened
Highland Park AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Hillcrest Heights AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Hollywood Sanbridge Early Learning Center  The vendor has submitted a Notice of Intent and the supporting documents to the Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC)
Hyattsville YMCA Programs Licensed/Opened
Judith P. Hoyer Montessori AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
James McHenry Champions The vendor has submitted a Notice of Intent and the supporting documents to the Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC)
John Bayne AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
John Hanson Montessori AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Kenilworth  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Kettering AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Kingsford AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Lake Arbor AlphaBEST Expansion  Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled
Laurel YMCA Programs Licensed/Opened
Longfields AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Magnolia  Champions  Maryland State Department of Education Office of Childcare Licensing (MSDE OCC) Scheduled
Marlton  Champions  Licensed/Opening 9/26/2022
Mattaponi  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Maya Angelou French Immersion AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Melwood AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Montpelier  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Northview  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Overlook Spanish Immersion AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Panorama AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Patuxent AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Perrywood AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Phyllis E. Williams Spanish Immersion  AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Pointer Ridge  Champions  Licensed/Opening 9/26/2022
Potomac Landing AlphaBEST Expansion 

Licensed/Opened

Robert Goddard Montessori  Champions PGCPS is Assisting School Site- Under Constrution
Robert R. Gray AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Rockledge  Champions  Licensed/Opened
Rosaryville AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Scotchtown Hills Champions  Licensed/Opened
Springhill Lake Champions  Licensed/Opened
Suitland AlphaBEST Programs Licensed/Opened
Tulip Grove Champions  Licensed/Opened
University Park AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Vansville YMCA Programs Licensed/Opened
Waldon Woods AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Whitehall Champions  Licensed/Opened
William Paca AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Woodmore AlphaBEST Expansion  Licensed/Opened
Yorktown Champions  Licensed/Opened

Note: ALL PROGRAMS WILL OPERATE ON SCHOOL SITES

FRIENDLY REMINDER
We are sensitive to the fact that parents/guardians are anxious to receive information about registration and enrollment.   Please keep in mind that all programs will need to be licensed by the state before operations can begin. Vendors and principals will be collaborating to facilitate licensing and enrollment to begin as soon as possible.

Frequently Asked Questions

When will BASELP reopen?

The PGCPS – Before and After School Extended Learning Program will not reopen. The program was terminated February 2021. In order to serve our communities we issued a Request for Proposals (RFP) to offer qualified vendors the opportunity to offer before and after care services at our previous sites.

What is the timeline for having the vendors in place?

Vendors should be identified by June 30, 2021. They will then prepare to obtain their license by meeting the criteria specified by the Maryland State Department’s Office of Childcare Licensing In order to prepare to open Fall 2021. Update: Licensing amidst the Pandemic has presented challenges to licensing sites. Please continue to review the website for the progress of each school location.  

Will or can the school system provide care until the vendors are in place?

The school system does not have the capacity to offer services in lieu of a vendor. Our goal will be to work with the vendors to assist them in getting their license as soon as possible. MSDE is requiring all vendors to obtain their own license to operate.

When can I register for BASELP care? How can I register for BASELP for next year?

The vendor assigned to each school will determine the registration process and the registration timeline. They will reach out to their communities as soon as the awards are made. Schools will be notified of the selected vendor

Is it possible that before/after care will not be available on school sites when school reopens in September?

Opening when school opens is dependent upon licensing. No program can open without the approval of MSDE. In the event this happens, the community will be notified.

What are your recommendations?

We are recommending that you sign up for the school system ALERTS, monitor the PGCPS main website and contact LOCATE: Child Care. LOCATE: Child Care offers free, one-on-one telephone counseling support to find child care in Prince George’s County. Call 1-877-261-0060 to obtain assistance.

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For Parents, Coronavirus Child Care Options Come With Trade-Offs : NPR

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Kirk Gallegos is a single father of four. He works construction in Barstow, Calif. Prudence Carter is a single mother of one. She’s the dean of the Graduate School of Education at the University of California, Berkeley.

Both share the same problem with tens of millions of other parents around the country: Their public schools aren’t operating full time in-person this fall. And the rest of the child care system, which had been stretched even before the pandemic, is itself under pressure.

The child care sector consists for the most part of small businesses and nonprofits supported by a patchwork of public subsidies. Centers and in-home day cares are mostly owned and operated by women, disproportionately women of color, many of whom live at poverty wages. Child care centers and after-school programs have lost income during shutdowns and because of state and local budget cuts, and many have been forced to close for safety reasons. Republicans have proposed $15 billion for the child care sector in the latest coronavirus aid package; Democrats are seeking more than three times that amount.

In the interim, families are being left to improvise. They’re having to consider not only their children’s safety but also their academic progress and their well-being after months of isolation.

“I think parents are just trying to do what they have to do to survive in this moment,” sums up Carter, who is a scholar of inequality in education.

Parents have a few options, but none of them come without trade-offs, and they aren’t available to all families equally.

Option 1: Step back from the workforce

The first resort for parents, and particularly mothers, is working less to take care of their own children. We’re in an employment crisis anyway, but caregiving responsibilities are keeping some parents from even looking for work. A recent survey from the Bipartisan Policy Center found that 55% of Hispanic and 44% of Black parents on unemployment insurance were not planning to or did not accept an offer to return to work due to caregiving needs.

Gallegos, the construction worker, until recently had to juggle job hunting with taking care of his girls, who range in age from 1 to 10. “I would take them with me [on interviews] or [search] online. I didn’t want to use the day care unless I really, really, really needed to.”

For those who have the relative privilege to work from home, there is a subtler toll on productivity and well-being, particularly for mothers. Many are splitting their schedules, getting up early and staying up late to work while children sleep. Carter cites an analysis from her own field of higher education, suggesting that across disciplines, male scholars are producing relatively more work than their female counterparts, more so than before the pandemic.

Even as she’s working to shift policies to make sure that her own faculty, staff and students who are caregivers aren’t penalized for lagging research and publication under these conditions, Carter laments her own loss of “concentrated time.” “It’s really hard to write. I was hoping to get a new project off the ground this summer.”

Option 2: In-home day cares

For school-age children who don’t have a family member to watch them for free, organized group child care and after-school programs are the most common option, according to a recent policy analysis by the Urban Institute. But the pandemic has shut many of those as well, because the group sizes are too large for social distancing and cohorting, or because they’ve lost access to public school buildings, or both.

That leaves the next most popular option: in-home day cares. Pre-pandemic, these small neighborhood businesses took care of 7 million children, including around 30% of infants and toddlers, according to the nonprofit Home Grown. Across the country almost all of these providers are women, and almost half are women of color.

In-home care is the most affordable option for most families, too — averaging around $300 a week for up to 11 or 12 hours a day, depending on the location and the age of children. The costs tend to be lower if you qualify for public subsidies.

Because of their size, these in home day cares have fewer licensing requirements. And industry experts said less staffing and overhead mean that women who run their own home-based day cares can make more money than they can in a standalone center.

“The long-term vision of our company is to get more people to actually start their own home day care,” said Jessica Chang, CEO of WeeCare. WeeCare is a platform that works sort of like a Lyft for in-home day cares, making thousands of these businesses searchable and helping with overhead such as marketing and billing.

Chang and Chris Bennett of Wonderschool, a similar platform, both argue this is a model that is nimble enough potentially to scale up to meet the sudden demand for care for school-age children — if it had the right support.

“We’re getting a lot of interest from folks who want to start micro-schools, and a number of our providers are expanding, too,” Bennett said.

Gallegos qualified for a county subsidy to send his four daughters to Little Barstow WeeCare. He drops them off at 6:30 or 7 a.m. and picks them up in the evening. “They love it. I drop them off, and sometimes they forget to say bye, they’re running down the hallway to do whatever they want to do,” he said.

Maria Jensen, the owner-operator, helped him get in touch with the principal at his older daughters’ public school to make sure they would have computers to do their schoolwork. When school starts remotely Aug. 10, Jensen will oversee them while they study.

“I talked to a few other day cares, they said they had room and they could take them, but they weren’t doing the school part — the academic part,” Gallegos said. “That was one of the most important parts to me.”

Natalie Renew directs Home Grown, a nonprofit dedicated to improving the quality of in-home child care. She said many centers already take older kids after school, and she sees this sector stepping up to care for school-age children during the day.

“We’re definitely hearing that there is demand, and providers are getting calls from parents as school districts release their plans for the fall,” she said.

But even as demand is growing, supply is in danger of falling. Child care providers who lost head count and revenue during shutdowns are in danger of losing not only their businesses but their homes. Without a bailout, Renew said, “It’s really sort of looking over the edge of a cliff. Many, many providers are already starting to close.”

Health and safety is another key concern for in-home providers, as it is for anywhere people gather indoors during the pandemic. Renew said there isn’t a lot of good evidence yet on just how safe these settings might be. But there are hopes that, “given the small group size of home-based child care, that the threat of transmission may be lower there.

Ani Angel Gharibian runs Busy Bee, another WeeCare, in Los Angeles. She serves many children of essential workers, and is investing in desks and other equipment to expand to take in more school-age kids during the day, as LA schools are coming back online-only. She said it’s impossible to socially distance from infants, and she doesn’t like making children wear masks all day, because, she said, it’s bad for their language development and makes them “timid.” She and her employees are nervous, but she said, “People are desperate for income at the moment. So even if they do have some reservations, priorities take over.”

Option 3: “Pandemic pod”

One of the options that’s gotten the most attention is associated with families of greater means — variously known as a “learning pod,” or “pandemic pod.” Generally, this means getting together a group of a few children to share the cost of a tutor, typically hosted at families’ homes.

Ivan Kerbel is the founder of the Seattle area Facebook group for founders of what he calls “pandemic-era nano-schools. ” He has two young children. Like so many parents, he said he’s “in this impossible pickle of child care, parenting and schooling while doing our ostensible jobs.”

Kerbel also wants his children to be able to play safely with other kids and to learn subjects such as math and science by cooking and gardening, not just on the computer.

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So he started this group to find other families who were interested in doing the same. There are now over 4,000 members in the Seattle area. Pandemic pod matchmaking groups such as these have sprung up quickly all over the country. And the critiques have come just as fast and furious. In Oakland, Calif., a group of 14 public school principals signed an open letter this week criticizing the practice.

One aspect that particularly bothers critics is the idea of hiring teachers directly away from public schools who may be wary of the classroom this fall for safety reasons. Melinda Anderson, a journalist covering education and equity, calls the practice “pandemic-driven opportunity hoarding.” “Opportunity hoarding” is a sociological concept that basically means a group in power is grabbing up resources and excluding a less powerful group. Anderson said, “Parents forming pandemic pods and micro-schools did not create school inequalities, but they’re certainly exacerbating inequalities by seeking out options unavailable to everyone.”

Some critics have gone further. A Washington Post column compared the practice to that of white families a half-century ago seceding from the public school system and forming “segregation academies” in resistance to Brown v. Board of Education.

Carter, the dean of the Graduate School of Education at Berkeley, doesn’t see things in quite those terms. “Is this like post-Brown? I don’t think so. I think the country’s consciousness is at a different level.” Casting these issues in terms of race and class leaves out affluent, educated parents of color such as herself, she said, and “there is a presumption that working-class and poor parents don’t want these pods themselves.

Carter happens to be thinking about forming a learning pod, not only to get more time to write, but also because her son is lonely. “My child is crying, as an only child, saying, ‘I miss my friends.’ ” At the same time, as a scholar, she said she’s ” thinking about how to minimize the impact of privilege on children’s learning.”

For example, Carter said it’s important that pandemic pods be as temporary and informal as possible, and that families keep their spot in public schools, if possible, using the remote learning offered by the district, so that schools can hold on to the funding. She doesn’t like the idea of parents going fully out on their own — leasing spaces and forming more permanent micro-schools.

“I am not interested in the privatization of public education and this becoming an alternative.” She also suggests that parents of means not push their children too hard academically this year. Everyone will have catching up to do when in-person schooling resumes, and age-based standards, she said, are arbitrary anyway. “I don’t know about you, but when I was a little girl, I wasn’t reading by the end of kindergarten.”

One idea that’s popped up to address equity concerns is to have each pod include a sliding scale or scholarship spot. Kerbel said he’s trying to institute a rule in his Seattle group: “If you have a group of four kids, the fourth kid is free, if you have a group of five kids, the fifth kid is free.” For example, Kerbel said that he’s planning to set up ukulele lessons for his 5-year-old. He is in touch with a local refugee resettlement agency to see if a Somali refugee child is able to join.

Carter cautions that pods that include a “diversity” slot also have to work hard to be inclusive. “What are you going to do socially and culturally to make sure that that child feels deeply included?”

Kerbel has personal experience with this. He said when he emigrated from Eastern Europe as a child, barely speaking English, a classmate was assigned to be his friend. He remembers feeling grateful.

He added that he feels that children are going to learn not only math or music right now but also directly from the choices we make: “How did their parents respond to the pandemic? Did they widen their social circle? Did they broaden their horizons? Or did they just sort of hunker down and, you know, shut the rest of the world out?”

Carter sees the pandemic magnifying all kinds of inequities, but in some ways it’s also putting many different kinds of families in the same boat.

“We don’t have leadership. Resources are so minimal. And so people are trying to use their innovation to just make things work so that they can actually continue to support the families.”

6 tips on when to change schools and why it is not at all scary, and sometimes even useful

Changing schools is a serious decision. And very often stress for the child. Everyone is afraid of change. Even if the school does not suit you at all – neither the child nor you, we still do not dare to change it and are afraid that the child will only get worse. But sometimes you really need to change schools, and your fears are in vain. About when to think about another school – psychologist Irina Belyaeva.

Parents are trying to find “their” school. So that the place where you spend most of your time for 11 years is comfortable, makes the child smarter and happier. If a child is unhappy at school, if it is frankly boring there, or if the school has become simply a life-threatening and health-threatening place. What then? Then the school can and should be changed.

The most dangerous thing is to think that “hating school is normal”, “children and teachers are the same everywhere”, or “it all needs to be experienced”. Dangerous, because there is nothing that a person “just experiences.” From the experience of childhood, our personality, our character and our future are formed. And leaving a child in a place he hates, you are unlikely to “harden his character.” Rather, on the contrary: teach humility and self-doubt. Yes, you and I somehow grew up, but our parents often simply had nothing to choose from.

Of course, you should not run to pick up documents as soon as the child loudly announced his hatred of the school. Maybe today is just a bad day. Or a deuce. Or something else. But in some cases, it is worth thinking about changing schools. And not only when you moved to a remote area and the child has to take an hour and a half to get to school by train.


When school needs to be changed

1. The child is not interested in anything at all

Is not fond of anything, has completely stopped playing (and at primary school age this is very important), refuses new experiences (trips, hikes, games) , withdraws into himself, complains of a headache. Here you need to talk with a teacher, and sometimes with a psychologist, in order to understand how the school program, environment or team suits your child. At this point, many parents will probably say: “It’s boring, nothing is interesting – just about mine!”. But don’t jump to conclusions. Perhaps the child is not interested in what seems important to you, but there is a sea of ​​​​other “unimportant” hobbies (in your opinion).

2. Everything comes easily to him, but he frankly misses the lessons

Your son or daughter is an excellent student, he succeeds in everything, teachers love him, everything is done with one hand. You can just be happy, but sometimes you should ask yourself and your child: is there any challenge in studying, can your child realize his potential in this school? Still, development takes place on the verge of what we can and cannot do. It may be worth finding a school of the right level. But not before high school. In elementary school, it is important for children to feel competent and not be stressed by grades.

3. The teacher’s teaching methods (sometimes harsh) are not suitable for the child

Some children find it difficult to learn from a teacher with a tough work style. Sensitive children begin to worry, and this only slows down learning. It seems that responsible children are only helped by excessive severity: they jump up at night, remembering that they did not do their homework, and worry about school duties. At the same time, they lose all interest (after all, there is only one motivation – to avoid negativity) and earn neurosis, insomnia and a persistent rejection of learning. Intellectual development should be based on psychological security and trust, and not notes in the diary and calls to the director.

4. School is too hard to study. And the child feels like a failure

Difficult program, inappropriate study profile (the child is strong in languages, and you sent him to a mathematical school), he is more interested in what is taught outside the school (sports, art). If a person constantly thinks that something does not work out for him or that it turns out worse than everyone else, learned helplessness is formed. At some point, we just say to ourselves: “I’m not given, I won’t even try.”

5. Everyone laughs at the child and even mocks

Bullying, humiliation, ridicule is a direct threat to the psyche of children. And not only those who were victims, but also those who were witnesses or initiators. At the slightest sign of bullying (boycott, name-calling), you need to intervene. You wouldn’t watch a kid run across a freeway hoping “somehow it’ll work out”. And if not?

If it seems that teachers or school administration do not take the problem seriously, and the child is suffering, immediately remove him from school. The main thing is not to think that it will be exactly the same in other schools – this thought puts you in the same camp with those who bullied the child or ignored the problem, believing that “the victim is to blame.” It will be different in other schools.

6. Everyone at school has the latest iPhones—and you can’t afford that

The school’s values ​​don’t match those of your family. There are gymnasiums in which the children of a single mother with a librarian’s salary and the heirs of the directors of large corporations sit at the same desk and there are no problems. Even if some are resting in Barbados, while others are at their dacha in Komarovo. It is important what values ​​the school itself transmits. If “white people” are only mathematicians, and the ability of a child to stand on one hand while quoting Shakespeare causes sarcastic grins, it is worth considering whether you have made the wrong door.


What parents most often fear (in vain) when they think about changing schools

The child will not be able to find new friends Yes, relationships with former classmates most often break. Again, you need to go through the assessment stage, look for your place in the class. The ability to build relationships with people is an important skill in life, if you do not plan to spend ten years in one school, then five years in one university, and then for the rest of your life – in one research institute. And how can you learn to quickly build new relationships if you spend ten years in the same team, with the same main bully or nerd. The change of school is an occasion to finally get rid of all the labels attached in the fifth grade and gain communication skills.

There will be new teachers that the child will not get along with . For a long time we got used to the teachers of the previous school, got used to their requirements. They knew our child for several years. And what will happen in the new one? What if a bad teacher comes along? Yes, it happens, but there are still more good teachers than bad ones. Believe me.

Have to say goodbye to the status of an excellent student . This can also be, but sometimes it is necessary and important to try your hand at a new place. All fears are connected with the fear of changes and the emergence of new people, rules, knowledge. One simple thought can help parents here: all life is change and adaptation to the new. And the ability to learn new things is just the same study that lasts a lifetime. In the new circumstances, parents should not abandon the child and simply step aside – on the contrary, they should carefully help and always support.


How to help your child when he/she has moved (or is about to move) to a new school

, most likely, there will be a couple of guys who share the interests of your child. And there is also an excellent chemical laboratory and a cool basketball court! Discuss this with your child.

2. Don’t forget to be sad about what you part with

And even if the school was not the way we would like, there will always be something to mourn and say goodbye to. Whether it’s one favorite teacher, a robotics club, or holidays every sixth week.

3. Organize a “get-together” with the new school

Take your child to the school for an open event or open day. Take a walk around the school, look for a cafe nearby where you can have a bite to eat after school with friends. Going to school won’t be so scary anymore.

4. Ask teachers or students to help at first

Ask if it is possible to organize a trip for the child. Talk to the future class teacher about how best to introduce the child to the class. The teacher is also interested in the fact that the adaptation of beginners takes place quickly. Perhaps you should make a presentation about the child’s hobbies or bring a couple of items important to him that would tell about his interests. It’s great if at school children help beginners at first.

My children have changed schools several times. When we moved to the USA in the middle of the school year, we were pleasantly surprised to see “welcome” posters in Russian on the classroom doors. And on their first day at school, the whole morning was devoted to stories about Russia.

5. Ask your child about the new school: how everything works there, what works and what doesn’t, what are the names of classmates

Do not focus on studies and academic achievements, even if the grades first creep down. Be sure to take the time to discuss the school day, discoveries, and disappointments. Ask the names of classmates, what they like and dislike, who they would like to make friends with, what was at recess today. Talk about the teaching style of teachers, what habits and features they have.

6. At first, help the child get ready for school (if he allows)

They are met by clothes, so at first it would be good to help the child look after the appearance. No, you don’t need to buy expensive branded clothes. And just help neatly style your hair, make sure that the trousers are not wrinkled, and the backpack is not torn.

7. Ask your acquaintances (and acquaintances) whether anyone studied/studies at this school

Maybe one of the friends studied here. Or neighbor Ivan Petrovich worked. They could share their impressions, give some advice. This will help reduce anxiety. Both yours and the child. Especially if the reviews are good. And if not, it’s also a reason to think again.

8. Meet the parents and teachers, you can even arrange a class trip

You can take time off from work to take your child and his new classmates to the Hermitage. What for? It’s one thing to listen endlessly to stories about the abstract Sidorov and Kukushkina, but it’s quite another thing to imagine a very specific laughing brown-eyed sixth-grader or a lanky teenager in big headphones and blue bangs.


The main thing is to understand: if something seriously does not suit you and your child at school, you can change everything. Gymnasiums and lyceums, homeschooling and boarding schools, the courtyard school of your childhood and an innovative educational institution that opened on the other side of the city – something will definitely suit you. Well, if not, you can always create your own school. That’s also possible.

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problems faced by young parents

When circumstances separate a child, leaving the decree is frightening and frustrating. Returning to work is stressful, but in the case of a child, guilt can also fall on the parent. “Sometimes others condemn a woman’s attempts to do everything, and she begins to consider herself a bad mother,” says Marina Kovalevskaya, an expert in working with human potential, Smart course. Unsolicited advice is given by relatives, friends and even strangers.

While the child is very small, maternity weekdays are oppressive. But with age, spending time with the baby is more and more interesting, but breaking away from him is more difficult, although the child himself quickly learns independence.

“I really wanted to return to work when the child was a year old: the feeling of a constant groundhog day was so strong that sometimes I recalled with nostalgia how I worked until 9-10 pm, but every day I did something new,” shared Ksenia Filatova, Director of Management staff in the Russian office of the British Council. – When my son was two years old, it became much more interesting to walk, play, read books with him. We baked pancakes together in the morning and caught squirrels in the park. I was afraid that when I went to work, I would not be able to devote time to my son, but this turned out not to be the case. He now needs my constant presence much less.

A conversation with those who went to work removes many fears: all the parents who survived will at least calm and remove the fear for the child. If the team in the company has remained the same, before going out it is worth talking with colleagues, finding out what has changed during the absence. New information will help you navigate what awaits you, and it will be easier to make a decision.

“I came out of the decree ahead of schedule, for financial reasons. The most difficult thing for me was to send my youngest child to kindergarten. He was only two years old, and I was very worried about how he would be so small there without me,” said Olga Korotkikh, Leading Software Engineer at Infotrans Research and Production Center. “I didn’t worry about my condition. I had good relations in the team, they were waiting for me there. So I went to work with a sense of satisfaction. It was very nice that something spun with me at work, spun.

Changes in the routine of life are inevitable. Some cases will receive the status of optional, they simply will not have enough time. Gradually, the family will enter a new rhythm, but this takes time. “Of course, it became more difficult for me to cope with everything – household chores, activities with children, and even work,” says Olga Korotkikh. “My husband helped me. We try to do something on the day off, but we just stopped worrying about something – we both work and do not have time for everything, this is normal.

Changes in a mother’s life often coincide with new stages of growing up a child. He begins to be interested in other people and is no longer so acutely experiencing separation. This removes some of the anxieties that may bother mom at work. “I realized that the relationship with my husband and child is more important to me. Therefore, after returning to work, the cleanliness in the apartment and the variety of dishes on the table suffer, but it seems that this only bothers me, ”says Ksenia Filatova. Recognition of change helps to establish a new life: when a young family has agreed on the distribution of responsibilities and household chores, the conditions do not seem so hostile.

Confidential communication with colleagues helps to get into a working rhythm. Psychologist Marina Kovalevskaya advises choosing those with whom it is pleasant to communicate and stick to this circle. Find someone to go to lunch with or ask for advice: In the first two weeks, emotional support is very important.

“After a long break, it’s hard to restore professional skills, learn to communicate with people again without getting lost on infant topics, cope with anxiety for a child who is left without you, build your day according to a new schedule and have time to be a mother, wife, colleague and yourself” – said Ksenia Filatova.

A good way to get distracted and relax, to strike up a conversation with other employees is a family photo on the desktop. Colleagues are also happy to chat about children and share experiences. Feelings of unity and belonging are very important at the stage of entering the work.

A long break for parental leave can affect the quality of work: after the decree, employees can make mistakes more often and need to be accompanied at the first stage. The manager is interested in the fact that the work goes on without stopping, and an employee with a small child often has to be released on sick leave. In some companies, this becomes a problem.

Marina Kovalevskaya notes that, oddly enough, male bosses are more loyal to employees who have recently come out of the decree. Women leaders who have successfully dealt with their children often transfer their story to subordinates, are more responsive to requests for sick leave or remote work. In this case, it is better to talk honestly and calmly with the boss, acknowledge the problem and agree on a solution that suits everyone.

Develop a plan with your boss – what to do if you need to urgently go to the child. Agree on when you can stay at work and solve the problem remotely, and when you can go home. Discuss the possibility of doing part of the work from home.

“Of course, I sometimes take time off work to see doctors, take sick leave. I can’t say that the boss is delighted with this, but she treats with understanding. She also has children and grandchildren, there were no grandparents who helped educate. Therefore, she is familiar with such situations, she goes forward,” says Olga Korotkikh.

The fatigue and stress that comes with change deplete your energy reserves. Asking for help can be difficult, and the to-do list is ever-growing. Giving yourself a break seems like stealing that time from your family or from the deadlines of an important project.

“Not everything went smoothly for me, I got tired. If it’s work stress, I ask you to give me half an hour to be alone, pour a glass of wine and meditate. If the thought overtakes me that I am a bad housewife, I reassure myself that it is impossible to do everything in time. If I’m upset that my son is growing up without a mother, while I’m at work, I look at photos of how they play, draw, and sculpt in kindergarten. In general, you need to exhale and find a positive. Or feel sorry for yourself a little and continue to live on, ”says Ksenia Filatova.

Tiredness and a desire to be alone is normal. “Due to anxiety, a woman may experience poor sleep, an unstable emotional state, a feeling of loneliness and vulnerability. Here you can advise to go in for sports, walks and relaxation are needed, meditation helps some. You can keep a diary and share your experiences with a loved one. If necessary, contact a psychologist, ”advises Marina Kovalevskaya. To relax and switch after work, it is useful to sit for 30 minutes in silence and agree with loved ones to give you some rest.

  1. Decide to separate from your child. The kid is growing, he is already interested in other children, a different environment. He is ready to be separated from his parents for a while – to be in kindergarten or with a nanny.
  2. Ask for advice from parents who have already passed the stage of adaptation to work. Find out how they coped at first, share doubts.
  3. Get peer support. Other employees who have children will understand your concerns. Adaptation will be easier if you have confidence in your colleagues and their attitude towards you.
  4. Come to terms with change. The balance between work and household chores rests on your peace of mind. If you can’t manage to be everywhere, allow yourself a little “imperfection”.
  5. Negotiate with the boss. Discuss what to do if your child is sick and you are called home urgently. This will help reduce anxiety before such situations.
  6. Take care of yourself. If even 10 minutes is not left for yourself, ask your loved ones for help. The first time after the decree is the most difficult. With the support of family and friends, you will cope much easier.

How to profitably explain the lack of experience in your resume

At the first steps of creating a resume on hh.ru, you need to note whether you have work experience or not. If there is no experience, you must indicate the reason: for example, study, maternity leave, military service, pension, change of profession, or the fact that you have been looking for work in recent years. You can also specify your own option if it differs from all those offered. Or formulate in other words, paint in more detail.

A resume without experience and without explaining the reasons why it is missing will not pass moderation on hh.ru. The fact is that resumes without experience are not of interest to 80% of employers, and the ambiguity of the reasons why there is no experience raises suspicions that the applicant is hiding something or the resume is fake.

We tell you how to avoid blocking your resume and how to make it better in the eyes of employers.

If you have recently graduated from a university, college, school, or are still studying, your lack of experience is understandable. But before choosing option “No work experience” , think: is it definitely not there? If you have completed summer internships and internships, this is already experience, and it is worth mentioning it. Here is an example. More detailed recommendations on what should be written in a resume for a novice specialist can be found here.

If during your studies you worked not at all in your specialty (for example, as a salesperson, waiter, call center operator), and now you are looking for your first job in your specialty, this is no reason to hide your experience. It will be useful to you – we also talked about this.

Let’s say you haven’t had any internships or internships, unskilled work either. But for sure there is some other information about the period of study that will help draw the attention of employers to you. For example, you wrote a thesis on a topic that is important for the area where you are looking for a job. This should be indicated in the window immediately after mark “No work experience” . In the resume, it will appear in the “About me” section.

Suspicious case – when studies are indicated as the reason for the lack of experience, but it is clear from the age and year of graduation that you are not yesterday’s graduate. It seems that the data in the resume is unreliable or incomplete.

Explain your situation more precisely in your resume. For example, your graduation time coincided with the birth of your children, and you did not go to work while you were raising them. Or all the time after your studies you are looking for a job in your specialty, but so far without success.

We interviewed employers and we know that they are interested in information about a candidate’s work experience over the past 5 years in a resume. Of course, this does not apply to novice specialists who do not yet have and cannot have such experience. Representatives of working specialties also do not have to describe their experience for 5 years – you can limit yourself to the last place of work.

In other cases, if you indicated less than 5 years of experience in your resume, the moderators will compare your age or year of graduation with the current year to understand whether you are a beginner specialist or not. If the data does not converge, it will seem that your resume has incomplete information. For example, it is clear that you finished your studies a long time ago, but your work experience is indicated only for the last year or two.

It is better to explain such inconsistencies immediately when creating a resume. In any case, employers will have questions about this. Let’s list a few typical situations – perhaps you will recognize your own among them.

The simplest example is that you devoted yourself to raising children for several years. Or they were forced to solve problems with their own health or care for a seriously ill family member. They were in search of a new job for a long time or took a pause on purpose to recover from a stressful project or take a break before changing their career vector. They were engaged in self-development – they learned languages, mastered new skills, received additional education. They retired, and now they decided to work again.

In a word, there are many options, but there should be some reasonable explanation for your long unemployment over the past 5 years in your resume. Write about it in the “About Me” section.

In some cases, it is worth thinking carefully about the wording so that potential employers do not interpret it to your disadvantage. We wrote more about it here.

Your career has developed quite logically. But at some point, I had to leave the professional path for the sake of more money or because I could not find options for my specialty at that time. Or you tried your hand at another profession, but were disappointed and decided to return.

There is nothing to be ashamed of, many people find themselves in such situations. There are teachers and doctors who left to work as sales managers, and then decided to return. There are lawyers who worked part-time as drivers between two jobs in their specialty. There are financiers who went into creative professions, but realized that it was a dream of castles in the air.

Whether to write about that “turn to the left” in the resume when you are looking for a job in your specialty again is a big question. On the one hand, why is he needed there if he is clearly out of the general career path? On the other hand, an incomprehensible, unexplained gap will also raise questions. And if, because of it, your total work experience indicated in the resume turns out to be less than 5 years, although, judging by the age and time of graduation, it should be clearly more, then the resume may not pass moderation.

Compromise: write in a streamlined way in the “About me” section that at some time you tried yourself in another professional field that is not related to your main profession. If asked during an interview, explain in more detail.

Some people understand the essence of the “Work Experience” section too formally: allegedly, only work for hire can be indicated here, and if you worked for yourself as an entrepreneur or freelancer, then you should not write about it in your resume. No – it should be indicated, because this is also your professional experience.

For example, you were an accountant all your life, and then retrained as a web designer. Or a fitness trainer. Or decide to become a nanny. Now you are looking for your first job in a new specialty, so the previous experience in the resume seems to be no longer needed. Or you are looking for not the first job in a new capacity, but in general your experience in this area is less than 5 years, and your age is not like that of young specialists.

First of all, the experience in the former specialty is not so useless. You just don’t want to write it out in as much detail on your resume as you would if you were looking for an accountant job again. But it’s worth mentioning briefly, emphasizing which skills from your previous profession may be useful to you in your new one.

In addition, seeing your previous experience, the employer understands that you spent all these years not in an unknown place, but in business – you just decided to change direction since then. Now this, fortunately, happens more and more often and does not cause much surprise.

Second, write in plain text in the “About me” section that before such and such a year you had a different profession. This will remove questions – and there will be no reasons for inconsistencies.

For example, over the past 5 years, you once (or more than once) experienced a dismissal under the article or left somewhere with a scandal. You, for obvious reasons, do not want to stir up that story. It seems that if you just keep silent about that place of work, as if it didn’t exist at all, then this will save you from problems, because then potential employers will not be interested in your person there, and, if you’re lucky, they won’t really look into your work book.

Alas, if your work experience for the last 5 years is rendered incomplete by this gap, an explanation is still required. Both for resume moderation and when communicating with potential employers, if you go to them without going through hh.ru.

Therefore, that experience still needs to be indicated. You just need to carefully consider your position in case you are asked at an interview about the reasons for leaving there. In the end, conflict layoffs are not always the fault of the workers themselves. And you can always say about the useful conclusions drawn from that story.

You have changed a lot of jobs and tried yourself in different specialties. Or the situation was such that they grabbed for any options. Now you have finally decided on the direction and prefer not to indicate in the resume those employers who are “off topic” for this main direction.

This situation is very similar to the one described under number 2, only I want to hide not one “extra” job, but several at once. And because of this, a resume looks even more suspicious in the eyes of a potential employer.

This is not an easy case: if you write in the “About me” section that you tried yourself in other professional fields seven times, the effect will be about the same as if you list all your jobs. But in any case, you have to think about how to explain these throwing and convince the employer that this time everything is serious. Or look for a field where you need just such a versatile experience as yours. It is possible that somewhere this can become your advantage.

If you need help with the wording of your resume, order a ready-made resume from hh.ru specialists. They will do it taking into account all the nuances of your experience.

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Stories of mothers who regret having children

  • Jean Mackenzie, Nina Nazarova Derby-Russian Program

    903 BBC Victoria Service

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Most parents admit that raising children is hard work. But at the same time, they argue, the joy that children bring outweighs all possible difficulties and problems. However, there are mothers who regret having children. Five women from the UK and Russia told what it’s like to secretly repent of your motherhood.

Rachel

“If I could turn back time, I would never have children,” says Rachel, now in her fifties.

She has three children – the youngest of whom is now 17 – and has been a single mother most of the time.

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Rachel admits she didn’t think too much about how having children would affect her life

“There were times when I didn’t feel mature enough to take responsibility for someone else – this little man who needed me to survive, – says the woman. – It seemed to me that motherhood is an endless cycle: you put a bottle or food in your child’s mouth so that it comes out the other end – and at what point should it become fun? I just wanted to scream. If you dreamed of motherhood, then it’s great – now you have everything you wanted. But if you do not have a motherly instinct, then you are trapped. ”

Rachel admits that she didn’t think too much about how having children would affect her life – if she understood this, she would never have given birth.

“But I feel guilty [for thinking that] because I love my children so much,” she says.

“You realize you weren’t a good mother, and that’s the guilt you feel all the time, it never goes away. And you think, do your kids know about this?” Rachel says. “But life shouldn’t be about to give up yourself and your freedom for their lives?”

The woman says it’s hard to admit it to anyone because “people start thinking you’re a bad person.”

But Rachel desperately needs to connect with women who have experienced the same. “I felt very lonely. It seemed to me that something was wrong with me. If I could talk about it with someone who would understand me, it would be easier for me to cope with motherhood,” she explains.

How often does this happen?

It is impossible to say exactly how many women feel this way, because few people talk about it openly.

In 2015, Israeli sociologist Orna Donat published a study talking to women who regret having children. She described these feelings as “an unexamined maternal experience.”

Women interviewed claim that this is not the same as postpartum depression.

Alison

“I imagined a happy little family, a house with a garden and kids running to school – a fairy tale,” says Alison. She was an adopted child and always dreamed of starting her own family. But having given birth to her first child – a son – she found that she did not experience maternal feelings. Desperate to get out of her new role, she returned to work just six months after giving birth.

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Alison says she didn’t know how to play with her child

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“I was thinking about taking the day off and leaving the baby with the nanny so I could have a day for myself,” says the woman. “It’s not that I didn’t want to spend time with him I just didn’t know what to do with him, how to play with him.”

Alison and her husband did not want their son to be an only child and had another one. Now both boys are studying at the university.

A woman admits that if she knew what her motherhood would be like, she would not give birth: “Other people’s needs and desires come to the fore. The mantra of the last two decades has been: “If everyone is happy, then I am happy.” Sometimes it’s a bit annoying. I could have had a better career. But for 15 years I took the kids to and from school, it really limited my career growth”

Alison emphasizes that she loves her children, but admits that her nature is too selfish for motherhood.

According to her, many women don’t talk about it for fear of being judged: “They don’t want to be seen as selfish. The point is, if you don’t want children, then you’re a bad mother.”

Joy, who gave birth to a daughter 20 years ago, soon realized that she did not want to be a mother. “Everyone talks about the wild fairy-tale love that they experience after the birth of a child. But I didn’t feel anything like that. I only felt a huge responsibility,” she says.

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Joy says she lacks maternal instincts

Joy struggles to look at her daughter’s first years with love. “It was hard. Everyday hard work,” she recalls. “I think all mothers go through this, I just couldn’t find anything that could give me pleasure. It was dark.”

A woman thinks that she simply does not have a motherly instinct: “It seems that I do not have the ability to be a loving, kind and warm mother. For a long time I thought maybe other mothers are just joking when they describe the joys of their motherhood, and one day they will tell the truth?”

Joy says she wanted to get back to work, pursue a career and go into business, and motherhood gave her more trouble. The woman knows that her daughter often doubted her love. “But I love her. It’s just that our connection is not so close,” she says.

Joy believes that if more women were open about their feelings, they would be less pressured to become mothers. “There are more people like me than you think,” she insists. “It would be really great if women were honest with themselves. If taking care of children and family is really important to you, then put your whole soul into it. But if you feel that this is not for you, then do not be afraid and don’t be ashamed to stand up and say, “I’m not the type to want to be a mother. I don’t want kids.”

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Maria

Similar experiences occur in women of all ages and experiences, regardless of their country of residence.

According to Maria – she lives with her husband and two children in Moscow – in her case they were caused by the very specifics of the parent-child relationship, where the parent gives more than he receives.

“It is impossible to hide from these relationships or say “not this week” or “not today”. and he doesn’t hear at all that mom has a headache or that mom doesn’t want to go for a walk,” the girl explains. “If we talk about the simplest things, now it seems fantastic to me that once I could take a shower whenever I want. Or, say, she wanted to rush to Suzdal and rushed.

According to Maria, neither movies nor mass media show motherhood realistically: they are either ideal women with ideal babies, or caricature tortured mothers, but also without details. As a result, when Maria had a son at the age of 29, she had “expectations of a gift baby.”

“What did I think when I didn’t have children? I thought that when a baby appears in my life, I will cook super healthy deflop with acai berries, and the child will sleep and not shine, and if he wakes up, he will look at the spinning mobile, then I will put it on the developing mat on my stomach, and it will lie and say “aha-aha,” the girl recalls with irony. “In short, I didn’t understand at all that it would be a person who very strong needs and who can do nothing at all to satisfy them. That he will need help to do everything: sleep, eat, poop, play, live. ”

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Pop culture, mass media and advertising traditionally embellish motherhood

At the same time, society is very demanding on mothers literally from the first day of a child’s life: “When my oldest was born son, he uttered the first cry and continued to scream – he almost does not stop now. And in the middle of the night a nurse ran in the maternity hospital: “Why is he screaming like that? What are you doing with him?” Of course, I immediately felt like a terrible mother.”

Due to all these factors, after the birth of her son, Maria developed postpartum depression. “It was unbearable for me to be with the child. From two months he had a nanny six days a week for ten hours a day, and I panicked when the seventh day came, and I had to be left alone with him.”

Maria went to a psychotherapist and started taking antidepressants.

“As psychotherapy began to work and my level of awareness in parenthood increased, the nanny worked less,” the girl recalls. “By eight months she stayed twice a week for half a day, and by the year I completely abandoned the nanny, because my boundaries turned on, I realized that sometimes I have the right to refuse something to a child, that sometimes it’s okay to find a compromise. I stopped evaluating myself as a mother: I’m just the way I am.

According to Maria, the main person with whom she can discuss her feelings is her husband: “He also openly tells me that sometimes you want to turn on the remote control for children and turn them off or cancel them.” The girl is quite frank with her friends: “I can’t openly say that I regret that I have children, but I can say: “How cool it would be to go dancing until the morning now.” However, she does not count on the understanding of her parents and assumes that they are likely to condemn such feelings.

Now there are two children in the family, and Maria was able to find a regimen that suits her and, thanks to psychotherapy, get rid of shame for her emotions: “The feeling that I regret having children ceases to be predominant, but still this feeling happens And I learned to just accept it and not feel guilty for it.”

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Young mothers often complain on social media that they can’t shower or even go to the bathroom alone

Elena

For Elena from St. Petersburg, motherhood turned out to be connected with a “feeling of a cage” and “a virtual ban on oneself.”

“In our culture, when a child is born, a woman loses her right to herself and becomes a 24/7 attendant. Both physically and emotionally,” says a young mother of two children, eight and one and a half years old.

Elena explains that she repeatedly heard the words addressed to her: “Why did you give birth then?” – “The message is that if you are already harnessed, then you must completely pull everything, and your needs are somewhere in the background. You have no right to get tired. You have no right to your desires. And the worst thing is that the general domestic torture does not even give you the opportunity to remember your desires, and at some point you just stop wanting.”

The woman relates this to the fact that caring for children is still considered the prerogative of mothers and, at best, grandmothers, but not fathers. “In words, everything is great, but in reality my husband has his own life,” says Elena. “He goes about his own business and can occasionally come up to pat the child on the head. Yes, he is ready to give all his best and earn money, but the real everyday life is completely on me “To the extent that how to wipe a child’s bottom, he does not really understand. Of course, each wiped bottom is not important in itself, but in the end they add up in an endless series.”

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Traditional roles in the family mean that caring for children is exclusively a woman’s responsibility. As a result, mothers may feel isolated.

In addition, mothers face the specific problems of being “totally overwhelmed”. “I can’t stand it when they touch me with their hands. This is a feeling very familiar to mothers of young children – a feeling of being touched: when you are constantly touched, pinched, grabbed, someone is always on the handles,” Elena gives an example. “As a result, when a husband comes up and starts stroking my head, I just clench my teeth and wait for it to end. It is extremely difficult to explain this to a person without children. And most importantly, they will immediately ask me – how is it, these are your children, you love them, they are the same miraculous?”

A young woman admits that she now perceives even the pleasure of communicating with children as “a little Stockholm syndrome”: “I can’t do anything, I just completely lost myself, I don’t understand what I want, what is happening the only desire is to hide somewhere and sit for five minutes so that no one touches me with their hands. But they are wonderful, but this is happiness. ”

At the same time, according to Elena, until recently she could not even admit such feelings to herself, because “there is a huge taboo inside.” The culture in which Elena was brought up implies that “children are automatically happiness, this is the main thing that we have in life, the most important thing.